found the problem....now what?

[kcb Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kcb]

In an edging session last night, I realized every time the glands get touched, the muscle on the top/base part of my penis tightens up like I'm doing a kegel and makes me want to ejaculate. Its almost impossible to have anything touch the glands without it instantly tightening up.

I tried just holding the glands and moving very slowly and concentrated on not tensing up. It was almost impossible, but times when I could go a few...pumps.. without it tightening I didn't feel like I was about to loose my load at all!!

So, is there any way to exercise the muscle NOT to tense up, or is there a way to make my glands less sensitive????

[dnice Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dnice]

In an edging session last night, I realized every time the glands get touched, the muscle on the top/base part of my penis tightens up like I'm doing a kegel and makes me want to ejaculate. Its almost impossible to have anything touch the glands without it instantly tightening up.

I tried just holding the glands and moving very slowly and concentrated on not tensing up. It was almost impossible, but times when I could go a few...pumps.. without it tightening I didn't feel like I was about to loose my load at all!!

So, is there any way to exercise the muscle NOT to tense up, or is there a way to make my glands less sensitive????

I have been doing edging for 1-2months now with 2 months of failure, you will also fail for alot of months until u understand ur penis ..
I had the same problem as you , but i practiced daily and my pc muscle is more relaxed .

This is how i did it..

for the first month i did not use a tight grip , as weeks went on i slightly gave it more of a stronger grip , and to my suprise my pc muscle did not contract (while masterbating slowly ,NOT FAST) . Take your time with it notice when it tenses up , go slowly and relax ur anus and pc muscle , just keep on practicing , you will get better .


ur ultimate goal is to masterbate fast without triggering the pc muscle.


the biggest advice i can give you is = jeep a journal, keep ur success keep ur mistakes, keep ur failures... and dont give up

[kcb Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kcb]

Thanks for the encouragement, dnice. Kinda happy I finally see what exactly has to be fixed. Its crazy how the slightest bit of contact causes such a quick reaction. Could this be an over-worked pc muscle?

[dnice Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dnice]

Thanks for the encouragement, dnice. Kinda happy I finally see what exactly has to be fixed. Its crazy how the slightest bit of contact causes such a quick reaction. Could this be an over-worked pc muscle?

nope, its just a learned behavior , ur mind is linked to ur pc muscle,

thats why relax the breath