So my girlfriend's been with a bigger guy...

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Oh it was the same as mine...also my girlfriend dumped me because of the small size of my dick but then when I bought a book about all the penis enlargement stuff, I realized how can make "baby joe" bigger...

If you're gf dumped you because of the size of your dick and not because of the content of your character, she's a loser and not worth your time in the first place......

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

It's funny how every girl in the U.S. claims to have had a 1 in 100,000 dick. Of course it's a very effective head game.

[NeverEnough9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NeverEnough9]

Dude u literally sound exactly like me. I think and act the same way. Anyways, dude I totally feel for ya and can imagine how that feels. Ive been in similar situations and at first it didnt really bug me that much.......then I started thinking......a lot. The more and more I thought about it, and I admit I still do quite a bit, the mkre obsessed I felt over the situation. If you think logically its stupid, but you cant help to feel that way as a man. Regardless if it was waaay too much and was horrible, our egos are still crushed. Everyone wants to be the biggest and kt seems like theres ALWAYS that HUGE dude in her past.....then again, maybe there are a lot of semi average dudes that have heard and legitimately are the girls biggest.....they are just talking about it. They can let go of the thought, not discuss it over forums with other men with the same inadequacies.

[NeverEnough9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NeverEnough9]

It's funny how every girl in the U.S. claims to have had a 1 in 100,000 dick. Of course it's a very effective head game.

You know what man.....I hate to admit it but I do believe the average is larger than studies say. All these studies are only a small fraction of the population. You cant assume it would be consistently the same on a larger scale. For example.....take 10 groups of 100 men and accurately measure each one. I will bet you the averages between each study wont be as close as youd think. I wish it werent true, but logically that males the most sense.

[jcwhs7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jcwhs7]

The first time I slept with the girl that ended up being my current girlfriend we chatted afterwards about the worst sex we've had, I have the upmost pride in informing you she didn't say "ten minutes ago" :P she mentioned how she was with this guy (turned out to be her ex) and he only lasted forty seconds, which was disappointing because he had "quite an impressive penis". I thought nothing of it, she's alluded that she likes my size which isn't modest but not the ever aspired "Huge" we all want to hear at one point or another. Anyway down the line, I made her cum (as in gush whoopee) one time when my penis was at like a hundred and ten percent, you know, that coveted moment where you seem to gain a foot it's so hard :P.

She said she'd only cum once before, turned out to be with this fella, so in forty seconds he made her cum. "Probably is bigger than me, sod it I don't care, as long as I don't hear it I'm fine probably not much bigger anyway" thought I. Last night we we're having the best time it was all lovey dovey, sickening for any hypothetical observers, you know, that sort of pillow talk (not that we're not into voyeurism, as far as I'm aware :P). And then we get on to the now mutually loathed John (haha) and she drops the fucking bomb! "He was ridiculously big."

Heart fucking sank. It's stupid, I satisfy her infinitely more supposedly but I'm sure many of you know how that can be thrown into the dark pits of doubt and never found again. I Collumbo'd my way with frightfully clever questions into finding out his actual size without directly asking (god forbid you show insecurity at these times (like what else am I supposed to fucking feel??)) Turns out he's got a good 25% on me in length and is probably a fucking oil drum in width.

So here I am, angry at myself for feeling jealous, quietly angry at her for saying it, and angry at my genetics for not gracing me with something more suited to ramming down doors in S.W.A.T raids.

She has small tits, by my standards. I'm a big tit fan, oh yes very much so. But I've always been so mindful of this, I don't want to hurt her. She asked if I like big boobs, so I grabbed hers and said how I liked all boobs. You know, diplomatic so to speak.

I am more than ashamed to say it but afterwards she (unintentionally) rubbed some good old sodium in the wound by telling me not to let it make me feel inadequate, so I replied. "No, not at all (*nose gets bigger than cock o'clock) I'm sure if I told you I'd been with a girl with 30 K tits you wouldn't feel insecure, anyway I couldn't find her nipple half the time they were that 'ridiculously large'.

