Dildo comparison

[Thunderhorse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thunderhorse]

So folks, first of all, I want to thank everyone in this forum for be so cooperative and cool. I'm following the topics for few months and I started my routine 1 week ago (yeahh)!
So, Im 20yo, Brazilian, with a 6,3''x6,3'' (16,0 cm x 16,0 cm, NBPEL and EG, mid-shaft) penis, and decided to compare my penis with dildos on sexshops websites. I dont know if was just my vision, but, my penis still looking very small compared with 7''x6'' dildos and, women were buying dildos like 8''x6,5''... Yes, I've mesured correctly, in the same point, full erection and for 3 days. I mean, those toys are really huge...
About the comments, only few were complaining about size...
I'm probably wrong but a 6'' girth dildo just look normal for them. Is that true?
My goal is 8''x6,5'' but those dildos really made me feel small.
What do you think? It's ok compare ourselves with dildos to have a good aproximation about women enjoyment, based on their comments?
Thanks.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Stop looking at dildos! Try scantily clad women; much better!

[closed116 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed116]

There have been a few threads on dildos, trying to assess what a woman's true size preference is based on sale rates and reviews. From what I remember, the best selling and highest reviewed were always well below our typical 8 x 6 goal. But it's pointless to compare yourself to an object regardless.

[MarsSpyder Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MarsSpyder]

So folks, first of all, I want to thank everyone in this forum for be so cooperative and cool. I'm following the topics for few months and I started my routine 1 week ago (yeahh)!
So, Im 20yo, Brazilian, with a 6,3''x6,3'' (16,0 cm x 16,0 cm, NBPEL and EG, mid-shaft) penis, and decided to compare my penis with dildos on sexshops websites. I dont know if was just my vision, but, my penis still looking very small compared with 7''x6'' dildos and, women were buying dildos like 8''x6,5''... Yes, I've mesured correctly, in the same point, full erection and for 3 days. I mean, those toys are really huge...
About the comments, only few were complaining about size...
I'm probably wrong but a 6'' girth dildo just look normal for them. Is that true?
My goal is 8''x6,5'' but those dildos really made me feel small.
What do you think? It's ok compare ourselves with dildos to have a good aproximation about women enjoyment, based on their comments?
Thanks.

First of all your girth is big, even huge. It's over or around the end-goal most here have and nothing to sneeze at by any stretch of the imagination. As someone who started off maybe .2-.5" longer(depends on your fatpad) but 1.3" less girth I can say I'm jealous. You've got a big dick my friend, maybe even too big for some people to take.

Secondly don't compare yourself to the dildos, not the "normal" ones or the "pornstar realistic" ones. Not only is insertable length going to be smaller than total length(which may even include balls and suction cups) but it's a piece of plastic(or whatever material, I'm no expert) used for masturbation. Completely different dynamics than having sex with a penis.

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Why not get some opinions about your dick from real women? Your dick is fat as hell.

[Thunderhorse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thunderhorse]

Thanks for the replies! Truly helpful!
dmizzle, yeah, but I'm virgin hahaha. I'm waiting for the girl that I really love and I think I've found. But my concernment is exactly 'cause of it. I have no experience and afraid about my size 'cause in my mind, girls prefer those big toys than the real thing.
But, yeah, now I agree that there is no sense in compare myself with dildos.
Thanks again.

[tomasssss Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tomasssss]

you have huge girth (top 1%) and well-above average length

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Thanks for the replies! Truly helpful!
dmizzle, yeah, but I'm virgin hahaha. I'm waiting for the girl that I really love and I think I've found. But my concernment is exactly 'cause of it. I have no experience and afraid about my size 'cause in my mind, girls prefer those big toys than the real thing.
But, yeah, now I agree that there is no sense in compare myself with dildos.
Thanks again.

Dont be surprised if a woman says no F'n way you are putting that monster in me. Blow jobs will be difficult too, ever have one? Did she manage?

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

If you're aiming for 6.5" EG than you might wanna aim for 9" EL because 6.5" EG will make 8" EL look short.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

You and I are similar size. My girth ranges from 6-6.5" depending on how hard I am. Women love the girth and comment on it. If your gf has seen any other real dicks, she's going to think you're huge. And she's very unlikely to find a bigger girth than you or want more. I'm not going for more girth, but a little more length makes more inventive positions easier. Don't worry about the dildos.

