Glad this section exist!!! Heres my issue..

[Whatduh69 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Whatduh69]

Good day my fellow PE!!! I would welcome any and all comments. So I've seen pictures and videos of my GF F@@king and S@@king other dudes online. When I confront her,she said its not her(I didn't show it to her), and I can obviously see its her. I ask if shes cheating on me and she says no. I ask if these are old stuff...no comment! But it looks fairly new.
Anyway we've been together for a while and there is our kids that I have to consider. I don't want to end the relationship if I can avoid it. Why is OK for girls to do it but when we do it,its WW3!!!! I'm trying to make it work and trying to get her to confess or stop. I'm as lost as Mr. Magoo without his glasses on,lol. Thx!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Sorry bro, but are you certain it's her? Make her watch the vids.



If they're from before you two got together, ain't much you can do.

[southernprince Senior Member Member of the Month March 2021 Find all posts View Profile Close southernprince]

Why do you want to stay in the relationship?

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

Just curious how you know it's her. Several times I've seen some amateur pron and it stopped me in my tracks because I totally thought it was my ex/gf. There's some doppelgangers out there. Actually, one I'm like 99% sure because of the same tattoos but it's obviously done several years after we broke up.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Well I guess add is... share the videos with her in a non confrontational way. Tell her you love her. It’s ok. You realize there were others before you and that you have boned other women. So. Both of you get past it.

[tank0909 Senior Member Member of the Month Jan. 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close tank0909]

Maybe it was before you and she's embarrassed. You may have caught her off-guard and she didn't know how to respond. Get your mind prepared and give her time to prepare... "sorry if I surprised you with the video thing. I would like to talk about it though. When would be a good time for you?" This can pave the way for a calm, meaningful conversation.

[Uxorious101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uxorious101]

Maybe it was before you and she's embarrassed. You may have caught her off-guard and she didn't know how to respond. Get your mind prepared and give her time to prepare... "sorry if I surprised you with the video thing. I would like to talk about it though. When would be a good time for you?" This can pave the way for a calm, meaningful conversation.

She didn't say anything about you watching porn?

It's her...

Tell her to contact the site and request they take it down so your kids will never see it.

Don't say anything again.

In a couple months check if it was taken down.

If it was.

It's her...

[Catarro Member Find all posts View Profile Close Catarro]

Good day my fellow PE!!! I would welcome any and all comments. So I've seen pictures and videos of my GF F@@king and S@@king other dudes online. When I confront her,she said its not her(I didn't show it to her), and I can obviously see its her. I ask if shes cheating on me and she says no. I ask if these are old stuff...no comment! But it looks fairly new.
Anyway we've been together for a while and there is our kids that I have to consider. I don't want to end the relationship if I can avoid it. Why is OK for girls to do it but when we do it,its WW3!!!! I'm trying to make it work and trying to get her to confess or stop. I'm as lost as Mr. Magoo without his glasses on,lol. Thx!

you should confront her on a non-judgmental way, you need to be cool about it.

that's the only way she's going to tell the truth.

keep in mind that she needs to feel comfy with you, if she is cheating on you, that means something wrong.

good luck

[VirgilD5to6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VirgilD5to6]

You have kids , you are in relationship. How do you make it work? communication. As everyone else said, talk to her. Show her the videos, and show your concern.
If if it turns out its her, and she did it during your relationship, you are gonna have to break up. It's more than cheating.
To confirm you can try and contact those who posted the videos, and I am pretty sure they'll tell you.
Good luck.