Cunnilingus

[Hamms Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hamms]

- What are your limitations for doing this?

Its all good as long as she passes the finger sniff test.

- Do you prefer small or large lips / clit?

No preference really, unless the clit is bigger then my dick, then it would just open up a whole new bag of issues.

- Would you go down on a stranger?

As long as the stranger was a chick and her vag didn't look like it just got over a case of chicken pox, I would.

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

Let me ask you though, have you ever had a girl turn into a lesbian after giving her head?

That really was good. I snorted some of my beer right onto my keyboard.

There actually are rare women who don't care for cunnilingus. I had a girlfriend once who didn't. But in general, I doubt that there is anything that makes a woman want to jump in the sack with a guy more than her knowing he want's to go down on her, and is willing to take his time at it.

[ErictheGed Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ErictheGed]

My ex had had more partners than i'd had, but she point-blank was not ready for me goin' down. I don't consider myself an expert, but her other guys must just have plain neglected to go down. She kept pushing me away at the good bit at first, but i got her a few times. Its a shame we have to take into consideration if shes clean or not, but thats how it is these days, gotta be careful! Only got like 3 bj's off her in 3 months, whereas i'd always go down, i enjoy it. But now? Nah, no head for me doll, then no head for you.

[niagra Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close niagra]

That really was good. I snorted some of my beer right onto my keyboard.

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I know it sounds funny but I've seen a girl go lesbian after going down on her for a few months. It's so good that they just loose their mind and go crazy sometimes. Now, she didnt' stay lesbian for long. She eventually begged for me back. Of course I told her to piss off I don't do shit like that. But still, it does happen.

Only got like 3 bj's off her in 3 months, whereas i'd always go down, i enjoy it. But now? Nah, no head for me doll, then no head for you.

Now this is what I'm talkin about. Girls can get away with shit like this because guys are willing to do it in secret just to get a piece. I don't blame you guys at all and I know we secretly want to eat the puss out. (except guys like me that are gonna wait a while and check out the territory first). Girls wanna wrap us around their fingers just as much as we do to them and this really gets them off. Having a guys eat 'em out on call and they don't have to do much.

[Manoel Member Find all posts View Profile Close Manoel]

going down is maybe the first thing I do before I kiss my g/f all over.

just one thing I hate is when if my gf shaves completely after few days, the hair that is starting to grow feels so unpleasant I've told her just to trim it and thats perfect!

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Did I spell that right?

So I have a few questions for the men here.

- What are your limitations for doing this?
- Do you prefer small or large lips / clit?
- Would you go down on a stranger?

I was never interested in going down on girls until I was probably 28ish or so. Now I like the thought of it but honestly most vaginas just aren't attractive enough to actually do it. The thought of going down on a stranger is fairly repulsive. I'd have to know that she's clean and whatnot. Some of the comments I see on the forums seem to give the impression that some of you guys will go down on juts about anything so you can get a girl off.

Cleanliness...
Doesn't matter/any size, just not dick-sized.
No.

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

Would receiving fellatio from a woman or having anal sex with one cause a guy to become gay?

Fact 1. Despite the stories you hear on forums like this one, written by guys who claim that every single woman they every laid had multiple orgasms every time he screwed them, most women either do not orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or do so infrequently.

Fact 2. Women typically take considerably longer than men to become aroused and build up to orgasm. This poses a dilemma for guys who hope to give women orgasms through vaginal intercourse only, because they often don't have the control and stamina to hold off climaxing long enough for their partner to come (and some women just can't no matter how long they can last).

Fact 3. There are some women who enjoy being digitally masturbated and fingered, or have their partner stimulate them with a vibrator to orgasm, but there are plenty who do not.

Fact 4. Most women enjoy intercourse even if they don't orgasm, and I think overall women are more inclined than men to be satisfied with a sexual encounter that ends without them having an orgasm. But women like orgasms as much as men do, and I believe that if they consistently do not orgasm, they are going to be inclined to have less interest in having sex, or inclined to have sex less frequently, than if they usually do.

The solution: cunnilingus! As I said, there are exceptions and there is an occasional woman who really doesn't care for it. There are others who have become frustrated with it because they have experienced guys who are too rough or impatient to get them anywhere. And there are others who are shy about it because they are concerned the guy will object to the way they look, smell, or taste (they can get over this if a guy is patient and obviously enthusiastic). But, on the whole ...

Fact 5. Women love to be eaten. And most can orgasm this way, although what works for one might not work for another, and sometimes it takes a while to figure out what is most effective for a particular girl. So a guy who is patient can usually bring his partner to orgasm one or more times this way without fear of ejaculating too soon.

In my experience, most women become too sensitive right after orgasm to tolerate any more oral stimulation of their clit. But most I have been with really seem to want you inside at that point, and are inclined to fuck like rattlesnakes.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Would receiving fellatio from a woman or having anal sex with one cause a guy to become gay?