That done, I should really try to stop thinking so immaturely about the whole thing, but that heart sinking feeling is still going strong right now. There are some things a man just doesn't need to hear.

No offense, but your gf is dumb. Why would she say such a thing?...specially if she has said it before. However, it is prob not her fault...maybe she thinks you just like hearing that kind of stuff since you have asked her that question of curiosity before! Sometimes we think we are ready to hear something, but in reality when the time comes and the light unveils the shade....we are not ready at all.

I have asked that question to my current gf, and she has always said that i have been the biggest she has had. I do not believe her completely, since i know she has been with a few guys already...and maybe she is just trying to be nice to me so i won't get my feelings hurt? Who knows, but i have decided not to ask her again because then i question if i would be able to handle any hidden truth.

I believe porn was a major factor in bringing that kind of insecurity. Ever since i stopped watching that i have cleansed my mind more and now the whole SIZE subject is just a fading thought with no meaning behind it.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

My old GF Denise has been with a Bigger Guy!

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[NeverEnough9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NeverEnough9]

Lol marvels at girth.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

People that ask Stupid Questions..........................

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[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

You know what man.....I hate to admit it but I do believe the average is larger than studies say. All these studies are only a small fraction of the population. You cant assume it would be consistently the same on a larger scale. For example.....take 10 groups of 100 men and accurately measure each one. I will bet you the averages between each study wont be as close as youd think. I wish it werent true, but logically that males the most sense.

You are kidding right ?

[NeverEnough9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NeverEnough9]

Does that not make sense to you?

[J rod Member Find all posts View Profile Close J rod]

I've had the same problem as you.
GF has been with 2 very large penises. She said they were uncomfortable.
I'm just as insecure as you are about it.
She tells me she likes average size the best.......
She says I'm on the high side of average, which is true length wise.
I'm only average girth (5eg)
She is insecure about her weight too. She is a size 7
She asked me about her weight the other day and I said.......
Size doesn't matter to me. I prefer average.
As long as you are between size 4 and 9.

She has been pretty pensive since then.

[aBone2pick Senior Member Member of the Month July 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close aBone2pick]

The averages are definitely accurate. In fact, they are so accurate that Trojan started making magnums that are almost the same size as regular condoms, just so all the guys erroneously buying magnums wouldn't be putting a salami in a trash bag.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I think the thing guys need to remember is; Who is she with now?

Okay, so she might have had bigger. And what does that mean exactly? That no one else will ever be able to please her. If that were true, then why did she move on.

SquiddlyDee, you even said that you like big boobs, and your girl doesn't have them. Does that make you think any less of her? Are you any less satisfied with her in bed? You made her gush. She gets all "lovey dovey in a sickening way" with you. And refers to the thick, 40 second guy as her worst. Seems the focus is all wrong.

J rod, same thing. She was honest enough to tell you, why think she started being dishonest when she says she prefers average? To protect your feelings? If that was the case, she would have never told you.

Look guys, if you ask and want an honest answer, you can't be mad at them when they do. And then choose to not believe them when they say you satisfy them.

If it bothers you to hear it, talk to them, and say why. Don't attack or blame though. It's personal insecurity, not an effort to hurt you on their end. And throwing back insults to get even is only going to harm the relationship, and do to them what you assume they are doing to you, only it is actually intentional.

Truth is, most women are perfectly satisfied and happy with a size that is comfortable, not painful or requires too much work to accept, and can be used in the most wide range of sexual play. Coupled with some good sexual know how and technique, put it on a good man, and it is literally perfect.

Know it, accept it, and stop worrying.

[J rod Member Find all posts View Profile Close J rod]

I was being honest with her when I said I like average sized girls.
I wasn't being cruel.
She can make of what I said any way she would like.
The point is.......
I feel the same as her.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I understand J rod, and I wasn't trying to imply you were being cruel.

Just trying to help the many, many guys who post similar stories and issues see it from a different angle, and hopefully ease some concern.

I agree, you two probably have a very good understanding of where the other is coming from, just about different areas.