So, she says ... enough?

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

So it's been a while since I've seen my gf and she came over tonight to hang out. We were gonna do some work together but that quickly fell by the wayside and we ended up having some pretty damn great sex.

So we're joking around and talking afterwards and she brings back up the conversation we had a few weeks ago when I went 'exploring' how she felt about PE. So she says "There's no way in hell you could fit anymore in there if you get any bigger. Were you serious about trying to get bigger? Any more and you won't fit. I know a pussy can stretch but damn!" She's laughing and carrying on about it but she keeps talking about it so I know it's something that's been on her mind.

So we finally get around to doing some work and I think the conversation is over but she brings it up again - partly because she's horny again. But then she flat out asks - "Have you been doing something to get bigger? You just felt so damn thick and everything. Maybe it's because it's been a week but you are still bigger than before. I had to stretch a bit more to get you in my mouth." I just blew her off and said I'm not doing anything and it was just because we hadn't been together in a while. We talk and joke around a bit more and finally get to work.

So …… how should I approach this? I know she says I'm plenty big enough and I want to make sure sex is enjoyable. But at the same time, I'm not quite where I want to be. Any ideas fellas?

[Mc Dong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mc Dong]

That's a great story. If your girl says your size is good, then maybe focus on EQ and stamina work for better, longer lasting sex marathons. Edging and ballooning without cumming are solid exercises to do on days where you aren't with your girl (no sex, don't cum). Then, when you see her... BAM! You have a great orgasm becasue of all the sexual tension you build up.

You could also just keep doing PE and deny it if she asks. It's not like you will grow 50% bigger over night and then she won't/can't have sex with you. PE gains take time. Lot's of time.

Also, here's a random thought... MAybe she's stroking your ego about your new size because she knows that you are doing PE and likes you. It could be flattery. Girls do funny things sometimes.

MD

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

One school of thought says to be honest and tell her what you're doing. The other school of thought says keep it under your hat until you're ready to tell her.

You could just tell her and then you could keep it under your hat and just keep her guessing.

Personally, I'd keep it under my hat for a spell.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

That's a great story. If your girl says your size is good, then maybe focus on EQ and stamina work for better, longer lasting sex marathons. Edging and ballooning without cumming are solid exercises to do on days where you aren't with your girl (no sex, don't cum). Then, when you see her... BAM! You have a great orgasm becasue of all the sexual tension you build up.

You could also just keep doing PE and deny it if she asks. It's not like you will grow 50% bigger over night and then she won't/can't have sex with you. PE gains take time. Lot's of time.

Also, here's a random thought... MAybe she's stroking your ego about your new size because she knows that you are doing PE and likes you. It could be flattery. Girls do funny things sometimes.

MD

Well, I've never been one to have issues in the stamina dept (I go for at least an hour and often longer and my refractory period is only a few minutes) so I don't do edging. I don't think she knows I'm doing anything since I've never told or hinted that I am. And as far as the ego thing, she knows I could care less about my ego being stroked or being flattered (we are both way too old for that kinda thing and she doesn't care for that either) so I know she's telling me straight up what's on her mind.

One school of thought says to be honest and tell her what you're doing. The other school of thought says keep it under your hat until you're ready to tell her.

You could just tell her and then you could keep it under your hat and just keep her guessing.

Personally, I'd keep it under my hat for a spell.

I'm with you on that one - PE is quite the personal thing and I don't see me letting that cat outta the bag anytime soon.

I guess I'm pondering how I should slow my routine down ... or not .....

[Bandit Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bandit]

Well, I'd say it's up to you to decide. Everyone on here preaches about how PE should be for yourself, not for a woman or women. If you want a dick x inches big, obviously you should go for it. But if she seriously doesn't want you any bigger, then decide if she's worth putting aside your dick goals for.
If you want to make everyone happy, and continue towards your goal with her not being apprehensive about increased size, just show her a picture of child birth, or a fisting video!

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Well, I'd say it's up to you to decide. Everyone on here preaches about how PE should be for yourself, not for a woman or women. If you want a dick x inches big, obviously you should go for it. But if she seriously doesn't want you any bigger, then decide if she's worth putting aside your dick goals for.
If you want to make everyone happy, and continue towards your goal with her not being apprehensive about increased size, just show her a picture of child birth, or a fisting video!

