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[bigkrum Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigkrum]

Hello, dudes.
Well today i wanna share something with you and ask few questions . Well at first I'm 21 years old guy with a think a normal dick so this isn't my problem . But I'm still a virgin, well not that i didn't have any chanses but I can't just sleep with a woman if I don't have any feelings for her.... and I think I'm too shy too. Is this a bad thing? I think no, but what will you say? And the next thing... there is this chick in my university. She's really nice, hot and all that staff and I really like her for more than 2 years now. I don't know much about girls but I think she like's me in some way too... I have been invited two times and slept in her place... but I just don't have the courage to tell her something aggressive maybe? I don't wan't to lose her like a friend, for some mistake i made... And after so much time, without any action from my side... maybe now I'm stuck in status - just friends, maybe I'm not so sure... So right now I don't know what to do. Maybe i need to be honest with her and tell her that I like her?

[UYN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UYN]

I would definitely just admit that to her. I would think that you have more to gain than to lose by doing so.

-UYN-

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

I agree with UYN, nothing ventured nothing gained.. she probably already knows on some level you have feelings for her.. if she isn't interested in more then friends, it might be a little awkward for a short time because she won't want to give you mixed signals, but if she is a good friend it won't change the friendship as long as you can respect the boundaries of just being friends and don't resent her for it. Its better to know where you stand with things, then to spend years wondering what if...

[Dea7h7rap 101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dea7h7rap 101]

If you want to take it to the next level, then take it there! Start flirting, not talking with her. Guys that are interested in girls flirt, not talk. Talking is for friends. Tease her a little bit, say funny stuff, be outgoing. Chicks love outgoing guys period. If you want to get anywhere with women you have to one degree or another be outgoing. When people say "just be yourself" that is fine and all if yourself is boring, shy, and unconfident good luck with the ladies. You may get a girl or two that way, but if you truly want success and have women feel attraction for you, you need to pull triggers on what actually makes them feel attraction.

[Bigi Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigi]

You slept over at her place?! Dude if that isn't clear enough sign that you need to make the move then i don't know what is. Trust me she might feel just as you do, but since shes female , she might expect you to make the move. Two years, make a move before its to late, don't make same mistakes i made.

I had similar experience recently. I used to see this girl while taking a walk, we would stop and chat, but it was not enough to build some connection or relationship. I found her very attractive, wasn't sure how she felt about me, she was hard to read. I began being "friendly" with her, she didn't seem to like it, so she distanced her self. No problem at least i know where i stand. So i moved on. I recommend you to do the same, don't waste your life on her if she isn't interested, move on. Years fly by us like crazy, make best of it while you are in early 20s.