afraid of women

[putzaras Member Find all posts View Profile Close putzaras]

hey guys ,

For over 3 years now i have had no intimate contact with womens, and as more time passes by i get more and more ancious to meet them. The reason is ofcourse my penis. I tried several times to enlarge it, i train for 2 months but than i kinda cant stick to it, i have to study or to work and i stop training. Iam always reading threads in the net were women ridicoule guys with smaller peckers.
My self esteem reached a new low, i really dont know how to escape this circle of hell. If you dont mind http://xhamster.com/movies/122567/is_this_penis_small_or_not_plz_honest.html you can see my penis ,( btw i lost weigth + trimmed hair now). A friend told me if i have penis size issues i should just go for the very ugly girls, then i maybe have a chance. But i dont want that, i just want a normal average, nice and smart girl that suits me ( people say i have a handsome face, but that doesnt help much here )

I hope you can give me some valuable advices

I startet here on decemer all pumped up and motivated but i havnt seen any chance

[Gel King Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gel King]

cameras and angles can be deceiving. have u ever measured your unit? at first glance, you have NOTHING to be ashamed of.

[putzaras Member Find all posts View Profile Close putzaras]

yeah its while sitting roughly 14 cm long (while bonepressed its 16 cm but only while sitting) and 3,8 cm wide (around kinde 11,8-12cm). Normal size condoms i think are to big for me

[Gel King Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gel King]

Honestly man, your current penis size is fine. In fact, there are many guys in this gym that would be very happy to get to where you are starting. 3 years is a long time to shy away from women. Like I said, you have nothing to be ashamed of! If you wanna gain an inch, PE will do it for you a few months down the road. But I say GO OUT AND GET YOUR DICK WET TODAY!!

[putzaras Member Find all posts View Profile Close putzaras]

you knwo after 3 years its not easy for me to approach girls. i dont feel comfortable when i try this or even think about this. dont know how to get back into the game

[Gel King Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gel King]

i totally hear you bro.. its as much a mental game as it is physical. If you need to work on yourself first (ie, PE, getting into the right mentality) then thats cool. It will not take long to see physical changes and certainly hanging around these forums will help your psyche. i just broke out of a 3 year relationship, and after breaking up... i realized i was clinging on to my GF all these years because of my insecurity (lack of size). I've been single for 2 months and have been concentrating on myself: strict PE routine, dieting, gym, etc. And i'm doing it not for anybody but myself. Love yourself, accept who you are, realize you are not alone, work hard and the game will come to you.

[RyanV Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RyanV]

you knwo after 3 years its not easy for me to approach girls. i dont feel comfortable when i try this or even think about this. dont know how to get back into the game

The problem most guys have with women is that they put women/pussy on this pedestal of greatness. Even before they speak to the girl they like, they say to themselves 'I'm not worthy of her'. This is really something you shouldn't be doing, get rid of this pedestal and just see them as normal persons to whom you can talk to. Some people put too much pressure on themselves, others see talking to girls as having fun, that is the thing you should be doing in the beginning. If you want to be intimate, kino and start teasing, eventually it will happen. Ofcourse you have to recognize body language, then you'll be able to differentiate between girls that like you and those who don't.

[putzaras Member Find all posts View Profile Close putzaras]

iam on this stuf to, started to diet and pe strict, also work out, but i never manage to make it last over 2 months, after 2 months i start having on and off pahases cause i see no change

[doupdoupdoup Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close doupdoupdoup]

Just get out there, be good at something, be sociable. No one really cares that much about your dick size, just take it as a hobby and a scientific experiment, where you demonstrate your ability to get results rather than needing it to get something. Dick size doesn't really get you much in society, but people instead act like it does. That is why god gave you tongue and fingers for. Just make sure you are full hard and hot, before entry, and make sure she is very wet and ready before entry.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Viewed your penis on xhamster and it appeared to be average size or above. The head is well above average. I would not be ashamed of it (it actually looks larger than mine and my wife has never complained). Follow the PE exercises in the newbie routine and than concentrate on girth exercises. I don't see any problems with your length (measurements would help us to better advise you) but your shaft girth is small compared to your head, but nothing to be ashamed of.

Go for the girl you lake best and don't worry about your penis size. When the time is right, I assure you she will not complain about it as long as you get emotionally and passionately involved. I've been there and I have been happily married to my wife for almost 39 years and I am now just starting PE.

[putzaras Member Find all posts View Profile Close putzaras]

not2big,
i posted measurments above. whats your size? why do you start pe after 39 years of marriage?

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Here is a bit of advice from the female side: if you can manage it, just go out and have fun with girls -- any girls. Don't think about dating, don't think about sex, don't think about anything except making friends and talking with them. Take the pressure off yourself to perform, just have fun. You need to get comfortable talking with girls before you go further. Don't torture yourself by trying to force the issue. Talk to girls wherever you can -- school, work, the grocery store, the bus, the gym, wherever you go. Just have fun and relax. The rest will come.

If you are concerned about your size, start a PE program and stick with it. You will make gains, but you have to work for them. But in the mean time, try to relax. If you really want to know what women think about guys and penis size, check out some of these threads. Hopefully they will put your mind at ease.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...ze-matter.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/4442-women-size.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/pe-theo...ter-lover.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...-more-sex.html

[millia Senior Member;PEGym Editor Find all posts View Profile Close millia]

As batwoman mentioned above, just be friends and be yourself. It's amazing at how the simplest of things can get you started. You need to exude confidence when you're talking to a girl and be yourself. Don't be afraid of getting rejected, because in reality there's literally MILLIONS more girls out there that will be worth your time. Make friends first, worry about other things later. If a girl's interested then you'll know. Try to be funny (works for me). If you have questions on how to approach girls feel free to PM me and ask, I can't tell you how many times I've been rejected in the last few months (before february though), but never let it get to me because I know that eventually I was gonna bump into the right one.
Your penis looks about the same as mine, but the head is definitely larger. I also feel as if normal condoms are too big just for the fact that depending on the make they start to slide off (due to my juices and hers). I've never had a complaint out of 19 girls that I've had sex with and a few have said its the best they had. I used to have issues with my penis size as well, but have learned that what I used to lack in size I could outdo in stamina.

[LOL Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LOL]

iam on this stuf to, started to diet and pe strict, also work out, but i never manage to make it last over 2 months, after 2 months i start having on and off pahases cause i see no change

Get mad cause of that. Get mad that you feel you haven't made a difference, and get educated. Ride that burning anger to motivate you to change yourself. If you haven't seen much change after 2 months, stopping will only cause you to change negatively. Try a calorie tracking site so you can find out some information and tips and limit your calories to where you'd lose weight. Some sites also include your metabolism and the calories you burn while working out, so it's really helpful. I really hope you have some positive progress soon!

[O.G. Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close O.G.]

There is nothing small about that dick. Mine is 6.3in and 4.8in girth and I fuck the shit out of my girlfriend to be honest and she's been with much larger guys. Plus being passionate, and good at eating her out among other things does help a lot. You're above average, and your head looks well above average.

Just get out there man, you're the prize.