Start up Anxiety and lack of confidenss

[fatality1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fatality1]

Hello everyone,

I have been in a releationship for 4 months. I fall in love to her and she love me too. But a serious problem has started in my sex life. I had lots of girlfriends in my past, I feel like a lion in my ex relationships and had 5 years long relationship too. I am experienced both love and sex. Now, my new woman is different from my past and I really love her. Her past has 2 men, one is long relationship one is 4-5 months.

I have 7'' penis, good performance, good body and I didnt have any complex or penis envy until this releationship. She said that "best penis is yours, AVERAGE length, my long term ex (5 years) have 9'' penis and second have 4'' penis. 9'' guy gave me pain and didnt get any orgasm." This sentence ruined my confidence, then Erectile Dysfunction has started. When I ED, she said that "I never seen a guy ED, normaly u should penetrate at least 45min but why you got ED, you dont want me or your sexual power is low? We can use pills if you want, I love you even if you got ED, and I always get orgasm when we intercourse". I know she dont lie to me but it feels me small and loser.

Sometimes sex is great, sometimes i got ED. Sometimes I use cialin secretly to get my confidence again. I focused her ex, I hate him. She is unexperienced but it makes me pathetic. I cant sex without cialin. For her, our relationship is great, sex is great even if I have ED and normal penis length. She thinks bigger is better but said that even if your penis is average, you make me crazy. And I always love and want you.

I had complex of penis and cant sex anymore, I cant reconstruct my confidence, I have knowlodge and experience, normaly this words cant affect me. I know 7'' is not small and I can get her everytime but I cant focus anymore. I dont want to sex. In my past, I usually hit cervix while penetrating but in this releationship, I cant, I cant errect 100% only I can cum in blowjob.

Help me please, I love her so much but cant stay anymore. I feel like loser, jelous and small guy. How can I reconstruct my confidence?

Thank you.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Oh dear another bigger dick ex story these are told to lower your confidence.

[fatality1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fatality1]

Meanwhile, only Cialin give me my past performance, not more not less. Wihout Cialin, I usually ED.

[Sequoia Tree Senior Member Member of the Month July 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Sequoia Tree]

Didn't you mention that she said the 9" guy caused her pain and she wasn't able to orgasm with him? What reason is there to be intimidated by this guy's noodle if he's a lousy lay? Bigger clearly isn't better in this case.

It sounds like the problems are in your head. Learn to be the foreplay sensei, and communicate with your woman, especially during penetration, so you can get an idea of where you're aiming your dick; shoot for the anterior or posterior fornix and don't hit the cervix. That's a start.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Wow it really worked didn't it .

This was a calculated attack on your confidence.

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best penis is yours, AVERAGE length, my long term ex (5 years) have 9'' penis and second have 4'' penis. 9'' guy gave me pain and didnt get any orgasm." This sentence ruined my confidence, then Erectile Dysfunction has started. When I ED, she said that "I never seen a guy ED, normaly u should penetrate at least 45min but why you got ED, you dont want me or your sexual power is low?
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Uh huh lets see 9' dick uh huh , at least 45min uh huh , don't want me mmm yeah sex power low .
She covered most of the bases here . Have seen on these pages women go harder to create ed of course but a good effort all the same .

Now she will continue playing head games .

Or you can leave her

[fatality1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fatality1]

The cervix hitting feels me dominant, when I use cialin, I usually using my 2/3 of my Penis to get her cum or my fingers. I know bigger isint better but when I feel small, it kills my spirit. If she had 100 partners in her past and bigger was 8'', that would be no problem but 9'' is too much for me.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Oh by the way she has had far more than 2 boyfriends and has learned the specifics of what to say and make it sound at least a bit plausible .

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

The cervix hitting feels me dominant, when I use cialin, I usually using my 2/3 of my Penis to get her cum or my fingers. I know bigger isint better but when I feel small, it kills my spirit. If she had 100 partners in her past and bigger was 8'', that would be no problem but 9'' is too much for me.

She might well have had a 100 partners the biggest 8", but that wouldn't give you head issues she knows that.

[fatality1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fatality1]

I know her, she was my good friend for 4 years. We had talked everyting especially our exes while we were friend. She know my all releationships, one nights, and I know her all exes when we were friend everytime we hangout. I dont want to represent me as loser so I cant say anything about my penis envy.

[KingKdong Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close KingKdong]

From my experience with a similar issue with a vicious broad, it sounds like emotional manipulation.

[fatality1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fatality1]

Why she do emotional manipulation? She is beautiful and popular. I am popular too in our community. If she wants it, she can find lots of guys I am witness because I was her friend. If she want to left me she can as i can.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Strange creatures.. I'm tellin' ya!

Before I forget, why don't you ask her how long your dick is? I bet ya she guesses wrong, saying you're longer. Women are terrible with measurements. Either that or he lied to her saying he has a 9 inch dick.

9"? Sure buddy, and I caught a mermaid today.

That's all for now.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

This is crazy!!

Why do I keep reading women telling guys there ex's were bigger, smaller etc!! Is nothing private?!

I've never shared with my partners details of my past sex lives other than the number of guys I've been with and really I don't understand why they want to know that.

If a guy said to me btw my ex's vagina was better, tighter but... He wouldn't get to finish the sentence. I would tell him to jog on.

A partner is meant to raise you up and support you in life not kick you down or underpeg your confidence.

[fatality1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fatality1]

I disrespect her ex everytime, disrespect her everytime normaly I dont care pasts and I always respect the past beacause I have past too and past is past. I know why I disrespect her ex, complex causes. She dont disrespect my past and she respect it. So, I feel alone in this situation. She can not help me but try to fix my ED. I love her. If I left her I feel like pathetic. How to handle with this anxiety and confidenss problem. Need advice to destroy this problem in my head to see everything clearly. I am tired to hide this problem from her. I dont want to use pills anymore.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Wow you really are not going to listen.