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If one has a casual relationship. And the girl tells about i ons she had a week earlier with a very young guy. Should this qualify as a valid turnoff or would this make tha guy a pussy if it is taken as a turnoff. Asking for a friend :-P any advice Welcome. TGD you out there?
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How casual of a relationship does said "friend" have with the girl? A) the girl could be testing the waters to see how the "friend" reacts as she might have feelings for said "friend", B) she may enjoy multiple "friends" and was just mentioning the "other" one in what she assumed was friendly conversation.
In either case, if it's a casual relationship, well, there is nothing assumed to be committed and said "friend" should not take anything by it....unless of course said "friend" has deeper feelings for the girl.
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Yup you are right. My thoughts exactly! My «friend» was just put off for s minute.Start 5.8 (14.9 cm) BPEL 5.2 MEG
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I think it depends on what your friend (let's call him Guy) feels is acceptable.Originally posted by Norwaydude View Post
Maybe Guy thinks women should be less promiscuous, so Girl having sex with someone else a week earlier and having a casual relationship with Guy may be a turn off for him.
Personally, I think that's a bit of a double standard - and think Girl should be able to have sex with whomever she pleases as long as she's emotionally and physically safe. However, Guy may feel differently and that's not wrong - it's just different from my opinion.
I have a male friend who always has multiple girls on the hook at the same time. He's very clear that the relationship is casual. However, I also know he gets a little bent out of shape when he thinks one of them is seeing other guys. He has even ended relationships because of it. He wants them to be faithful to him - but he wants to date multiple women.
Again, I think that's pretty hypocritical - but it's what he wants, so I can't fault him for that.
Now, if Guy is feeling a little jealousy over Girl sleeping with someone else, he really should evaluate his feelings. Is it because he wants something more monogamous? If so, he really should discuss it with Girl and set some boundaries. Those boundaries may even be - We can both see other people, but I don't want to know about it.Comment
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I think its minging to be sleeping with two different guys in the same week. The casual thing doesnt really come into it.
Yes you might be sleepin with someone youre not in a relationship with but your still having sex.
Mind im not amercian and i know they have the whole dating numerous people until there exclusive thing.Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.Comment
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Asking for a friend (Za edin prEatel pitam)
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What does that mean? Asking for a friend.Originally posted by theGOAT View PostAsking for a friend (Za edin prEatel pitam)Start 5.8 (14.9 cm) BPEL 5.2 MEG
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Thanks for advice. My friend ended up overlooking the incident.Start 5.8 (14.9 cm) BPEL 5.2 MEG
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I also wanna knowOriginally posted by Pegasus View PostStart 5.8 (14.9 cm) BPEL 5.2 MEG
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Minging is an English phrase usually describing something that is foul smelling. It can also be used to describe something that is unpleasant, bad or in poor taste.
Example: "My crotch is minging today!"
or: "That guy Trump is minging!"
So...the next time you are having a bad body odour day let it be known that you are MINGING!
Here endeth thy lesson for today.The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".
Lots of living to do yet unseen and a more stories yet untold!Comment
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Originally posted by Tamora View PostMinging is an English phrase usually describing something that is foul smelling. It can also be used to describe something that is unpleasant, bad or in poor taste.
Example: "My crotch is minging today!"
or: "That guy Trump is minging!"
So...the next time you are having a bad body odour day let it be known that you are MINGING!
Here endeth thy lesson for today.
I was going to answer with "Minging kind of means yucky." But this response is WAAAAAAY better!!! So VERY much better!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA!Comment
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The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".
Lots of living to do yet unseen and a more stories yet untold!Comment
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If you've already established your relationship as casual with no intent to settle down together then you can't be upset if your fuck buddy goes and fucks someone else.Originally posted by Norwaydude View Post
It would be different if you said established your relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend but that's not the case here.
Where this can be a problem is if you're not fucking anyone else and you start to get attached. And let's be honest, if you're hooking up with other people already your time as a FWB is limited.
So tell your friend to enjoy it while he can but not put too much thought into mantaining a relationship with this girl.Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline KaelComment
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