The Urge is coming back

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

I don't get why most guys think no porn = no masturbation. Try edging with cumming two time a week. It will reduce the urge and your mind will learn that it can release without porn.
I am no expert of course, but that's what I've got told and I myself proved it right. So try this.

I've tried edging but I can't cum at all. I guess my penis is used to the dry humping in order to cum.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

OP, just fap fap fap if you want.
Don't look at porn though.
Give a go to edging without releasing more than 2-3 times a week if you want. It will help with EQ.
Also do you exercise?

I don't exercise as of now well I do light kegal routine every other day. 25 kegals and 25 reverse kegals for a 1 sec hold. And I can't find myself to cum to edging the last few days.

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I really appreciate everyone for the motivation and advice. I really needed that. The thing is woth edging I can't even get close to the PONR and I don't masturbate to porn, I just watched it.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Maybe it is the sensitivity to humping you need to work on. I learned not too long ago of the dangers of dry humping, and you may want to read up on reasons to avoid this.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

I feel you man. As the other posters mentioned though, thinking about sex is perfectly normal - we're wired that way! It's part of what makes us human and helps us procreate. If sex wasn't enjoyable and we didn't crave it, we wouldn't be here.

I'm new to PE and I can't speak to other techniques, but I think one of the healthiest, natural ways to improve EQ outside of abstaining from porn is to exercise. Strength training in particular starts off a chain of events in your body that releases hormones, endorphins, and improves circulation - all things that boost sex drive and improve EQ. Ever since I started lifting, I get ROCK HARD morning woods and my EQ has never been this good.

Yeah man you're spot on. I need to get back in the gym like I did in the past. Back then I was in the gym 5x a week and my erections were rock hard. I will get back in the gym when I get back on campus when our break is over. Also I see we have the same stats. How is the sex with the length and girth you have ? We're both 6 inches long and have 4.5 girth. I maybe 4.6.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Maybe it is the sensitivity to humping you need to work on. I learned not too long ago of the dangers of dry humping, and you may want to read up on reasons to avoid this.

The thing is I don't dry hump prone which is dangerous but I dry hump on my side while laying down. I don't know maybe one side of my penis is sensitive and the other isn't because I only dry hump on my left side. And it's resulted in my penis curving up and to the right.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

It sounds like that is being done enough to change your penis. So that is kind of your routine. Your routine is changing the shape and look of your penis, congratulations. Now if you want the changes to be different read some threads, learn how to change what you want to change, and then change your routine accordingly. Well done, enjoy.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

It sounds like that is being done enough to change your penis. So that is kind of your routine. Your routine is changing the shape and look of your penis, congratulations. Now if you want the changes to be different read some threads, learn how to change what you want to change, and then change your routine accordingly. Well done, enjoy.

What my kegal routine ?

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

I really appreciate everyone for the motivation and advice. I really needed that. The thing is woth edging I can't even get close to the PONR and I don't masturbate to porn, I just watched it.

So you gave in huh? Can you not fap using your imagination? PORN is the reason for ED and weak EQ. I'll post some stuff later that you can review, stuff from smart people.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

So you gave in huh? Can you not fap using your imagination? PORN is the reason for ED and weak EQ. I'll post some stuff later that you can review, stuff from smart people.

I didn't give in. Im still goin strong on my 14 day. I dry humped to my imagination actually if that counts for anything.

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

Wow you rock! Keep it up then man. Are you single?

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Wow you rock! Keep it up then man. Are you single?

Never had a girlfriend and never had sex so yeah lol

[shoes4me Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close shoes4me]

Go download Tinder

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

Never had a girlfriend and never had sex so yeah lol

Research some male self improvement stuff on some sites. Goodlookinglooser is pretty awesome. Really take the time you would use at looking at porn and all the energy you have for sex to be better. I know when I started No fap and stopped porn I had this huge confidence boost talking to people, especially women. Every time I see a cute girl, i'd go talk to her just to say hi. Look at all the success stories on reddit about nofap/noporn as well and use that as motivation! If you really really want to get better then you gotta set small goals that lead to bigger ones

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Research some male self improvement stuff on some sites. Goodlookinglooser is pretty awesome. Really take the time you would use at looking at porn and all the energy you have for sex to be better. I know when I started No fap and stopped porn I had this huge confidence boost talking to people, especially women. Every time I see a cute girl, i'd go talk to her just to say hi. Look at all the success stories on reddit about nofap/noporn as well and use that as motivation! If you really really want to get better then you gotta set small goals that lead to bigger ones

Question does your bigger dick give you confidence ? How can I have confidence with a below average girth and average length and still a virgin in college ?