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[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

^^^ any advice?

Well it's not the same as piv sex. Basically if she's not a porn star then you need to go slow and gentle first and build up. You'll never be able to go as hard and fast as reg intercourse. Must must be careful or could do a lot of damage.

Need to use lube as there no natural lube there.

[proactive Senior MemberMember of the Month ? 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close proactive]

Slow and lube. I suggest letting her start on top. Then she can regulate the initial insertion. After that...they'll figure it out.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Yeah, my GF loves it and I have some great tips for anal. There's plenty of guides out there for getting started so I'm going to skip that and just give you a few tips.

But first let me give a little disclaimer. With most girls you only get one shot for anal so don't fuck it up by going too deep or too fast. There's two sphincters inside her anus, one that she has voluntary control get on the outside and one that is involuntarily controlled about 2-3" inside. Your first time you do anal you do not want to go past her first sphincter, because the feeling of penetrating her other sphincter is going be a bit too much for her.

Like others have said go slowly. I recommend the stop and start technique for anal penetration. Once you penetrate her anus with your finger tip or a toy you leave it there and give her muscles a chance to relax. When you can work in one finger you slowly SLOWLY introduce another and so on. When you get to your penis don't do doggy or cowgirl, those are advanced positions that will make her ass too tight and make you go too deep. Instead try spooning or spread eagle and go slowly. If you've been successful with your PE your penis is going to feel huge to her.

Other than that, you want to make sure she is really happy the day you try anal... Endorphins or whatever, but it also makes things a lot easier. Make sure she's eating plenty of fiber and not over doing it on the spices or anal will be a hot mess. Her ass will contain some specks of shit but it won't be gross unless she's got diarrhea. Use a condom, don't use a condom, it's your choice. If you have a hard time tell her to push like she's taking a shit. She won't actually shit on you but her ass will open enough for you to progress with the stop and start method.

Lastly, have fun with it. Use a butt plug with her while you fuck her and lick her good. Encourage her to masturbate or use toys while you have anal sex, but just make her stop when your trying to penetrate her or her muscles down there will tighten. And play up the bad girl fantasy. Anal sex has such a stigma that many girl who like it get off on how naughty they feel for enjoying it. Smack her ass, call her a dirty little anal slut, or whatever she likes to be called (every woman has her likes and that word you better not call her) and play up the fantasy that she's being naughty, she will fucking love it!

And make sure you cuddle with her afterwords. Let her know that you love her for more than her body and how special she is to you. Be sweet, tender, and kiss her like prince charming afterward and she will most likely want to try anal again.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Thanks everyone for the advice and pointers. I will make sure the info gets passed along.

[Biohacker Member Find all posts View Profile Close Biohacker]

If you are new to a relationship, but have to take Viagra to achieve an erection, how do you break the news to a girl so she doesn't think you have to take it because your not attracted to her. Especially when you are a young man 37?

[Biohacker Member Find all posts View Profile Close Biohacker]

How to break the uncomfortable news about ed?

When you start dating a girl that you really like, how do you tell her you have to take medication for erectile dysfunction without it upsetting her or making her run away?

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Well, this is another thread about the same thing to your last. I don’t care but there will be. Mod along shortly I’m sure.

To answer the question. Why tell her at all until you’ve gotten serious. As long as you get hard and rock her world. What’s the difference how you got there. I mean, Viagra doesn’t work unless you are aroused, no different than any other guy. Just a little kick in the dick. No biggy.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I agree with Party

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

If you are new to a relationship, but have to take Viagra to achieve an erection, how do you break the news to a girl so she doesn't think you have to take it because your not attracted to her. Especially when you are a young man 37?

You establish a relationship first, build up confidence and trust in each other and you will know when the right time to discuss this is. Make sure you get past the "farting in front of each other" phase first. You will eventually begin to discuss everyday life stuff and you comfort level with her will increase. It is then that you just let her know that you have ED and are taking something for it. Its that simple.

Now if you are taking Viagara and don't need to, then it is your conscience that has to deal with the lie. Just saying, if that is the fact. 37 is pretty young to be on ED medications.

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Have merged your duplicate question on the same topic to this thread- Biohacker. Please refrain from making duplicate posts on the same subject in different threads.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

If you are new to a relationship, but have to take Viagra to achieve an erection, how do you break the news to a girl so she doesn't think you have to take it because your not attracted to her. Especially when you are a young man 37?

I say go for broke and tell her everything that might potentially be a problem in the relationship by your third date. You can say "I want to be with you but I have this problem with ED I have been working on (make sure you frame it like something you are working to fix on your own) so I can't get an erection without Viagra. However, I am willing to lick you and do whatever it takes to keep you satisfied despite of this problem." I think you will find that most women will be willing to accept you as a sexual partner as long as you are upfront and honest, and once they know you're not going to take away from the relationship by sulking or making her feel guilty about your problem.

You can also tell the woman your interested in something along the lines of "this is what's wrong with me, if you're willing to work with me I'm willing to satisfy you in other ways. If not, then this is your chance to leave." This will give them an opportunity to leave if they are not that interested in a sexual relationship with you, and this kind of honesty will keep you from getting your car keyed later on, but most women will appreciate this kind of honesty and bravery. It takes a lot to tell any new partner "this is what is wrong with me" but it is important for your benefit as well as hers, and it prevents you both from wasting your time.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Have merged your duplicate question on the same topic to this thread- Biohacker. Please refrain from making duplicate posts on the same subject in different threads.

See I told ya.

[BigRooster Senior Member Member of the Month Apr 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigRooster]

Do lady manners get checked at the door when they go to the gym. Not that I am complaining, in some incidences. Just curious.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I think the world is losing its manners as a whole.

[NOWHARD Banned Find all posts View Profile Close NOWHARD]

I think its bleeding out from Greece, here's a country where there are no manners most of the time, its me first and just barge in, cant wait or queue and there driving takes some getting used to, you need to be looking 360 deg, try that its fun.

NOWHARD