Wow, my romance life is exploding right now!

[Qarzan]

It's finally starting to sink in that I'm actually a very attractive man.

Tonight I have a date with [CS]. We've been seeing each other for about a month and a half. She's spending the night. We have amazing connection, I've already introduced her in another thread. We are planning our future, doing things together, seeing each other 3-4 times per week, spending the night together every time. Amazing sex, disarming vulnerability, unbridled passion, and we're really really sweet and attentive with each other. She's amazing, someone worth cherishing, loving, and spending an eternity with. We have structured our relationship as polyamorous, meaning we're allowing each other to go on dates with, and fall in love with, other people.

Tomorrow night I have my third date with [PJ], she's spending the night. She's really really cute, she really likes me and I like her. She cums easily and often, and it seems this surprises her as she says that's not usual for her. I don't have the same depth of plans for the future with her, sex is not as arousing because she's submissive and I'm switch ([CS] is switch, too). Although it definitely still feels good.

The night after that, I have a first date with [CK]. We're going to a house party that I'm DJing, no idea whether or not we're spending the night together. I have no attachment as to whether or not it happens because honestly I don't need any more attention in that department. It's great if it happens, otherwise I'm not bothered if it doesn't. Which is a paradox, because it seems like the less I want or need it, the more it's available.

I saw [CK] last night after not having seen her for about a year. We had a great dance and then she said, "Is it ok if you're my new dance crush?"
I replied, "I am ok with that." Then we kissed.
When she was about to leave, I was DJing. She came up to me and handed me her card. "Here's my card, and if you have a pen, I can write my number on it.
The DJ next to me said, "He has a computer, too."
I handed her my phone. "I have a phone, too."
She entered her phone number, then said, "You can call me, and we can talk about dancing, or whatever."

Then I walked around the DJ table to give her a hug. We kissed on the lips, a tiny bit of tongue to take it way beyond the friendly smooch, then I said in her ear as she kissed my ear and neck, "I'll call you, and we can talk about dancing, ... or whatever."
She said, "That would be nice."

Then I texted at the end of last night, and we arranged to go to the house party on Thursday, with dinner beforehand. I let her know I find her extremely attractive (long auburn hair, striking blue eyes, sex education teacher, BDSM workshop leader).

Wow, ok so not only have I started 2 new hot, steamy relationships in the past 1.5 months, but I think because I'm all sexed up and in the throes of new relationship hormones with 2 women, there's a kind of glow about me that attracts even more women. I mean, [CK] came up and gave me her number. I didn't even request it.

My romance life is exploding right now. It'd be somewhat exhausting if it weren't for all the oxytocin, dopamine, and other feelgood, lovey-dovey hormones running through my body right now. I feel like I'm 16 years old again!

[Qarzan]

Date with [CK] went well last night! We went to dinner, had a great time and great conversation. She says I'm incredibly sexy, not only because of my body, but also how I move (she loves dancing with me) and the way I am; that she doesn't have to try to be smart, funny, clever, whatever; that she can just be herself around me.

As we were discussing STD testing and boundaries, she brought up that she uses barriers with penises, and not for vagina-to-vagina sex. And that she LOVES pussy, and it's been MONTHS since she's had some good pussy.
Then I said, "Would you like to meet [CS]?" I was inspired because [CK] talks about her passion for eating pussy the same way that [CS] does. At least they have that in common.
She replied, "Does she like women?"
"Yes."
"Then, I'd love to meet her."

We came back to my place, she spent the night, I learned about her body. She's almost the opposite of [CS], who likes extremely light touch. [CK] likes a rough, heavy hand on her pussy and clit. She goes wild when I combine a lot of pressure and fast movement. I told her that she has a body like a Greek statue, or Renaissance painting.

Before I gave her a ride to the train station this morning, we scheduled our next date, which is going to be on Tuesday evening next week. She's probably going to spend the night again.

I called [CS] and told her about the date, and then told her that [CK] would like to meet her, and the context in which I brought it up. She laughed, and then said she definitely wants to meet her.

Yaay, threesome! But first we have to see if they actually get along.

[Party]

Wow again I just hope the two of them can fit you into their schedule LOL. Somehow I think they will, good luck. Keep us ABREAST of how it goes. And don't play favorites.

[calm]

That lifestyle is great, but it desensitizes you and changes you. I have done similar... juggling many woman. I'm talking boat loads of them. I started to lose myself in a not so great way. I realized that I didn't really like any of the woman I was around and I was just doing it to boost my own ego. It is like trying 50 different type of tequila in one sitting. How can you tell what is good and what you even like anymore? I'm still young, [25] and I am glad I found that out about myself as early as I did. There is nothing wrong with it OP, it's great. But... it does become hard to differentiate between what is real and what is just because. I spent a lot of alone time after I started to ask myself who I ever wanted to be with out of these women, and who I actually like, and why I actually like them. The alone did me well. I went on about a hundred dates over a year period and finally met someone that I wouldn't trade for every actress who is a 10 in the world. Sounds corny and absolutely no one cares haha but just reading your post made me think about my old life and the girl I am with now. Goodluck and cheers.