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Hello! I have been lurking around reading the posts and guides from other member. There is some great content here! Seeing the community at work here, I wanted to join in. I am going to track my progress here, asks some questions, and hopefully get some feedback.
Hello everyone, my name is $User and I have PE
I can climax within seconds, like 1 or 2 and have climaxed without any touching at least once in the past. This PE is a problem that I have been trying to get rid of for a long time. I just get to excited, I don't know what it is. The start and stop method doesn't work for me because the feeling never goes away when I stop. I don't think it is my confidence because I am great in sack, so long as my penis isn't involved. I keep my girl happy and have her climax at least twice when we are it. I just jump in at the end and finish off. I think that I have decent PC muscles, I can clinch and hold for a good couple of solid seconds. Anyways, my goal is to be able to have sex as long as I want and control when I climax, the way it's supposed to be in my opinion.
I was reading around and found minuteman's guide/journal....wow. There was all kinds of good info in there. I had read in the past that one of the keys was with the PC muscle and flexing it. Then I got confused and thought the key was relaxing it. Then I was like, "well, when do I flex it?" . After reading minuteman's guide I came across a piece of information that said to flex and hold (front PC?) at the first spasm or involuntary flex of your muscles. So in honor of minuteman I did some playing around.
Flying solo I found that the first time around (all 2 seconds) I can't control the feeling at all. Even when I stop the sensation just lurks and never goes away. A single touch 3 minutes later will set me off. I also found that when I clinched my PC muscles at the first flinch of my orgasm and held it for about a minute, that nothing came out. I ended up going semi soft, but not completly; I didn't feel like I just came either. So I pressed on and found that the second time around I can nearly perfectly control my climax. I can make the feeling come and go by using my PC muscles. I can keep from climaxing as long as I want by just relaxing the muscle or finish up by clinching it. That's awesome. Now the problem is, do I focus on making the first time around take longer? Do I just jump into sex with my girlfriend and two seconds in when I am already climaxing take a minute break to clinch and hold so I can move onto the second round where everything feels great and I am in control? If clinching will keep me from having an orgasm (nothing comes out) what will a reverse kegel do? When do you use your reverse kegel? Any information or feedback on my progress this far would be great.
Hello everyone, my name is $User and I have PE
I can climax within seconds, like 1 or 2 and have climaxed without any touching at least once in the past. This PE is a problem that I have been trying to get rid of for a long time. I just get to excited, I don't know what it is. The start and stop method doesn't work for me because the feeling never goes away when I stop. I don't think it is my confidence because I am great in sack, so long as my penis isn't involved. I keep my girl happy and have her climax at least twice when we are it. I just jump in at the end and finish off. I think that I have decent PC muscles, I can clinch and hold for a good couple of solid seconds. Anyways, my goal is to be able to have sex as long as I want and control when I climax, the way it's supposed to be in my opinion.I was reading around and found minuteman's guide/journal....wow. There was all kinds of good info in there. I had read in the past that one of the keys was with the PC muscle and flexing it. Then I got confused and thought the key was relaxing it. Then I was like, "well, when do I flex it?" . After reading minuteman's guide I came across a piece of information that said to flex and hold (front PC?) at the first spasm or involuntary flex of your muscles. So in honor of minuteman I did some playing around.
Flying solo I found that the first time around (all 2 seconds) I can't control the feeling at all. Even when I stop the sensation just lurks and never goes away. A single touch 3 minutes later will set me off. I also found that when I clinched my PC muscles at the first flinch of my orgasm and held it for about a minute, that nothing came out. I ended up going semi soft, but not completly; I didn't feel like I just came either. So I pressed on and found that the second time around I can nearly perfectly control my climax. I can make the feeling come and go by using my PC muscles. I can keep from climaxing as long as I want by just relaxing the muscle or finish up by clinching it. That's awesome. Now the problem is, do I focus on making the first time around take longer? Do I just jump into sex with my girlfriend and two seconds in when I am already climaxing take a minute break to clinch and hold so I can move onto the second round where everything feels great and I am in control? If clinching will keep me from having an orgasm (nothing comes out) what will a reverse kegel do? When do you use your reverse kegel? Any information or feedback on my progress this far would be great.
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