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as long as i can remember, i always masturbated dry, to porn, with pretty much just my hands, would try the fleece covers on my bed but the thrusting would make me cum in about 3 seconds. I didnt lose my virginity until i was 20, so all those years of pining for sex, and constantly masturbating to keep the urges at bay, i sorta fucked myself, giving myself pre e. Now with my GF, the one who i lost my v card to, its been a full year of sex and i still cant get over how good her vagina feels, i come in about 2 seconds when my penis comes in contact with it. i've tried the arousal techniques and those work good for me when i'm alone, but as soon as i feel that warm wet vagina, i start IKing like crazy, i cant stop it, i literally just cant. i've tried doing everything in the book, ballooning, edging for up to 20 minutes by myself, i even bought an STU, to try and mimic the warm wetness, but no dice. deep breathing? yeah right, i still IK like crazy, i've done 6 straight months of ballooning and RK routines, nothing.
If i even think about how good her vagina feels, i could be in class and i'll get an instant hard on, and i'll feel warm all over and sometimes i'll even get chills that will make my whole body shake for a second or two. My muscles will spasm and i'll need to stretch, like in my legs and pelvic area.
Am i attacking it from the wrong way? i just cant seem to desensitize the underside of my penis either, that money spot. Once that rubs against the bottom of her vagina, it doesnt matter how i breathe, doesnt matter how relaxed i am, if it gets stimulated even a bit, BAM.
I'm actually hurting right now, because the last time i had sex with her (two days ago) i came within the first minute with a condom on, and continued thrusting for another 30 seconds or so, came again, kept going for about 10 minutes and when all was said and done, i came 5 times and now i'm hurting badly. I ended up fingering her G spot soon after i came the 5th time cause it hurt to thrust anymore. the 5gs helped me on that one cause i managed to stay hard until the 5th time, then i went soft.
I'm not worried about her pleasure during sex, mind you. I give very good oral, the type that has me pinning her legs down so she doesnt spasm off the bed. I just want to be able to experience the plateau that everyone keeps talking about, and to be able to have sex without a condom for once, i wanna experience slow thrusting, fast thrusting, in and out, just for as long as i want, and to feel her muscles tightening around my dick as i'm in her, and NOT have the urge to cum. I dont even want the orgasm anymore if it isnt built up over time, they are just weak and unsatisfying. I want the plateau orgasms, the ones that have me shaking all over.
Not to mention the connection you feel when your bodys are in sync and its just pleasure, no orgasm, just pleasure between the two of you, i want that so bad.
Can someone sort of steer me in the right direction here? i've tried everything it would look like
If i even think about how good her vagina feels, i could be in class and i'll get an instant hard on, and i'll feel warm all over and sometimes i'll even get chills that will make my whole body shake for a second or two. My muscles will spasm and i'll need to stretch, like in my legs and pelvic area.
Am i attacking it from the wrong way? i just cant seem to desensitize the underside of my penis either, that money spot. Once that rubs against the bottom of her vagina, it doesnt matter how i breathe, doesnt matter how relaxed i am, if it gets stimulated even a bit, BAM.
I'm actually hurting right now, because the last time i had sex with her (two days ago) i came within the first minute with a condom on, and continued thrusting for another 30 seconds or so, came again, kept going for about 10 minutes and when all was said and done, i came 5 times and now i'm hurting badly. I ended up fingering her G spot soon after i came the 5th time cause it hurt to thrust anymore. the 5gs helped me on that one cause i managed to stay hard until the 5th time, then i went soft.
I'm not worried about her pleasure during sex, mind you. I give very good oral, the type that has me pinning her legs down so she doesnt spasm off the bed. I just want to be able to experience the plateau that everyone keeps talking about, and to be able to have sex without a condom for once, i wanna experience slow thrusting, fast thrusting, in and out, just for as long as i want, and to feel her muscles tightening around my dick as i'm in her, and NOT have the urge to cum. I dont even want the orgasm anymore if it isnt built up over time, they are just weak and unsatisfying. I want the plateau orgasms, the ones that have me shaking all over.
Not to mention the connection you feel when your bodys are in sync and its just pleasure, no orgasm, just pleasure between the two of you, i want that so bad.
Can someone sort of steer me in the right direction here? i've tried everything it would look like
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