I'm A Woman, Ask Me Anything!

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

Oh my God, mom! How embarrassing! I don't masturbate in my room...but that is the reason I take 2 hour showers. btw way, you're gonna need to wash the towels with Tide.

Son, your dad has a couple of devices in the back room - a flesh mate and a bath mate XL, do you want me to ask him if you can borrow them. The bath mate might be a little big to start but it will give you some goals to work toward. Just trying to help...

[Jobe8302 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jobe8302]

Bath mate XL? I think I used that as a bong, once. But is the bath mate XL why you call Dad "John the Jackhammer Smith"?...and if y'all would have told me about PEGym years ago, it wouldn't be too big.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Great thread ZZWoman!

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

Bath mate XL? I think I used that as a bong, once. But is the bath mate XL why you call Dad "John the Jackhammer Smith"?...and if y'all would have told me about PEGym years ago, it wouldn't be too big.

lol, made my day.

Any more questions?

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Not a question but since Cusp asked about the detergent and I am also skin sensitive at home we have been using Persil for almost a year now, it removes the though stains, smells good and it doesn't seem to bleach off the colors. So far so good.

[discreet Senior Member Member of the Month May 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close discreet]

Hi,

Unsure if Oxyclean hurts anyone.

It's sorta become my go to. Gets my whites white and keeps colors.

[Dongo Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dongo]

How many cats do you have?

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

How do you feel about cheesecake, chocolate, green tea/coffee based desserts? If available, would you take one in a miniature cupcake form.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Do you /women except a man to be hard all the time during foreplay without stimulation? (not talking here about hand job or blowjob)

Cause I am 24 years old and my erection can stay hard, fluctuate or soften.
So when going down on my partner I sometimes use my hand to stimulate myself and to be ready for interocurse? Other times it stays hard or fluctuate or it gets fully hard on its own

It can even happen that when we both are naked I just have a semi erection and need a bit stimualtion (happens rarely but happens)

intercourse is not a problem

I don't know about other women, particularly younger or more inexperienced women, but I certainly don't expect a man to be or stay hard all the time. And I have to say that almost every man I've been with has manually stimulated himself when going down on me when he's preparing to move to penetration, so that's not at all unusual.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Would you prefer to have sex with a man rather than a sex toy that was, theoretically, engineered to act as a 'perfect' sexual instrument (meaning you would get the most out of it in terms of raw, physical stimulation)?

If so, why?

I would say it's pretty impossible to engineer a perfect sex toy. There's absolutely nothing that compares to the thrill and excitement of being with an actual flesh and blood person. Feeling their pulse race. Their breath on your skin. The taste and smell of them. The fact that a person is capable of acting independently and unpredictably and surprising you. As far as sex is concerned there is absolutely no comparison. Sex with a toy is a very poor substitute for the real thing.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Yes I wrote this into a joke but for reals why do women want a dominant partner but can't handle a finger in the butt, although they can give birth to a watermelon?

First of all there's no point in comparing dominance to anal because they're not at all the same thing.

SOME women might want a dominant partner for many different reasons. Some just like the aspect of not having to be responsible. It's not uncommon for people who are in positions of power or have a great deal of responsibility to every day life to prefer to be submissive or in similar situations sexually, just like sometimes people who feel powerless and ineffective in every day life like to be dominant sexually. Sometimes they just like the excitement of it, or the slight tinge or danger associated with it.

Anal is a very personal thing - some women are fine with it and some aren't. Just like some men that are and some aren't - there's really no reason a woman should be more into receiving anal than a man would be. And even with those that are they might not be up for it every single time. There are so many other factors involved with anal other than just sexual interest or arousal.

As for the whole giving birth thing - I really wish guys would give that a rest. It's a fallacy, and it does nothing but cause problems. For one thing a newborn baby is nowhere near the size of a watermelon. A newborn is also VERY compressed/squished in there during birth. Also the female body has to go through a fairly lengthy process and a number of changes in order to prepare for and accommodate birthing, that's why labour lasts for hours (and hours). And many - I'd even say most - women actually CAN'T make it through birthing without literally having her skin tearing apart.
It's also worth noting that I have never once heard a woman talk about how pleasant or enjoyable giving birth was. It's a grueling, painful process and I can't imagine why men keep suggesting that just because women endure it then they must be able to happily enjoy other activities that involve large items shoved inside them.

