Advice on dating

[PEispossible Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close PEispossible]

I haven't had any sex a little less than a year I dont like I feel like I keep to have sex to make me feel good. Its something that feels good naturally. Theres a girl on dating site that is not what Id like for a girlfriend. On her profile she says not looking for a relationship, just hang out, date. so thats a win/win right? two people get together and have some fun.

Shes like a 6 to me , and I want 8's and above. I know something is better than nothing. Running 2 miles when training for 5 MILE RUN IS BETTER THAN NOT DOING ANYTHING AT ALL. I bring this up because, many people , and I realize this within myself, wants it to be on a scale of 1-10 8 or better , and right now Im not having any sex.


I understand I want higher caliber women so to speak, however something is better than nothing ? Would this effect my self esteem or should I let life pass me by, and just not date until I get what I really want , 8's,9's, and 10's ?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I think you should put your effort into being a deeper person.

[PEispossible Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close PEispossible]

I think you should put your effort into being a deeper person.

Dont be jealous because I can get 8,9 and 10's and you cant because your older and not good looking enough. seriously, man. Dont let it make you hard about life. You come across as being hard where you wont let anyone in, due to youre scared of being hurt. thats why people dislike being around you.

Your advice isn't warranted you already made an ass of yourself on here too many times. Please take your negatively elsewhere, your unpleasant to be around. People dislike you. If your too emotional immature to relize that, im sure people will chime in here and mention how much of an asshole you are to people. Go fly a kite.

if you know how since your a mod please block me. I really dislike your attitude and negatvely about life. I dont know how you were made a mod.

Our last conversation you so rudely told me in shallow for wanting more money , when I might make 1500-2000 a month which is very low income.

your seriously effed up in the head. Money is good man, and whoever says it doesnt matter is financially ignorant. You sire are financially ignorant. Not only that you're penis ignorant.

Ill pray for you. I love you, man. hahahaha

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Don't have a breakdown ,think on other things in life besides money and looks you might find more in life.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Yeah, you're not ready for online dating. You're putting way too much thought into why you should date THIS ONE girl who you don't even like and who isn't interested in you either. You can justify it all you want by calling her a 6 or whatever, but she's got other options and you don't. Don't be thirsty for a girl who don't want, just move on.

Meeting women for sex from online dating sites is a lot like meeting them in real life. You get rejected A LOT, get a few women willing to engage you who you don't necessarily click with, and maybe handful who do. But they're going to be very guarded even if they're DTF. You have to talk to them for a bit online and build up trust, then text or talk though a messenger, then over Skype or phone, then video before you meet in person. Maybe Tinder is different but this is how you meet most women online for dates. It takes anywhere from a couple days to a few weeks. From there it's just like dating only the getting to know them part is much quicker and you're not working from level 1. If she likes and wants to have sex with you it's going to happen, unless you say or do something to fuck that up for yourself.

[PEispossible Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close PEispossible]

Yeah, you're not ready for online dating. You're putting way too much thought into why you should date THIS ONE girl who you don't even like and who isn't interested in you either. You can justify it all you want by calling her a 6 or whatever, but she's got other options and you don't. Don't be thirsty for a girl who don't want, just move on.

Meeting women for sex from online dating sites is a lot like meeting them in real life. You get rejected A LOT, get a few women willing to engage you who you don't necessarily click with, and maybe handful who do. But they're going to be very guarded even if they're DTF. You have to talk to them for a bit online and build up trust, then text or talk though a messenger, then over Skype or phone, then video before you meet in person. Maybe Tinder is different but this is how you meet most women online for dates. It takes anywhere from a couple days to a few weeks. From there it's just like dating only the getting to know them part is much quicker and you're not working from level 1. If she likes and wants to have sex with you it's going to happen, unless you say or do something to fuck that up for yourself.

who said anything about online dating? I prefer meeting women in real life. Studies show online daters lower their standards significantly. Ive done it myself. Ie got plenty of options, mind you. I know more about dating than you, more than likely. I've been into pickup since 2003.

I went on an online date earlier this month. She told me before we met she thought she was out of my league. Ive gotten this before.

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Pegasus no breakdown, just fighting fire with fire, or in this case a flametorch with a little light. your the lighter im the flame-torch, little guy hahaha.

Yes I do like to enjoy what life has to offer. I love enjoying life. Muscles, looks, money, high self estem women. These are excellent things bro, its not that i want to be better than anyone else, I just want the best for myself. . We all have our strong points, and looks is one of mine.


im 38 and look ten years younger, shes 27, single, no kids. I really dont prefer single moms, just single women. No married chicks or chicks in serious relationships. I attracted girls 18-30 generally, preferably 23 give or take. Ive been with a 19 year old when I was 36. I know I have a healthy ego, but remember a healthy ego is a good thing as long as it doesnt become too much. Just like a penis bigger isnt always better. I could do more with money, however I like taking my time, just with hanging. Looks absolutely work for myself, and have for many years, I cant speak for other guys, because I have confidence with my looks.

heres me competing 2018 , ive been competing for a decade now, bodybuilding and classic physique. Im getting ready for a competition currently. I bet you wouldnt say this to my face in real life and would be nicer to me. =-) Your a tough guy, but an internet tough guy.

