Please help with this

[Justin552 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Justin552]

I have a really big problem with my girlfriend . We are in relationship for 2 years now , and she doesn't feel any pleasure during sex . She only feels good when I masturbate her pussy , but when I put dick in her and fuck her she doesn't feel anything. We are having sex for almost 1 year and I don't have solution for this problem, we don't know what is problem with her, she feels my dick when I put it in, but not any pleasure or pain she only feel that it is in her. Anyone had problem like this please help I am frustrated!!

And just to add, she is horny and wet always in foreplay, even when we only talk about sex and she needs sex se feels she needs it but when we finish foreplay and everything and when I fuck her, nothing, I am enjoying but she feels nothing.

[djmotion Senior Member Member of the Month March 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close djmotion]

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[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

There is a good portion of the female population that can not orgasm through PIV. They still enjoy, but never get there. There are lots of theories on why, but many point to not being able to fully relax in the moment.

You say that she does get off through manual stimulation. I would also assume that she can get off through oral stimulation. I would do this, get her going through manual, switch to oral and take her to the big O. While she is in the big O, then penetrate so that she can ride the wave out to the fullest with you inside her.

My wife, who is multi-orgasmic and can orgasm through PIV says that she craves my dick in her if I get her off orally. In fact, that is her fantasy while she is receiving oral that when she goes, that I will adjust and get inside her. Good times.

[Ellford Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Ellford]

There is a good portion of the female population that can not orgasm through PIV. They still enjoy, but never get there. There are lots of theories on why, but many point to not being able to fully relax in the moment.

You say that she does get off through manual stimulation. I would also assume that she can get off through oral stimulation. I would do this, get her going through manual, switch to oral and take her to the big O. While she is in the big O, then penetrate so that she can ride the wave out to the fullest with you inside her.

My wife, who is multi-orgasmic and can orgasm through PIV says that she craves my dick in her if I get her off orally. In fact, that is her fantasy while she is receiving oral that when she goes, that I will adjust and get inside her. Good times.

I don't normally quote an entire post, but TheZZMan is bang on!!!

[FoeDollas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close FoeDollas]

Whats your girth like? mite as well start jelqing to fill her up

[Justin552 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Justin552]

Whats your girth like? mite as well start jelqing to fill her up

My girth is 5.12"

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I say don't get her off beforehand with foreplay or oral.

During intercourse (spoon position) playing with her clit until she comes. She will feel the difference.

[greg123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close greg123]

Some girls are maybe too loose. My gf is also loose and when she gets mega wet and i make her super horny cause i say kinki shit her vagina becomes even bigger and iam like fuck. My girth is also 5.3 or something but iam trying to get it. You can try angion methods jelqing streching . whatever suits you.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Is she firm in the vagina?

[Justin552 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Justin552]

I say don't get her off beforehand with foreplay or oral.

During intercourse (spoon position) playing with her clit until she comes. She will feel the difference.

Thank you Tara. But I must ask you something. Before sex she is very horny and wet, when I masturbate her she has that white stuff like sperm or whatever it is, so Idk how she doesn't feel good during sex. She inly feel good sometimes when I fuck her really hard and she feels good at the moments, not al the time. I am her first boyfriend and she lost virginity with me and she is my first also so we are not very experienced. We are in relationship about 1 year and having sex about 6 months but not that often. Can you give me some more advice since you are girl and you girls are talking each other about sex so does any of tour friend had this problem and solved it?

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

She probably just needs to get use to sex and what she likes and doesn't. Same for you.

The white stuff is just lubrication. Near and during ovulation time it will go silky and clear. Of course always practice safe sex as sperm and live in the uterus for up to 5 days.

The more sex you have with each other the better it will become.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Have you asked her to go on top so she controls speed, depth and direction?

And you could still play with her clit at the same time.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Is it possible she can only cum once and she does that in foreplay?

[Justin552 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Justin552]

Have you asked her to go on top so she controls speed, depth and direction?

And you could still play with her clit at the same time.

She likes the most being on top. That is the position where she can feel something. As I said, she feels good in moments but 80% of sex time she feels nothing. Thank you Tara for responding and I will keep trying until we both enjoy!

[bigbob23 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbob23]

Is it possible she can only cum once and she does that in foreplay?

Not all women are the same, but I'll share what works for my hot wife. She doesn't like me banging into her for an hour. It makes her sore the next day or two anyway, which means less sex. So, I switch back and forth between oral, fingering and coital alignment technique. If you aren't familiar with CAT, it truly helps, and I experiment with different variations of it. The idea is to give some attention to the clit during intercourse. For example, when thrusting, don't pull out and away from her, instead be in pushup position over her and pull up and forward slowly, over her belly, so your hole cock slides UP between her lips against her clit, or grind your mound into her clit or put your knees together shoving your balls into her. I'll stop and grab my dick and just rub it all around her pussy, moving it with my hand. She loves the flesh to flesh contact.

Sometimes less is more. Rather than pounding harder, or finger/licking faster.... go slow teasing, deliberately sensual play works, and I've found I like it more. We will literally fuck for hours this way.

So get her closer with finger or oral, then switch to CAT. Now don't wait until she's super close to cumming and then try to switch, you will only frustrate her. Warm her up, switch, warmer her up more, switch. Whatever position she's in when she comes, is where she comes. After while you can read the signs and time it so that she comes with you good and deep. We both love it that way. God that's good.

Everything, nice, deliberate, sensual, slow as if you never want her come.

We mix it up, but this is my favorite...and I think hers too.