Fact 1. Despite the stories you hear on forums like this one, written by guys who claim that every single woman they every laid had multiple orgasms every time he screwed them, most women either do not orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or do so infrequently.

Fact 2. Women typically take considerably longer than men to become aroused and build up to orgasm. This poses a dilemma for guys who hope to give women orgasms through vaginal intercourse only, because they often don't have the control and stamina to hold off climaxing long enough for their partner to come (and some women just can't no matter how long they can last).

Fact 3. There are some women who enjoy being digitally masturbated and fingered, or have their partner stimulate them with a vibrator to orgasm, but there are plenty who do not.

Fact 4. Most women enjoy intercourse even if they don't orgasm, and I think overall women are more inclined than men to be satisfied with a sexual encounter that ends without them having an orgasm. But women like orgasms as much as men do, and I believe that if they consistently do not orgasm, they are going to be inclined to have less interest in having sex, or inclined to have sex less frequently, than if they usually do.

The solution: cunnilingus! As I said, there are exceptions and there is an occasional woman who really doesn't care for it. There are others who have become frustrated with it because they have experienced guys who are too rough or impatient to get them anywhere. And there are others who are shy about it because they are concerned the guy will object to the way they look, smell, or taste (they can get over this if a guy is patient and obviously enthusiastic). But, on the whole ...

Fact 5. Women love to be eaten. And most can orgasm this way, although what works for one might not work for another, and sometimes it takes a while to figure out what is most effective for a particular girl. So a guy who is patient can usually bring his partner to orgasm one or more times this way without fear of ejaculating too soon.

In my experience, most women become too sensitive right after orgasm to tolerate any more oral stimulation of their clit. But most I have been with really seem to want you inside at that point, and are inclined to fuck like rattlesnakes.

Well said and I agree. One lover I had couldn't come through straight vaginal intercourse no matter what we tried - eating her was the only option. At the other end of the spectrum, one was so orgasmic that she came like a volcano after only a few of strokes (and I remember she was like a vice grip). There were some that really got off with toys and others that couldn't even at the highest of speeds. Women truly run the gamut when it comes to stimulation and how it affects their bodies.

[niagra Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close niagra]

It's odd how it takes women so long to orgasm during sex but when they masturbate it's pretty quick. I guess sometimes it's just getting lucky hitting their spot right away.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

That's another benefit of eating her - you actually get to see her spots. As you use your fingers and tongue to pleasure her, you're also 'taking notes' - at least I do anyway. I'm learnin what works, what doesn't, how a movement here or there can translate to vaginal intercourse, if I press 'here' what sort of reaction does her body give, etc. I make it a game just to see how crazy I can make her before she has orgasm(s).

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

It's odd how it takes women so long to orgasm during sex but when they masturbate it's pretty quick. I guess sometimes it's just getting lucky hitting their spot right away.

Not really odd, since vaginal intercourse seldom results in direct clitoral stimulation for most women.

[niagra Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close niagra]

That's another benefit of eating her - you actually get to see her spots. As you use your fingers and tongue to pleasure her, you're also 'taking notes' - at least I do anyway. I'm learnin what works, what doesn't, how a movement here or there can translate to vaginal intercourse, if I press 'here' what sort of reaction does her body give, etc. I make it a game just to see how crazy I can make her before she has orgasm(s).

So you spread the lips apart and play around with it and shit like that? Jeez dude what kind of girls are you dating? The only GF I had that I went down on consistently would never let me do shit like that. I think you're like a porn star in hiding or something.

Of course I was dating an Indian chick and they're pretty strict about stuff.

[niagra Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close niagra]

Not really odd, since vaginal intercourse seldom results in direct clitoral stimulation for most women.

Well yeah but what I was getting at was how women complain about not getting an internal orgasm (which takes the extended time) but seem to have no problems with quick orgasms when masturbating. Maybe I've just got it all wrong.

One thing I have noticed though, is that if you spoon a girl and lightly squeeze the whole clit area they hit the roof.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

A woman playing with herself is in complete control of the stimulation that she is receiving and also, usually, has no motive to hold off cumming. This sets her up for her fastest orgasm.
If her partner is in charge of the stimulation then the feedback loop is much less direct. If you are touching her, you are, at best, trying hard to read the signs and guess what is working and what she wants next. While this can be extremely fun, it is not a very efficient flow of information:
Him: Lick
Her: Moan, Wiggle
Him: Maybe I'll try a little more to the left
Her: Wiggle +1, Moan -2
Him: Okaaay...Perhaps a bit less lick and a bit more suck
Her: Squeal +2, Wiggle -1, Grind
and so on
If she doesn't have much time or is in some sort of race, she is probably better off on her own.

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