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After about 3 weeks. Started at 100 dry? Jelqs, 1x a day. Currently anywhere from 250 - 500 dry jelqs 1x day, and 1-2 other sessions per day of about 25-50 dry jelqs (just to get the blood moving and in there again). I don't hang, or clamp, or use anything other than my hands until recently I have been using a cock ring to keep my dick as erect as possible during the long sessions. I take 1-3 days off throughout the week depending on how my penis feels.
Previous Length: 6.5"
Current Length: 7.25"
Previous Girth: 4.75"
Current Girth: 5.5"
I might not be doing it right.
I might need helpful tips.
Previous measurements are rounded up, current measurements are round down (to avoid excitement exaggerations).
I apologize if I suck at the forums, please let me know what I need to change and how to do it. I was just too excited about the results that I wanted to share (was going to wait 3 months before posting...)
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Ok...I'm really sorry for maybe not having everything necessary and included...so hopefully I don't break any rules.
Backstory...first experience with Jelqing was maybe 3 years ago? I remember measuring myself back then at 6.0-6.5" (not super exact because I don't even know what BPL and all those acronyms stand for and I used a ruler rather than a tape measure...) however...it was definitely somewhere within that range. Measuring circumference was more tricky because I still only had a ruler, but eventually I wrapped a string around it and measured the string (non-stretchy string). That was in the 4.5-4.75" range.
I started to do it, but after maybe a day of doing it, went to look for more information as I had trouble doing the regular jelq (with lube and semi-soft). Found all sorts of hate info on it, saying it was dangerous and could give me ED or permanently damage it, etc...so I immediately stopped.
For what it's worth, even on these forums and others, I've found fake "success" stories where people post pictures of things I've seen online elsewhere. Someone here posted a picture that I found online about pills, and blah blah...so naturally I became even more skeptical.
I tried pills here and there, but they really didn't do anything...even a few months ago I remember measuring, this time with tape measure, and was still around 6.5" by 4.75" (rounding up on both of those...more like 6.3 and 4.65 or something but hard to be that accurate).
SO about a month ago, I stumbled back on to this. Decided that it was worth trying and I would just be SUPER careful to make sure I avoided those things I was worried about previously. Don't know if this is necessary to mention, but I am gay and happily married to a man I love. Before him I always topped and so I was even more worried about my precious member, now he's total top, so I don't get to do much of that (only when we fool around with others). Obviously, it's still my dick and I'm still super cautious, but getting a non-permanent injury isn't as worrisome as before, lol...
Ok so been doing it for about 3 weeks now...wait, I should probably explain what "it" is...well it's closest to what I believe is called "dry jelqing?" Maybe someone can tell me what I actually am doing...thing is, I still couldn't do the regular jelq. The lube makes me harder than what I should be at...and also it dries up to fast and is annoying and I feel like each time I grab more, I lose the blood...anyway, the point is...it didn't feel right. So I basically grab my erect dick by the base, as far down as I can, and do the jelq but without lube. I seem to have extra skin, maybe? I don't know why this is more comfortable to me than to others explaining why it's not comfortable to do it this way, so it is what it is...also, rather than pulling using my hand, I kind of just pull backwards with my hips. Essentially it's the same effect, but it's easier to pull with my hip and keep my hand in place.
First day, I did about 100 total (25 left hand palm up, 25 right hand palm up, 25 left hand palm down, and 25 right hand palm up). Mind you, I have a slight curve left (10 degrees tops), and slight downward cure (5 degrees tops). So later days I adjust to more on my left hand palm up and right hand palm down to see if it's helping... Also, I do much more now...like 250-500 per day in one session then like 0-2 other sessions per day of 25-50. I'll take a day off here and there whenever I feel like my penis is ... tired? lol I don't know how to say it. Sort of like gym soreness...but not so much sore, just tired.
ANY advice on which way to do it to fix a curve, please send!!!
After I was done, my dick looked swole! Not like swollen, but swole as in I just worked out my biceps and they look bigger. I also noticed a slight ring-like bulge right behind the glans (is that the right word? The head). This kind of freaked me out and I almost immediately vowed to not do it again...I kept checking for about 30 minutes, and my whole dick had some extra...bulgy-ness going on...I check online and notice this is common and you can massage it out...also it goes away anyway.
