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    It has been a year already since my ex and I decided to cut everything that connects us. We fell out of love after 6 months of living together. I can’t feel any affection anymore, including that spark I felt when we met in a foreign bride social some years ago. Now, I heard the news about him marrying. I know I should be happy for him but a part of me is missing him. I want to make sure if I’m totally done with him, that’s why I plan to see him in a few days from now. Do you think this is a good thing for me to do? I need your thoughts about this.

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    I think that idea is bad. You won't change the situation short-term. I mean he's getting married, even if you are not done with him, that is a pretty obvious sign he moved on emotionally.
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    • #3
      Originally posted by girlinthemirror15 View Post
      It has been a year already since my ex and I decided to cut everything that connects us. We fell out of love after 6 months of living together. I can’t feel any affection anymore, including that spark I felt when we met in a foreign bride social some years ago. Now, I heard the news about him marrying. I know I should be happy for him but a part of me is missing him. I want to make sure if I’m totally done with him, that’s why I plan to see him in a few days from now. Do you think this is a good thing for me to do? I need your thoughts about this.
      Why you want to do that? Do yourself a favour and dont. He will be excited and happy and probably be at his best. Nothing good comes out of stuff like this. Leave them alone
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      Now: 7 .9 (20 cm ) BPEL 5.3 MEG

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      • #4
        Bad bad idea. Wedding are a stressful time and nearly everyone gets seconds thoughts leading up to the day.

        Chances are something will happen between you as you'll see him now more 'wantable' seeing another person wants to marry him. Then afterwards he'll marry the other girl and you'll feel used and heart broken for the one that got away.... but he didn't get away, you didn't want him.
        Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.

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        • #5
          I don't mean to sound harsh, but the truth is you had your chance. He's obviously moved on, and so must you.

          Perhaps you just find difficult to come to terms with the fact that he's found a girl who gives him what you could not.
          That's life. There is always someone out there who will gladly pick up the slack, where something is missing from your relationship.

          Put it down to experience and move on.

          If you truly care about this man, you should be happy knowing he has found happiness in his life. Isn't that what we want for the people we care about?
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          • #6
            Go see a movie instead. It will end much better that seeing him again, for both of you.
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            • #7
              Originally posted by girlinthemirror15 View Post
              It has been a year already since my ex and I decided to cut everything that connects us. We fell out of love after 6 months of living together. I can’t feel any affection anymore, including that spark I felt when we met in a foreign bride social some years ago. Now, I heard the news about him marrying. I know I should be happy for him but a part of me is missing him. I want to make sure if I’m totally done with him, that’s why I plan to see him in a few days from now. Do you think this is a good thing for me to do? I need your thoughts about this.
              Why did you post this on PEGym? Why not Quora, Yahoo answers, or one of the countless relationship forum sites out there? Is your ex a member here???
              Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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              • #8
                Originally posted by TheGreatDivider View Post
                Why did you post this on PEGym? Why not Quora, Yahoo answers, or one of the countless relationship forum sites out there? Is your ex a member here???
                Been wondering the same thing in cases like this.
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                Now: 7 .9 (20 cm ) BPEL 5.3 MEG

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