[RalphPhoLauren Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RalphPhoLauren]

I don't know if you can answer this for me but, i'm talking to several different girls to get back out on the dating seen but there is two things. 1) All women seem to be terrible texters, its literally a Q and A with me asking all the same questions, day in and day out. 2) I've been talking to two girls one for one month and the other off and on for 2 years and literally haven't met them. Every time we make plans they flake or something. Know what this could be about? I feel I am an attractive young man but just have the worst luck with women...

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

I don't know if you can answer this for me but, i'm talking to several different girls to get back out on the dating seen but there is two things. 1) All women seem to be terrible texters, its literally a Q and A with me asking all the same questions, day in and day out. 2) I've been talking to two girls one for one month and the other off and on for 2 years and literally haven't met them. Every time we make plans they flake or something. Know what this could be about? I feel I am an attractive young man but just have the worst luck with women...

I can answer this..... They're just not that into you.

Think about it, how many women do you know are that bad at texting with a guy they like? And in two years they would have met you by now if there was any chemistry or they liked you enough to meet you in person. Unfortunately, you've fallen into the trap of texting buddy for women who only text for the attention.... They probably have relationships or other men lined up too. Cut yourself loose from these women and go find yourself someone who wants to talk to you in person.

I am not just telling you this for your own good, I've had to do this with three women this year... All of them were only interested in the attention and either had bf's, were platonic friends who dropped me for a love interest, or just narcissist to the point that I didn't want to talk about them all the time, so I dropped them all and went out to meet other women. Granted it was hard closing the door on what I thought were great friendships but then I realized they didn't put anything into the relationship, and they were not worth the trouble of texting for nothing.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

If I may add to this with my own philosophy, I think of women as employees interviewing for a job and myself as the business. If they don't meet the qualifications I'm looking for, which are not too demanding, I stop interviewing them and look elsewhere. I will still treat them with kindness but they don't get any more of my time or energy, and I don't go out on dates with these women or buy them anything. My time is valuable and I don't waste it on just anybody.

Now with women who are in the friends category or even family, I am a little more lenient with them because I know some women will drop their circle of friends to put everything into their latest love interest. This tends to happen more with younger women during the first couple of months that of infatuation than with the older crowd. That's fine, I've already hired them and have a certain level of trust with them, but I downgrade them from friend to acquaintance and back off on the interactions. I am still nice and everything when I hear from them but again I don't give them my time unless they ask for it.

This philosophy helps me keep my time dedicated to those who deserve it the most and avoid putting too much into casual relationships, like those in college and work only friends. I still enjoy those friendships and the people I meet I'm just not giving myself emotionally to people who won't be there for me, and putting the needs of others ahead of my own.

[DaveX Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaveX]

As for the whole giving birth thing - I really wish guys would give that a rest. It's a fallacy, and it does nothing but cause problems. For one thing a newborn baby is nowhere near the size of a watermelon. A newborn is also VERY compressed/squished in there during birth. Also the female body has to go through a fairly lengthy process and a number of changes in order to prepare for and accommodate birthing, that's why labour lasts for hours (and hours). And many - I'd even say most - women actually CAN'T make it through birthing without literally having her skin tearing apart.
It's also worth noting that I have never once heard a woman talk about how pleasant or enjoyable giving birth was. It's a grueling, painful process and I can't imagine why men keep suggesting that just because women endure it then they must be able to happily enjoy other activities that involve large items shoved inside them.

Well said! I've been thinking this for a long long time, when someone drops the dumb watermelon quote thing and completely ignores the 9 months of extreme hormonal and body changes. SO told me Childbirth was very painful - but a "nice pain" - don't know what that means tho!