Slow progress...

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So why not put a progress thread together,might provide some added motivation and there are sure to be times when words of wisdom are required.

I've been PE'ing for 6 months plus now, but not as regularly as I would ,perhaps 1 to 3 times a week with a bit of edging on top.

The biggest barrier for me is spare time and privacy, I have managed to get my workout time down significantly as when I first started it was taking a while each time! So in that respect it should be easier to make time.

But with a job that absorbs more time than the mythical 9-5, fitting the gym in 3 or 4 times a week and a girlfriend that I live with and spend the rest of my spare time with it's difficult!

I think finding something that can be done with minimal warmup and no showering needed afterwards that can be better integrated into a daily routine would help on the days where a 'proper' workout isn't possible. Or maybe a routine I can do in the shower?

Whilst I haven't been as regular as I would like, I feel like I've learned a fair bit and I'm sure practice makes perfect when it comes to PE technique. I think I have realised some minor girth gains toward the glans and certainly at the base with a more developed PC muscle.

I always jelq from the very base with a steady pressure, but it really is the last third that becomes engorged and in which I've seen gains, are there any technique pointers I could take on?

I will make monthly updates with length and girth changes even if there aren't any, girth is certainly what I am more interested in improving along with flacid size.

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The second facet to my journey will be the improvement of my sexual stamina and libido, and is perhaps more important than the enlargement part.

In the last few years I have found that I struggle to stave off my ejaculation during sex, having always being okay in that department and even a bit of a stamina king when I was in school!

I have always watched porn and masterbated, so there hasn't been a change there, however I'm keen to drop the porn, concentrate on understanding my level of arousal and learning to control it. FWIW when masterbating, I can stop at the PONR, clench the PC and avoid ejaculating. I think during sex I am inadvertantly kegelling most of the time which may well be the problem for me.


Well, plenty to work on, feel free to add any advice or encouragement!

-Ayrton

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A big change to the way I view my penis..

So a number of months after starting my thread where am I?...

A very different place is the answer I suppose!

Since my last post my perception of my member, other people's members and my perception of other people's opinions about my member have all changed.

Upon reading the outcomes of penis size surveys (specifically the Cancun study) previously, in my head I would argue that the average was low as I didn't believe that a large number of the participants would be able to achieve a full erection in such circumstances.

Now I think that there must have been loads of smaller guys that refused to be measured which may negate the above, perhaps even skew the study the other way.

I would also look around changing rooms and see most young to mid-aged guys with bigger flacid units than mine and refuse to accept that most of theirs would be simillar to mine once erect.

I would helicopter my member in the shower so that when I came out and changed it would look presentable.

Now I look at the number of guys that hide themselves, carefully changing so that no-one can see, or using the cubicles and think that they must all feel the same way or worse than I did a few months ago.

Now I don't shake the old chap in the shower and dry and change in whatever state he is. Sure some guys might look and sympathise, but I'm sure others will take comfort and find confidence that I'm happy to show off whatever I have.

Also since my last post, I have had one of my testicles removed and await results about the nature of a tumour that was growing.

This has made me appreciate just how unimportant the size of my member is.

Could a trade a big, fat dick for healthy nuts and a clean bill of health, no I couldn't.

And my health and that of those that I love is far more important than anything else.

Yes, I would still like a bigger one, but I doubt I will be going at PE for hours a day, wasting (in my opinion) my life away that I could be doing much more with.

I'm sure I'll still jelq a little to keep the blood flowing and I will continue to follow some of the useful guides to help me control my ejaculation and uderstand my body better but I thought it worthwhile sharing my thoughts with others.

A couple of programmes that helped to change my thoughts:

My penis and I:
My Penis and I on Vimeo

My penis and everyone elses:
My Penis and Everyone Else's on Vimeo