[Thunderhorse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thunderhorse]

Dont be surprised if a woman says no F'n way you are putting that monster in me. Blow jobs will be difficult too, ever have one? Did she manage?

Nops. No blowjobs, no handjobs, nothing. Zero experience. I read about this issue. Ah, and I'm a bit worry about that. We're talking about girls with my age or few years less or more. I'm worry about hurt them or something like that.

If you're aiming for 6.5" EG than you might wanna aim for 9" EL because 6.5" EG will make 8" EL look short.

You know, I was wondering if it's just this thing what is making me feel my penis small. Maybe I don't have the beautiful prorpotion of the 8x6. Maybe that proportion is what looks amazing. But 6.3 to 9... Dude... I going to need few decades...

You and I are similar size. My girth ranges from 6-6.5" depending on how hard I am. Women love the girth and comment on it. If your gf has seen any other real dicks, she's going to think you're huge. And she's very unlikely to find a bigger girth than you or want more. I'm not going for more girth, but a little more length makes more inventive positions easier. Don't worry about the dildos.

No, I'm single. Yes, I was wondering about if the women size has something with the vagina length and width. For example, a tall girl has a deep vagina and a small girth, a sshort and more tight? Or not? Or depends?
Ah, what is your length?

I really want a female perspective here if possible. Thanks again for the replies.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Nops. No blowjobs, no handjobs, nothing. Zero experience. I read about this issue. Ah, and I'm a bit worry about that. We're talking about girls with my age or few years less or more. I'm worry about hurt them or something like that.

No, I'm single. Yes, I was wondering about if the women size has something with the vagina length and width. For example, a tall girl has a deep vagina and a small girth, a sshort and more tight? Or not? Or depends?
Ah, what is your length?

To your second question, studies have consistently shown that genital size of men and women has little to no relation to their other physical sizes or characteristics. My experience over the years is consistent with this. However, women with little to no sexual experience will likely be tighter.

To your other question, don't worry at all about being too big. I have dated around quite a bit over the past couple decades and have had nothing but very positive experiences being girthy. Women love it. Being bigger around stretches the first couple inches of their vaginal canal more, exposing more nerves that accentuate their sensation. And blow jobs are no problem, unless she doesn't know what she's doing and has sharp teeth! If she's tight, just do foreplay to get her wet, use lube, or both. Then ease in and go slow the first minute, or so.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Guys onsite consistently report issues with over 6" girth from she can't get it in her mouth , to she turns anal down flat to my own case where she flat out stated she preferred my girth when we first met and found the increased girth uncomfortable . Regardless of warm up lube or any other factor . Now let me repeat that cause people can have difficulty with it . Regardless of lube or foreplay. Got that REGARDLESS.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Guys onsite consistently report issues with over 6" girth from she can't get it in her mouth , to she turns anal down flat to my own case where she flat out stated she preferred my girth when we first met and found the increased girth uncomfortable . Regardless of warm up lube or any other factor . Now let me repeat that cause people can have difficulty with it . Regardless of lube or foreplay. Got that REGARDLESS.

I'm just trying to give him some encouragement and speaking from personal experience. Guess I just got lucky with 20+ women in a row over the years. ;-)

[Thunderhorse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thunderhorse]

Being bigger around stretches the first couple inches of their vaginal canal more, exposing more nerves that accentuate their sensation.

Interesting, 'cause my penis isn't a perfect cylinder, with a little curve to the left. It's more like a banana. I have 6" BEG, 6.3" MSEG, and then, maybe, 6" (or less) again, 'cause I can't measure the region of the glans very well. I don't know if I have a small or average glans. I wonder if that symmetry has impact on how the girl feel the penis. I mean, what's better. A perfect cylindrical shaped penis or a "banana" like one?

Regardless of warm up lube or any other factor . Now let me repeat that cause people can have difficulty with it . Regardless of lube or foreplay. Got that REGARDLESS.

Certainly I'll remember this. Thanks.