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My favorite exercise I've learned here at the PEGym is Jelqing. I enjoyed them from the moment I first tried them. I love them so much in fact that I've orgasmed twice while performing them, really good orgasms too. This surprises me as they are not meant to be sexually exciting, the high pressure pinching and squeezing, the pulling, and bending of a jelq are not the stuff of a good porno, and, I do not think of anything sexual while doing them either. I seem to just like man handling my own dick (is that so wrong? 
). And now I've added ball stretching to one of the jelqing exercises I do and those can be quite uncomfortable, and yet it is during the jelq with the ball stretch that I get the most excited. I do that exercise first and last in my routine in order to keep myself at 40-70 percent erection and sometimes I need to pause to let the unit subside, or jelq on through to ejaculation, which leads me to my questions.
Is jelqing to orgasm a good thing or a bad thing?
It occurred to me that this might be a good thing, that I may rewire my brain to associate orgasm with jelqing istead of sex, not that I want to forget how to cum while having sex, just to ease my PremE by sharing the load, by giving it a non sexual outlet. And I work really hard during jelqing so I may be training my brain to associate hard work with orgasm as well. I also think it's a good thing because I have a problem with sexual masturbation, with thinking about and simulating sexual intercourse to the point of orgasm, it makes me feel like I am cheating on my wife and I don't like that. But the wife and I don't have sex often enough to meet my natural orgasmic rythym, so this seems like a blessing. Non sexual orgasm? Sign me up!
Or is jelqing to orgasm a bad thing? Like what if it leads to ED? Or sado masochism? Or world apocalypse? (I guess I just don't see the bad side) Which is why I'm asking.
Any insights and experiences appreciated...
). And now I've added ball stretching to one of the jelqing exercises I do and those can be quite uncomfortable, and yet it is during the jelq with the ball stretch that I get the most excited. I do that exercise first and last in my routine in order to keep myself at 40-70 percent erection and sometimes I need to pause to let the unit subside, or jelq on through to ejaculation, which leads me to my questions. Is jelqing to orgasm a good thing or a bad thing?
It occurred to me that this might be a good thing, that I may rewire my brain to associate orgasm with jelqing istead of sex, not that I want to forget how to cum while having sex, just to ease my PremE by sharing the load, by giving it a non sexual outlet. And I work really hard during jelqing so I may be training my brain to associate hard work with orgasm as well. I also think it's a good thing because I have a problem with sexual masturbation, with thinking about and simulating sexual intercourse to the point of orgasm, it makes me feel like I am cheating on my wife and I don't like that. But the wife and I don't have sex often enough to meet my natural orgasmic rythym, so this seems like a blessing. Non sexual orgasm? Sign me up!
Or is jelqing to orgasm a bad thing? Like what if it leads to ED? Or sado masochism? Or world apocalypse? (I guess I just don't see the bad side
) Which is why I'm asking. Any insights and experiences appreciated...