SO, I decided to keep doing it. I'm at about 3 weeks now. I have to do many many more to get the same effect as that first day. Some days, it gets bulgy but I am not as erect, other days it gets bulgy super fast, and other days I feel like 500 jelqs barely made a difference. Of course, I've been measuring daily, and the results are keeping me on top of it. So what are these results??
Before Stuff:
1) I started smoking about 3 years ago and my erection quality has declined from it (or from age, or whatever other factors). Like I rarely would get morning wood anymore, and worst of all, it started to not be it's super rigid state during sex.
2) My ejaculate has never been very strong, and though I feel like it's not much, apparently 3-5mL is normal/average (too much porn made me think otherwise). Still, though, it was definitely NOT a shooter...like very rarely did my dick ever shoot...like at all. Just oozed, or fell depending on position. Furthermore, the sensation was always just sort of meh. Such that I didn't care much about ejaculating during sex because the feeling of sex felt better than actually an orgasm...and since I take forever anyway, I learned to just let my partner finish and be done after that.
3) Previous length: 6.5" (Rounded Up)
4) Previous girth: 4.75" (Round Up) -- Definitely fit into a toilet paper tube, snugly, but fit.
Current Stuff:
1) I still smoke, more so than before, but my erection quality has sky-rocketed. Like holy cow, if this were the only result, it'd be worth it just for that!! I wake up with morning wood almost every day. I feel like I could do dick push-ups (ok maybe that's a little much and part of it is the excitement of it)...but you get the drift. Rock Hard.
---1a) Interesting side note on this: My flaccid state hangs lower, thicker, and just...looks better. My dick is...smoother?? (I do put lotion on it after jelqing and showering, though because I feel like the skin is irritated from dry jelqing, so maybe it's just the lotion.
---2a) There are more veins...or maybe they are just more noticeable? Like they got slightly bigger, or are just being more filled with blood now - which makes sense given that that's what's required for erection stiffness. Soft still looks the same (just bigger, fatter really).
2) When I ejaculate, I shoot! Furthermore, each shot is distinguishable. I didn't even know I had more than 1 shot since it's always just oozed. Apparently I shoot about 4-5 times. It's only about 1-2 inches, but hell I'll take it!! Also, it feels better and the sensation lasts longer. Like there's a warmth in my gut and in the junk area. It feels great! We'll see how much of an impact that has on my sex experience.
3) Current Length: 7.25" I feel like there's something wrong here. Like...I Must've measured wrong before, or wrong now...but .75" in 3 weeks? No freaking way right? Well, that measurements are correct, I measure every day...and it wasn't like day 3 it was 7 and such...it's been a very constant, consistent, and continual growth! It's SO weird. I mean it's really freaking awesome (I was going to say other words, but then realized that curse words are probably not cool here). That said, I'm not really looking for length, I've always been happy with my 6.5"
4) Current Girth: 5.5" around the middle, and 6.15" around the base (yes my base is thicker than the rest). I've never measured the based before so I can't say what it was previously...but holy crap! .75" for girth, too??? What's funny is that since I have a husband, we've obviously compared dicks before. We've always been about the same, but his was always slightly longer (6.75") and decently thicker (5.0-5.15"). We decided to shower together after sex a few days ago and he grabbed my dick (which was still hard) and was like... "Wow...your dick is thicker than mine, guess I never noticed it was that thick before...hm" Which of course put a smile on my face and a HUGE smile in my brain lolol. Another thing about girth...my wrist is 6.75" circumference...I want my dick to be "wrist thick" haha.
Additional things to mention...I have done mostly what I've described above...but have tried a few other techniques, including the regular jelq! Yes! My erections are stiffer and also more controllable? Which is something I didn't really realize was a thing. I can keep it less erect if I want to now, but when it gets erect it gets much harder. Hopefully that's not actually a bad sign...But I've only done that one maybe 2-3times. That's pretty much it.
Last note, I do shower almost every time after doing this. I read that heat helps, and I make sure to take a very nice hot shower. I didn't do this after that first day, and that could be why it looked so creepy. But it seems to help with evening out the bulgy/swole look.
