dry orgasm

[fisch28 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fisch28]

I still can't seem to master it. I have been doing many kegels for several months now and I know that my PC muscles are strong. When I edge and reach the point when I'm going to cum, I kegel and hold. I can feel the sensation of wanting to let it out, so I just keep holding the kegel. Sometimes I release after 10 seconds or so, and ejaculate a little. In order for nothing to cum out I have to hold for like 30 seconds. Is this right? I can't do this when I'm having sex though, holding a strong kegel for 30 seconds with a hot girl in front of me just doesn't work out...

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

You should join the MMO thread! (Multiple Male Orgasm)

I think there is quite a bit of "activity" over there right now!!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

So fisch are you orgasming?

[fisch28 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fisch28]

Thanks cal I'll be looking into that.

And whenever it happens and I hold the kegel it's like I don't, and I stay hard. But if I release the kegel before 30 seconds then I'm soft

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

You shouldn't need to kegal for 30 sec, this could be a timing issue, possibly starting the kegal a fraction late.
It is harder to do mmo with a partner and skill is built first solo.
The mmo group is a good idea.

[fisch28 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fisch28]

ok thanks pegasus.

[doupdoupdoup Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close doupdoupdoup]

People get mixed results during kegel, some people say it makes retrograde more likely, or makes precum occur more frequently. I'd recommend taking some schizandra and ginseng supplements which helps for sperm leakage.

I think the easiest way to fix sperm loss issue, is just to take a break from sexual activity, let all the valves go back to normal, massage self to heal faster but never get past 30% erect. Do that for like a week, then try it out again.

Take a look at penis qigong on youtube, it is helpful for these issues.

[mike34 Member Find all posts View Profile Close mike34]

I still can't seem to master it. I have been doing many kegels for several months now and I know that my PC muscles are strong. When I edge and reach the point when I'm going to cum, I kegel and hold. I can feel the sensation of wanting to let it out, so I just keep holding the kegel. Sometimes I release after 10 seconds or so, and ejaculate a little. In order for nothing to cum out I have to hold for like 30 seconds. Is this right? I can't do this when I'm having sex though, holding a strong kegel for 30 seconds with a hot girl in front of me just doesn't work out...

i have the same problem wen i do my edging session. when you feel to cum to hold but the feeeling gets more and more and more but your still holding after like 15 seconds of holding sensation you release...same what you said just different words

if you find some tip or soloution please get back to mee

[kinoki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close kinoki]

Sorry, I've never heard of this, but what's a dry orgasm?

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Sorry, I've never heard of this, but what's a dry orgasm?

A Dry Orgasm (or DO) is an orgasm without ejaculation. When you are young, your body recovers very quickly from ejaculation and you can have sex again quickly. As we age, it takes longer, generally, to recover and have sex again. If you can master the skill of obtaining a DO, then you can have sex again immediately because you didn't ejaculate. Understand?
Really advanced guys can have several DOs in rapid succession while having sex, that, we refer to as Multiple Male Orgasm (or MMO.) There is a Group (in the Groups area of the PEGym) of those interested in learning or teaching these skills.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

By the way, welcome to the Gym, Kinoki!
Don't be afraid to use the search tool. There is a lot of great information here. Read a lot and ask lots of questions.

[RockofFox Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RockofFox]

People get mixed results during kegel, some people say it makes retrograde more likely, or makes precum occur more frequently. I'd recommend taking some schizandra and ginseng supplements which helps for sperm leakage.

Schizandra Chinensis is a good general tonic for the kidneys according to TCM, but I'm not really sure how its going to help a great deal with this issue.