Fleshlight succes story

[mitacheto Member Find all posts View Profile Close mitacheto]

Hey guys, i just bough a fleshlight (its not exactly the fleshlight stu, but its good-an anus version, more tighter, from cyber skin). I decided it to try it for first time today. I readed in forums for any handsfree metods, how to warm it etc. So i made it perfect and i could stimulate thursting very good. I used water based lube. I used porn too (i know its not reccomended for pre.ejaculators but i wanted to do a good training). When i thursted in it for first time, its was like i instantly entered in platheau fase.It was... huh. I didnt use any rks, i just tried to dont use my kegel. And i did. I could thirst in it very fast for 30 minutes (i cummed after 30 minutes becaused i wanted to see what will happen if i push my regular kegel hard). I tried different poses, at the end when i was sitting down, i just used my kegel hard like i said, to see what will happen.I ejaculated allmost instantly. And if i didnt use regular kegel i think i could last more time. Maybe the key is do not kegel during intercourse?

[DickyDiDick Member Find all posts View Profile Close DickyDiDick]

you should only use one hard kegel to keep the cum from comming out at the ponr, for the rest you shouldn't kegel as this is basicly part of you orgasm to keep a long story short.

[chajadan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chajadan]

If you have PreE issues, I recommend not using kegels as a way to escalate your erection/pleasure, etc. Though, in my edging, I have encountered a few cases where a well placed kegel actually makes things less premature/hypersensitive -- but that's rare, and the kegel is light. If the kegel directly helps you last longer -- go for it, otherwise not so much.

[mitacheto Member Find all posts View Profile Close mitacheto]

I dont use kegel to escalate my erection. I wanted to say i am now able to NOT use them while thursting. It was impossible for me to do that before few months. I was auto doing kegel with thursting and i couldnt control that.Now i bought a fleshlight, its so damn close to the real vagina and maybe more arrousing. And when i thurst in it i feel myself in control. But if i kegel, my arrousal goes to the maximum and i just ejaculate. Btw i edge with deathgrip for a long time (if i use my hand only i can edge for as long as i want,no metter with porn or not). One more thing - when i am laying down, pushing my stomach out helps to stay away from iks.

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

The purpose of Kegal exercises and Edging is to learn how to develop and control your PC muscle. When you have sex you should keep your PC muscle relaxed until your ready to cum

[mitacheto Member Find all posts View Profile Close mitacheto]

The purpose of Kegal exercises and Edging is to learn how to develop and control your PC muscle. When you have sex you should keep your PC muscle relaxed until your ready to cum

Absolutely! Edging + balloning combo with deathgrip helped for sensitivity. Reverse kegel out of sex and penis stretching helped for PC muscle control and pf balance i think. And i want to say too its really better to edge with fleshlight because its like instantly entering in plateau phase.Its more difficult (and impossible sometimes for me) to enter in plateau phase with hand only. The fleshlight is better because of the possibility to thurst in it too.

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

I've tried the fleshlight many years ago. What I remember is hat I did not like the anal FL. I guess it was too tight, idk don't really remember. Ended up throwing it away. The STU though was very very stimulating. It made me tickle and didn't like it either though lol but it was really good for training. I'd recommend giving it a try. The best feeling one for me at the time was the wonder wave, it felt really good. That was back in 2007 and since then they have gotten a lot better. I will talk to the wife about trying one of the new models like Texas Tornado or the Destroya.

[mitacheto Member Find all posts View Profile Close mitacheto]

Btw exhaling little more , maybe 1 deep inhale with 10 small fast exhales after the inhaling (for ex. one fast exhale with each thurst in) helps me to stay in control too.