After about 3 weeks. Started at 100 dry? Jelqs, 1x a day. Currently anywhere from 250 - 500 dry jelqs 1x day, and 1-2 other sessions per day of about 25-50 dry jelqs (just to get the blood moving and in there again). I don't hang, or clamp, or use anything other than my hands until recently I have been using a cock ring to keep my dick as erect as possible during the long sessions. I take 1-3 days off throughout the week depending on how my penis feels.
Previous Length: 6.5"
Current Length: 7.25"
Previous Girth: 4.75"
Current Girth: 5.5"
I might not be doing it right.
I might need helpful tips.
Previous measurements are rounded up, current measurements are round down (to avoid excitement exaggerations).
I apologize if I suck at the forums, please let me know what I need to change and how to do it. I was just too excited about the results that I wanted to share (was going to wait 3 months before posting...)
Full Version
Ok...I'm really sorry for maybe not having everything necessary and included...so hopefully I don't break any rules.
Backstory...first experience with Jelqing was maybe 3 years ago? I remember measuring myself back then at 6.0-6.5" (not super exact because I don't even know what BPL and all those acronyms stand for and I used a ruler rather than a tape measure...) however...it was definitely somewhere within that range. Measuring circumference was more tricky because I still only had a ruler, but eventually I wrapped a string around it and measured the string (non-stretchy string). That was in the 4.5-4.75" range.
I started to do it, but after maybe a day of doing it, went to look for more information as I had trouble doing the regular jelq (with lube and semi-soft). Found all sorts of hate info on it, saying it was dangerous and could give me ED or permanently damage it, etc...so I immediately stopped.
For what it's worth, even on these forums and others, I've found fake "success" stories where people post pictures of things I've seen online elsewhere. Someone here posted a picture that I found online about pills, and blah blah...so naturally I became even more skeptical.
I tried pills here and there, but they really didn't do anything...even a few months ago I remember measuring, this time with tape measure, and was still around 6.5" by 4.75" (rounding up on both of those...more like 6.3 and 4.65 or something but hard to be that accurate).
SO about a month ago, I stumbled back on to this. Decided that it was worth trying and I would just be SUPER careful to make sure I avoided those things I was worried about previously. Don't know if this is necessary to mention, but I am gay and happily married to a man I love. Before him I always topped and so I was even more worried about my precious member, now he's total top, so I don't get to do much of that (only when we fool around with others). Obviously, it's still my dick and I'm still super cautious, but getting a non-permanent injury isn't as worrisome as before, lol...
Ok so been doing it for about 3 weeks now...wait, I should probably explain what "it" is...well it's closest to what I believe is called "dry jelqing?" Maybe someone can tell me what I actually am doing...thing is, I still couldn't do the regular jelq. The lube makes me harder than what I should be at...and also it dries up to fast and is annoying and I feel like each time I grab more, I lose the blood...anyway, the point is...it didn't feel right. So I basically grab my erect dick by the base, as far down as I can, and do the jelq but without lube. I seem to have extra skin, maybe? I don't know why this is more comfortable to me than to others explaining why it's not comfortable to do it this way, so it is what it is...also, rather than pulling using my hand, I kind of just pull backwards with my hips. Essentially it's the same effect, but it's easier to pull with my hip and keep my hand in place.
First day, I did about 100 total (25 left hand palm up, 25 right hand palm up, 25 left hand palm down, and 25 right hand palm up). Mind you, I have a slight curve left (10 degrees tops), and slight downward cure (5 degrees tops). So later days I adjust to more on my left hand palm up and right hand palm down to see if it's helping... Also, I do much more now...like 250-500 per day in one session then like 0-2 other sessions per day of 25-50. I'll take a day off here and there whenever I feel like my penis is ... tired? lol I don't know how to say it. Sort of like gym soreness...but not so much sore, just tired.
ANY advice on which way to do it to fix a curve, please send!!!
After I was done, my dick looked swole! Not like swollen, but swole as in I just worked out my biceps and they look bigger. I also noticed a slight ring-like bulge right behind the glans (is that the right word? The head). This kind of freaked me out and I almost immediately vowed to not do it again...I kept checking for about 30 minutes, and my whole dick had some extra...bulgy-ness going on...I check online and notice this is common and you can massage it out...also it goes away anyway.
