Loosing erection while edging.

[XXX1973 Member Find all posts View Profile Close XXX1973]

If I let myself get close to the ponr a couple of times, I seem to lose my erection.... It seems I immediately get to the ponr without the in between levels. If I stop, my penis starts jumping. Am I just over sensitive? When having sex, I almost immediately cum when I put in.

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If I let myself get close to the ponr a couple of times, I seem to lose my erection.... It seems I immediately get to the ponr without the in between levels. If I stop, my penis starts jumping. Am I just over sensitive? When having sex, I almost immediately cum when I put in.

You may have retro ejaculation .
What is your out of sex reverse kegel routine?

[sameel Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sameel]

On the arousal scale, level 1-7 are controllable, whereas levels greater than 7 are simply not controllable. Your body is tuned to jump directly to uncontrollable arousal level (level 8 or so). To over come this issue, you need to stroke very slowly with less intensive stimulation. Don't try to reach point of no return. You need to make conscious efforts to stay at lower levels of arousal. Eventually, you body will learn to stay at lower levels of arousal even with the increased stimulation.

[XXX1973 Member Find all posts View Profile Close XXX1973]

I don't have a routine yet. Just trying to figure out what my problem is so I can do the right routine. It seems like with any arousal, I want to jump right to the point of now return. Most times I can't even last 10 seconds when I put it in. I'll have to look up retro ejaculation, never heard

[ammonite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ammonite]

The link in my signature (the edging for premature ejaculation one) is a guide for how to edge in order to access the levels in between excitement and PONR. If you haven't already read it, you may find it helpful.

The jumps your penis does are probably IK, feel around the perineum area (between testes and anus) and see if you notice any muscle contractions.

Do these happen if you just stop completely, right before the PONR? Or do they happen all the time?

I rarely get any IK anymore, thanks to Reverse kegels and proper edging technique, however if I get very close to the PONR and stop, I can access a sort of wave orgasm, where the penis involuntary jumps and it feels almost like orgasm, but more prolonged and without ejaculation. This is kind of weird, I don't even stimulate myself, but it still feels good, you may be experiencing this.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

Try edging in your woman. It's will be a win win for both!