Help needed!!

[aerialman Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close aerialman]

Hi just new - Looking some help or advise.
I've been with my fiance for about 11 years we plan to marry year after next and i really love her and stuff.
One thing that really bugs me is she keeps going on about the size of my penis being too big in her words
"massive" i thought guys didn't really have these problems! We have had sex roughly 3 sometimes 4 times a
year strictly because i can't listen the complaining about how sore she is after wards. I have been using
escorts for quite a while and several have mentioned how large my penis is. Reason i need help is she has
just stopped the sex between us and says no more as she is in constant pain, i don't want to cause her pain
i have taken her to the hospital to be checked out and researched the web to see if i can help her. I have
asked her to try different positions that would help her, i let her be on top and don't move so she can get a
feel for it and she just acts like a coward and jumps off and cries in the bathroom. I have really tried for years
but i' am at the end of the line and am calling off the wedding and relationship if either she doesn't her or i can
find out how to help her. I don't want to constantly use escorts allow enjoyable i do feel really bad after it does
get me down. Any help really gratefully received...

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

First of all, welcome to the Gym!
Secondly, Wow! I would say that's a rarity - a guy complaining about his cock being too big! Not to downplay your situation, but it is quite unique. A few questions:

1. What are your measurements?
2. You say you've only had sex 3-4 times a year over the course of your relationship - what sorts of techniques have you two tried? Are you engaging in a lot of foreplay? Using lots of lubes? Are you rushing into things are are you letting her get really aroused enough to be able to handle you?

Give us a bit more info and I think we can lend some good advice.

[treefern71 Member Find all posts View Profile Close treefern71]

have to agree with everything Gettin There said.
Also, if you are too big, why are you on a site dedicated to increasing the size of your penis?