SO, I decided to keep doing it. I'm at about 3 weeks now. I have to do many many more to get the same effect as that first day. Some days, it gets bulgy but I am not as erect, other days it gets bulgy super fast, and other days I feel like 500 jelqs barely made a difference. Of course, I've been measuring daily, and the results are keeping me on top of it. So what are these results??
Before Stuff:
1) I started smoking about 3 years ago and my erection quality has declined from it (or from age, or whatever other factors). Like I rarely would get morning wood anymore, and worst of all, it started to not be it's super rigid state during sex.
2) My ejaculate has never been very strong, and though I feel like it's not much, apparently 3-5mL is normal/average (too much porn made me think otherwise). Still, though, it was definitely NOT a shooter...like very rarely did my dick ever shoot...like at all. Just oozed, or fell depending on position. Furthermore, the sensation was always just sort of meh. Such that I didn't care much about ejaculating during sex because the feeling of sex felt better than actually an orgasm...and since I take forever anyway, I learned to just let my partner finish and be done after that.
3) Previous length: 6.5" (Rounded Up)
4) Previous girth: 4.75" (Round Up) -- Definitely fit into a toilet paper tube, snugly, but fit.
Current Stuff:
1) I still smoke, more so than before, but my erection quality has sky-rocketed. Like holy cow, if this were the only result, it'd be worth it just for that!! I wake up with morning wood almost every day. I feel like I could do dick push-ups (ok maybe that's a little much and part of it is the excitement of it)...but you get the drift. Rock Hard.
---1a) Interesting side note on this: My flaccid state hangs lower, thicker, and just...looks better. My dick is...smoother?? (I do put lotion on it after jelqing and showering, though because I feel like the skin is irritated from dry jelqing, so maybe it's just the lotion.
---2a) There are more veins...or maybe they are just more noticeable? Like they got slightly bigger, or are just being more filled with blood now - which makes sense given that that's what's required for erection stiffness. Soft still looks the same (just bigger, fatter really).
2) When I ejaculate, I shoot! Furthermore, each shot is distinguishable. I didn't even know I had more than 1 shot since it's always just oozed. Apparently I shoot about 4-5 times. It's only about 1-2 inches, but hell I'll take it!! Also, it feels better and the sensation lasts longer. Like there's a warmth in my gut and in the junk area. It feels great! We'll see how much of an impact that has on my sex experience.
3) Current Length: 7.25" I feel like there's something wrong here. Like...I Must've measured wrong before, or wrong now...but .75" in 3 weeks? No freaking way right? Well, that measurements are correct, I measure every day...and it wasn't like day 3 it was 7 and such...it's been a very constant, consistent, and continual growth! It's SO weird. I mean it's really freaking awesome (I was going to say other words, but then realized that curse words are probably not cool here). That said, I'm not really looking for length, I've always been happy with my 6.5"
4) Current Girth: 5.5" around the middle, and 6.15" around the base (yes my base is thicker than the rest). I've never measured the based before so I can't say what it was previously...but holy crap! .75" for girth, too??? What's funny is that since I have a husband, we've obviously compared dicks before. We've always been about the same, but his was always slightly longer (6.75") and decently thicker (5.0-5.15"). We decided to shower together after sex a few days ago and he grabbed my dick (which was still hard) and was like... "Wow...your dick is thicker than mine, guess I never noticed it was that thick before...hm" Which of course put a smile on my face and a HUGE smile in my brain lolol. Another thing about girth...my wrist is 6.75" circumference...I want my dick to be "wrist thick" haha.
Additional things to mention...I have done mostly what I've described above...but have tried a few other techniques, including the regular jelq! Yes! My erections are stiffer and also more controllable? Which is something I didn't really realize was a thing. I can keep it less erect if I want to now, but when it gets erect it gets much harder. Hopefully that's not actually a bad sign...But I've only done that one maybe 2-3times. That's pretty much it.
Last note, I do shower almost every time after doing this. I read that heat helps, and I make sure to take a very nice hot shower. I didn't do this after that first day, and that could be why it looked so creepy. But it seems to help with evening out the bulgy/swole look.
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