Am I an asshole?

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

Hey guys,

I'm in a relationship with my gf for 4 months now. Everything is great, we love each other. I've already made a thread about "her", she said my penis is "just right" and it is the opposite of a micropenis. I was confused but I know that I've overreacted as u guys said.

We were talking on phone last night and somehow the Disney movies came up as a topic. We talked about movies and horses then she said: "you are my little pony" (you know the movie, tale). I was quite shocked tbh, I thought about what if she said it because or my above average penis.

I asked her about it, she got frustrated and don't want to talk with me since then. She said why would she say that, why would she mean that and I must be stupid to think that.

To be honest, I don't know what to think anymore. Am I an asshole?

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

Whether or not you're an asshole, you're definitely confused... You keep going back and forth. In one thread you'll claim you're totally confident about your penis size, then in another you're clearly not. In one thread you'll describe how you cured pre-e and then in others, you clearly haven't. I'm not sure what to take as truth with you.

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

Whether or not you're an asshole, you're definitely confused... You keep going back and forth. In one thread you'll claim you're totally confident about your penis size, then in another you're clearly not. In one thread you'll describe how you cured pre-e and then in others, you clearly haven't. I'm not sure what to take as truth with you.

I feel like I'm paranoid af.

[Zyxciz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zyxciz]

Yes, stop interpreting everything she says negatively. She might even be saying it on purpose just to test your confidence. Stop reacting to it everytime and start owning up to it!

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

Yes, stop interpreting everything she says negatively. She might even be saying it on purpose just to test your confidence. Stop reacting to it everytime and start owning up to it!

No, she said she just said it for no reason, she wanted to be cute as she said. I don't know, I shouldn't be like this. I'm tryna.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Simple answer; yes. Now go and grow up.

[Qloz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qloz]

Simple answer; yes. Now go and grow up.

What's wrong?

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Ask your girlfriend....if she's still talking to you.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Hey guys,

I'm in a relationship with my gf for 4 months now. Everything is great, we love each other. I've already made a thread about "her", she said my penis is "just right" and it is the opposite of a micropenis. I was confused but I know that I've overreacted as u guys said.

We were talking on phone last night and somehow the Disney movies came up as a topic. We talked about movies and horses then she said: "you are my little pony" (you know the movie, tale). I was quite shocked tbh, I thought about what if she said it because or my above average penis.

I asked her about it, she got frustrated and don't want to talk with me since then. She said why would she say that, why would she mean that and I must be stupid to think that.

To be honest, I don't know what to think anymore. Am I an asshole?

You have a negative fixation and paranoia concerning your penis. It's in your best interests to stop jumping to conclusions.

[Bisquick61 Senior Member Member of the Month May 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Bisquick61]

Your self consciousness is playing into your relationship dynamics and your hurting your girlfriend. If you have to ask if you’re an asshole, you probably are. You ever think she that because she likes to ride you?

[MasterSchlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MasterSchlort]

I would have told her to fuck off, but thats not because I would think that she was refering to my dick as small. No woman will think of me or dare call me their little pony.

*Slap her butt, and bend her over*

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

What if you said to her, I don't like the fat on this cut of meat - and she said "whats that supposed to mean?" You say Huh? and she thinks you were talking about her butt. The next day you casually say, I think I'm going to join a gym, would you like to join with me - she thinks WTF, he doesn't like the way I look. That is what you are doing to her, useless, uncoupled comments that you are directing personally. So, yes, you are being an ass. Guaranty the only time she will specifically comment on your dick size negatively is when she is breaking up with you and wants to hurt you.

So, apologize to her, give her a treat of some sort (ice cream, cake, etc) because you are an ass and move on.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Seems to me it is hard for us at this remove to know if she is some pysco manipulating you or if you are just being weird . You are there on the spot .
You need to work this out yourself does she have a pattern of knocking you ?
For instance a big red flag is the bigger dick ex in it's various forms .

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I see in an old post she went the bigger dick ex now you are her little pony . Umm is this the only 2 things she has ever said or is there a pattern of behaciour?

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Hey guys,

I'm in a relationship with my gf for 4 months now. Everything is great, we love each other. I've already made a thread about "her", she said my penis is "just right" and it is the opposite of a micropenis. I was confused but I know that I've overreacted as u guys said.

We were talking on phone last night and somehow the Disney movies came up as a topic. We talked about movies and horses then she said: "you are my little pony" (you know the movie, tale). I was quite shocked tbh, I thought about what if she said it because or my above average penis.

I asked her about it, she got frustrated and don't want to talk with me since then. She said why would she say that, why would she mean that and I must be stupid to think that.

To be honest, I don't know what to think anymore. Am I an asshole?

You're the only one that made this about your penis.