I certainly agree. I'm one of the ones here always yelling from the rooftops about how PE is for you and not them. I'm just pondering how do I slow down my routine so that the size gains are not overwhelming. I still plan to pursue my goals - both short and long term - but I don't want to slow down enough the I actually regress? I guess I'm looking for ways to increase and still do PE without it becoming overwhelming. I know my cock isn't gonna spring up and inch in girth and a couple of inches overnight, but I think you know what I'm getting at ...

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

If it were me, I would keep going whilst she is still all giddy & excited about it & stop/maintain once she was actually saying NO MORE with a serious face.

Having said that at 6.6EG she may well not be joking now GTO.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

If it were me, I would keep going whilst she is still all giddy & excited about it & stop/maintain once she was actually saying NO MORE with a serious face.

Having said that at 6.6EG she may well not be joking now GTO.

True ... I've been thinking that once I hit my short term at 7 EG, I'll try to cement that and slow it down to concentrate strictly on length.

[Chuck6877 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chuck6877]

Okay, the first post Gettinthereok, didn't have your stats..... Then after reading your second I saw your stats! I don't think she's kidding either!

I measured a cucumber the other day that looked absolutely HUGE.

It was 5.5-6" girth at the greatest. I'm 5" and want to get to 5.5"....so I would be very happy being the size of that cucumber.

I personally think you're big enough and your girl is even telling you it's enough. Now it's up to you to decide when you're done.

Sometime it's hard to stop something that has been making you feel better about yourself. I'm sure PE has made you feel better. Maybe you're done and can stop?

You my friend are HUGE....

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Thanks, but I don't see it no matter how much it's told to me. It's been said here before but I think guys have a disadvantage when it comes to judgin our own cock size since we typically have only one point of view of our cocks for all of our lives. What we would consider big enough may be waaaaaay to big for some females cause they have an obvious different perception.

And you are right - though I've never really had a problem with self-confidence, PE has certainly made me feel better. As far as stopping, like I said in my previous post - once I hit my short term at 7 EG, start pumping my brakes a bit.

[Chuck6877 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chuck6877]

Well, it's made me feel much better too.... I'm sure this is why all of us do it. I too think it might be hard to stop when I reach my ultimate goal.
Gone from 6.25x4.5 to now 7x5. Wanna stop at 7.5x5.5.

Getting to 7 and just going for length from there sounds like a great idea. Heck if your girl can handle 6.6, she can surely handle 7 right!!??

Also, I'm shocked she can fit it in her mouth without using teeth only? Amazing...

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

LOL! Oh - there's some "teeth-action" going on, but it's about the right amount that I like ...

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Thanks, but I don't see it no matter how much it's told to me. It's been said here before but I think guys have a disadvantage when it comes to judgin our own cock size since we typically have only one point of view of our cocks for all of our lives. What we would consider big enough may be waaaaaay to big for some females cause they have an obvious different perception.

And you are right - though I've never really had a problem with self-confidence, PE has certainly made me feel better. As far as stopping, like I said in my previous post - once I hit my short term at 7 EG, start pumping my brakes a bit.

I know what you mean. I still feel undersized at times. Grabbing a toilet paper roll to compare girth helps me a lot. Length wise.... the water bottle I have been using a lot lately is about my length (BP). Both look big in their own respects... but my dick just doesn't.
Seeing it the same for so long... Once you get to a certain amount gained these feelings will pass (I'm guessing).

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

I know what you mean. I still feel undersized at times. Grabbing a toilet paper roll to compare girth helps me a lot. Length wise.... the water bottle I have been using a lot lately is about my length (BP). Both look big in their own respects... but my dick just doesn't.
Seeing it the same for so long... Once you get to a certain amount gained these feelings will pass (I'm guessing).

Maybe ... but since the gains will be gradual, it still may not help. But you are right - comparing it to other stuff is the only thing that really seems to make it help. But we'll see.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

These problems are common at your size getting, it's like I say so much ;if useability is a factor, then you are limited in how big you should get.