I don't know how to feel about this..

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

Hey guys,

Im tryna keep it simple: me and my gf had sex for the first time. I have a problem that I can't maintain an erection with a condom on. When the condom touches my penis it loses its erection and its hard to put my penis inside her. So the first time was without condom, it was good, we had sex for an hour and she enjoyed is really much. She told me that I was amazing.

I wanted to do it with condom, and she said no, we should do it without it. I asked why? She said because she can feel me more and enjoy the sex more without a condom.

I got freaked out and I told her to go home because I dont want to talk to her. I felt like she said "my penis is small" even though its above average and never had problems with it.

We had sex with a condom but I was not hard at all. Had to pull it out to remove the condom because I couldnt finish it while not being hard enough.

So, what do u think?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

U got stressed it affected your erection.

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

U got stressed it affected your erection.

I know, I just dont know if she meant that my penis is small. Ah the struggles.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I know, I just dont know if she meant that my penis is small. Ah the struggles.

No she didn't . I have had a girl so that to me and I am 8 by 6 .

Man you just got to slap yourself upside the head and get some use out of the pussy you are too jittery to enjoy .

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

No she didn't . I have had a girl so that to me and I am 8 by 6 .

Man you just got to slap yourself upside the head and get some use out of the pussy you are too jittery to enjoy .

You had a girl who said that to you? Oh well..thanks for this dude, I feel better now!
I have to think clearly.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

All girls can feel more with out condom, jus like it feels better for you without it.

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

All girls can feel more with out condom, jus like it feels better for you without it.

Yeah, but the problem is that I can't get hard and fully erected with a condom on.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Is it too tight?

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

Is it too tight?

I don't know, it's not tight when it's on, but when I pull it down I can see a red ring circle on the beginning of my penis where the condom ends. And my penis is kinda red but not hurt or anything.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Get a large size condom. Put lube inside the condom. This will enhance the pleasure. I prefer Skyn Large.

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

Hey guys,

Im tryna keep it simple: me and my gf had sex for the first time. I have a problem that I can't maintain an erection with a condom on. When the condom touches my penis it loses its erection and its hard to put my penis inside her. So the first time was without condom, it was good, we had sex for an hour and she enjoyed is really much. She told me that I was amazing.

I wanted to do it with condom, and she said no, we should do it without it. I asked why? She said because she can feel me more and enjoy the sex more without a condom.

I got freaked out and I told her to go home because I dont want to talk to her. I felt like she said "my penis is small" even though its above average and never had problems with it.

We had sex with a condom but I was not hard at all. Had to pull it out to remove the condom because I couldnt finish it while not being hard enough.

So, what do u think?

You told her to go home because you don't wanna talk to her? Is this the same girl you told to **** off because she said your penis is just right?!

[GiftBringer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GiftBringer]

She doesnt want a condom so leave it off, I dont see any problem with that. Actually you also have some negative feelings about the condom. Seems straight forward to me.

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

You told her to go home because you don't wanna talk to her? Is this the same girl you told to **** off because she said your penis is just right?!

Yes.

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

You're all up in your head about your size and have to find a way out. You have misplaced insecurities which you're taking out on your girl and, because of it, you're not giving her what she wants.

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

You're all up in your head about your size and have to find a way out. You have misplaced insecurities which you're taking out on your girl and, because of it, you're not giving her what she wants.

She told me the sex was amazing and she wants to feel me inside of her all day. The problem is the condom..I get soft when I put the condom on.
But, honestly yeah..I should stop thinking about sh*t and clear my mind.