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do i scare you through the screen? hahahaha we should meet little man. I bet you your face you wont act like this to me in real life.


I think ill be the better, i didnt say bigger, haha , man and walk away now.

[PEispossible Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close PEispossible]

I think you should put your effort into being a deeper person.

what do you mean deeper?

is not achieving great things with ones body and financial not deep? It sure taken me 17 years to look this good. If your jealous because Ive achieved more than you than thats just being a sour puss, pun intended.

[PEispossible Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close PEispossible]

Don't have a breakdown ,think on other things in life besides money and looks you might find more in life.

Of course they're are like being emotionally intelligent. They sure matter though, and whoever says they dont is extremely ignorant.

[BBC Action Senior Member Member of the Month August 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close BBC Action]

Keep in mind women date up, and men date down. What ever woman you go out of your way to talk to, you already know she would be within your league. Just talk to them the way you would talk to someone you wouldn't want to have sex with, regardless if you do. That way your conversation comes off as natural and a woman won't get vibes that you are just trying to get into their pants. Be indifferent. That's just my two cents and what works for me. Also, despite what other people tell you. Looks matter.

I don't have any advice for dating though. I'm too young to be with one woman, but with women that are 7's and under, I would just practice for getting better at sex. Those women always have friends that are dimes and if you can hit it well, you might be able to plug with them due to obvious reasons.

[PEispossible Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close PEispossible]

Keep in mind women date up, and men date down. What ever woman you go out of your way to talk to, you already know she would be within your league. Just talk to them the way you would talk to someone you wouldn't want to have sex with, regardless if you do. That way your conversation comes off as natural and a woman won't get vibes that you are just trying to get into their pants. Be indifferent. That's just my two cents and what works for me. Also, despite what other people tell you. Looks matter.

I don't have any advice for dating though. I'm too young to be with one woman, but with women that are 7's and under, I would just practice for getting better at sex. Those women always have friends that are dimes and if you can hit it well, you might be able to plug with them due to obvious reasons.

Yup my ex of three years os mixed, half Mexican and half black. We may have sex again. She said shed hit me up this weekend if she wants me to come over. I dont like rating people but shes good enough for sex. Theres another women I know whos close to my age, lookds good, big breasts, has her own hoe paid off. Of these two women I would rather date the richer one. The other one doesnt have a car, but shes really sweet. Theyre both sweet. But yes hypergamy is real in both men and women. men do date down in looks, money , status, women generally dont lol

if I get the chance ill practice with her for sex. I find that the 8's 9's and 10's are so much nicer to be around. Just like the 8's,9's and 10 guys are. BBc your an 8 or above Right now i feel like Pegasus if he were in looks would be about 5ft2 400lbs, smells like bo ffrom 3 days of not bathing, scuffy, ugly, and looking like a pedofile. hiding behind his computer getting satisfaction out of trolling people behind a screen. haha

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Oh dear I have really hit your insecurities . Thing is this is a classic reaction of a full on narcissist which makes sense of all your posts
So given that you can't really help the way you are and are probably incapable of substantial change I should not have asked it of you .
You must pursue you life as best you can . I hope you will treat others as well as you are able,

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Yup my ex of three years os mixed, half Mexican and half black. We may have sex again. She said shed hit me up this weekend if she wants me to come over. I dont like rating people but shes good enough for sex. Theres another women I know whos close to my age, lookds good, big breasts, has her own hoe paid off. Of these two women I would rather date the richer one. The other one doesnt have a car, but shes really sweet. Theyre both sweet. But yes hypergamy is real in both men and women. men do date down in looks, money , status, women generally dont lol

if I get the chance ill practice with her for sex. I find that the 8's 9's and 10's are so much nicer to be around. Just like the 8's,9's and 10 guys are. BBc your an 8 or above Right now i feel like Pegasus if he were in looks would be about 5ft2 400lbs, smells like bo ffrom 3 days of not bathing, scuffy, ugly, and looking like a pedofile. hiding behind his computer getting satisfaction out of trolling people behind a screen. haha

Oh it would be such fun for you to meet my friend Peg in a bar in real life. To say you'd get the beating of a lifetime would be an understatement. Please refrain from nasty comments about people; they give me gas and makes me very unhappy.

[bigplayre Senior Member Member of the Month June 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close bigplayre]

Just cruising by the forums and read through this post. Man you have some serious issues. Something that Pegasus said which was so short, sweet, and accurate it really triggered you to go on a rampage with putting out insecurities on display. He gave you some advice you should have took into consideration maybe you should focus on being a deeper person. Then you went and started talking about the money you make, the girls you date, the muscles you have. No one said any of that is a bad thing, but you seem to place all emphasis and value/worth on those external factors.

Your post talks about not being able to have sex within close to a year and being desperate enough to go for someone you consider a 6 on an online dating website who you're not attracted to, but you'd rather have her than nothing. Then you say that you're not talking about online dating and that you're magically the biggest player in the universe and can get any 8+/10 girl any day of the week. Which is very contradictory due to the whole nature of your thread being advice on whether you should take the "scraps" you don't want over starving yourself sexually.

Then you start posting photos of yourself in a thong on stage talking about how people would be scared of you in person because of the muscles you have. Who is really playing the tough guy here? Really ask yourself that before you go on to continue making a fool out of yourself. (FYI: I've been into combat sports my whole life; boxing, wrestling, muay thai, jiu jitsu. I've consistently seen big muscleheads get dropped, beat up, and choked out because they have lost touch with reality and live in a world of delusion that lifting weights somehow magically makes you some type of force to be reckoned with.)

I couldn't help, but give you this reality check since you seemed to have desperately needed it. For your own sake I urge you to really evaluate your behavior and see whether you're making the proper decisions or not. You're on a forum asking for advice and when someone gives you their two cents you cry like a little bitch. Seriously, grow up man. I'm 22 I shouldn't have to be telling a 38 year old how to conduct themselves properly, it kind of makes me lose faith in humanity a bit.

[Norwaydude Senior Member Member of the Month Oct. 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Norwaydude]

Hmm.. peispossible.. you kinda sound like a male version og my ex wife.. there are more to life than external values. Allthough i had similar values when i was in my early 20’s i’m glad to see young guys with better values than i had.

[PEispossible Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close PEispossible]

Just cruising by the forums and read through this post. Man you have some serious issues. Something that Pegasus said which was so short, sweet, and accurate it really triggered you to go on a rampage with putting out insecurities on display. He gave you some advice you should have took into consideration maybe you should focus on being a deeper person. Then you went and started talking about the money you make, the girls you date, the muscles you have. No one said any of that is a bad thing, but you seem to place all emphasis and value/worth on those external factors.

Your post talks about not being able to have sex within close to a year and being desperate enough to go for someone you consider a 6 on an online dating website who you're not attracted to, but you'd rather have her than nothing. Then you say that you're not talking about online dating and that you're magically the biggest player in the universe and can get any 8+/10 girl any day of the week. Which is very contradictory due to the whole nature of your thread being advice on whether you should take the "scraps" you don't want over starving yourself sexually.

Then you start posting photos of yourself in a thong on stage talking about how people would be scared of you in person because of the muscles you have. Who is really playing the tough guy here? Really ask yourself that before you go on to continue making a fool out of yourself. (FYI: I've been into combat sports my whole life; boxing, wrestling, muay thai, jiu jitsu. I've consistently seen big muscleheads get dropped, beat up, and choked out because they have lost touch with reality and live in a world of delusion that lifting weights somehow magically makes you some type of force to be reckoned with.)

I couldn't help, but give you this reality check since you seemed to have desperately needed it. For your own sake I urge you to really evaluate your behavior and see whether you're making the proper decisions or not. You're on a forum asking for advice and when someone gives you their two cents you cry like a little bitch. Seriously, grow up man. I'm 22 I shouldn't have to be telling a 38 year old how to conduct themselves properly, it kind of makes me lose faith in humanity a bit.

It is kinda funny isnt it? A male beauty pageant basically in mens bikini underwears .

sorry your losing humanity about seeing a guy you dont like, me. You shouldn't give a flying fuck what i think. If youre anywhere close by ill meet anyone in this thread that doesn't like in public, doesnt have to be a bar, can be any-where, probably wont be a boxing ring but if we had an issues we could spar in the ring legally without having to get arrested for fighting. Yes IVe boxed as well. I was going to make a pro career out of it untill i got too many concusiions and wasnt worth it. I still practice a bit. No worries though,im sure well get along in person. Im in west TN, Im going to east tn --, june 8th for competition, if i win there, I go to Chicago june 14th. From june 8th to june 14th ill be in south Carolina, harbor Island, close to Beaufort. . Im thinking ill have my vehicle, either that or my brothers, but if one of you or all of you wants to meet, id down. You misunderstood me and I misunderstood you. Lets meet up and celebrate. seriously, if you want to meet up and hang out, inbox me.