Should I Believe her?

[myguy28 Member Find all posts View Profile Close myguy28]

So me and my gf are having a discussion about our past relationships and so on.. Like most the obvious question to come up on my end was.. who was the biggest that she has been with.

She says she doesn't know because she never seen the guys she been with dicks before. I'm like how can you see their dicks and have sex with them. She like the guys just slipped on the condom so I never

seen them. Then she goes on to say but I you were the biggest tho. I'm like you just said you didn't see their dicks! She says I know that dummy,but I can feel them inside me.


So my question is should I believe here or is this all fluff? and for the ladies is this even likely to not see a man dicks before having sex?

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

If you don't like the answers, stop asking the questions.

[W.M.P. Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close W.M.P.]

Here's a good question to follow that one, myguy28? "Mmmm...honey?...am I the most masochistic person you've ever come across? Do you think you could ever meet anyone who seeks mental torture in a relationship more than I do?."

[myguy28 Member Find all posts View Profile Close myguy28]

If you don't like the answers, stop asking the questions.

uhh... this is a useless response it's not rather I like the question it was an open conversation between the two of us. AGAIN my question was should I believe this or is even likely, not if i like the answers..smh

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

You are going to be inclined to believe whateve it is you want to believe - whether or not she is actually telling the truth. Questions like these are simply self-serving - and ironically serve no real purpose other than to spark anxiety in the one posing the question. Simple advice: don't bother goin down this road (I know it's too late since the cat's already outta the bag but hopefully someone else can benefit).

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

Guys should realize that when they ask a woman questions about their size relative to their prior partners, they are putting them on the spot, just like when a woman asks you if her jeans make her butt look too big.

They start thinking of an answer that is going to be "acceptable" to the guy asking. If the guy then starts "arguing" with the answers, they get turned off pretty quickly.

The truth is that most women don't take great notice of penis size, unless it is at one extreme of the size range or the other. Everything else is "average" or "normal size" They don't start scrutinizing a guy's cock to determine his size relative to some guy in their past. And even if they did, they probably wouldn't be sure if he was bigger or smaller unless the size difference was fairly dramatic.

[myguy28 Member Find all posts View Profile Close myguy28]

Guys should realize that when they ask a woman questions about their size relative to their prior partners, they are putting them on the spot, just like when a woman asks you if her jeans make her butt look too big.

They start thinking of an answer that is going to be "acceptable" to the guy asking. If the guy then starts "arguing" with the answers, they get turned off pretty quickly.

The truth is that most women don't take great notice of penis size, unless it is at one extreme of the size range or the other. Everything else is "average" or "normal size" They don't start scrutinizing a guy's cock to determine his size relative to some guy in their past. And even if they did, they probably wouldn't be sure if he was bigger or smaller unless the size difference was fairly dramatic.

Thanks that put thing in to a better perspective for me!

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

I don't want to instigate things but i completely agree with what the guys have said. It has been agreed on other threads that the worst question you could ask your partner is "who is the biggest you have ever had ?". Like GettinThereOK said ... it serves no real purpose and if what she says is not what you wanted to hear then it could cause self provoked damage to your ego. I think i would appreciate it more if my partner was to say "Your the best i have ever had".
As for a woman not observing the penises of the blokes she has slept with, i am not sure if i can believe that. It might not necessarly be the size that women are scrutinising, but i am quite sure they observe them.

[Tylerdurden46 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Tylerdurden46]

uhh... this is a useless response it's not rather I like the question it was an open conversation between the two of us. AGAIN my question was should I believe this or is even likely, not if i like the answers..smh

I agree with Redbear. Never, ever, EVER ask a question to which the answer could destroy you emotionally. In relation to penis size, unless either you are extraodinarily well endowed, or your gf is very inexperienced, asking that question is like opening Pandora's Box. I know, because, son, I was that soldier.

I hope you are looking for an honest answer to your post, and not just want you want to hear, because, TBH mate, what she has told you sounds like BS. BS that spares your feelings, but BS nonetheless. I suppose it is possible if she is young and/or inexperienced, because those encounters often involve little foreplay and can sometimes just involve the guying "climbing aboard". If not, then it's probably a white lie.

Does she see your erect dick? Does she give you BJs? If so, then it is likely that she has seen her previous bf's cocks too.

Also, girls can tell size from feeling with their hands.

As to whether you are likely to be her biggest, I would say a general rule of thumb is that if she has had 10 partners, then unless you are 7" or above, then you are unlikely to be her biggest. Likewise, 20/7.5", 30/8".

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What are your stats btw.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Guys should realize that when they ask a woman questions about their size relative to their prior partners, they are putting them on the spot, just like when a woman asks you if her jeans make her butt look too big.

They start thinking of an answer that is going to be "acceptable" to the guy asking. If the guy then starts "arguing" with the answers, they get turned off pretty quickly.

The truth is that most women don't take great notice of penis size, unless it is at one extreme of the size range or the other. Everything else is "average" or "normal size" They don't start scrutinizing a guy's cock to determine his size relative to some guy in their past. And even if they did, they probably wouldn't be sure if he was bigger or smaller unless the size difference was fairly dramatic.

This is absolutely right!!!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Unless there are huge size differences between guys, most girls won't have paid enough attention to really know who among their partners was bigger or smaller. Size, when guys are in the normal range, just doesn't make that much difference to us females. The emotional connection, what sort of activities we engage in, how good it feels, how sexy he is.... THOSE are the things we remember!

[Dance Sucka Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dance Sucka]

So me and my gf are having a discussion about our past relationships and so on.. Like most the obvious question to come up on my end was.. who was the biggest that she has been with.

She says she doesn't know because she never seen the guys she been with dicks before. I'm like how can you see their dicks and have sex with them. She like the guys just slipped on the condom so I never

seen them. Then she goes on to say but I you were the biggest tho. I'm like you just said you didn't see their dicks! She says I know that dummy,but I can feel them inside me.


So my question is should I believe here or is this all fluff? and for the ladies is this even likely to not see a man dicks before having sex?

Stop caring, it is only your ego that cares. You just want to know for the sake of knowing, and this attitude is so not helpful at all. Besides, you don't need to care because size doesn't matter. You only need to be happy to have such a great girlfriend who treats you like the man that you are.

OK, Bye!
-DS

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Stop caring, it is only your ego that cares. You just want to know for the sake of knowing, and this attitude is so not helpful at all. Besides, you don't need to care because size doesn't matter. You only need to be happy to have such a great girlfriend who treats you like the man that you are.

OK, Bye!
-DS

Actually I have to disagree with a bit of your statement. Size absolutely matters - that's the reason 95% of us are here (at the Gym doing what we do - "pullin on our pee-pee"). The more accurate thing may be that it may not matter that much to her ...... but it absolutely does matter to us.

[myguy28 Member Find all posts View Profile Close myguy28]

Stop caring, it is only your ego that cares. You just want to know for the sake of knowing, and this attitude is so not helpful at all. Besides, you don't need to care because size doesn't matter. You only need to be happy to have such a great girlfriend who treats you like the man that you are.

OK, Bye!
-DS

Yes your absolutely right I have a ego and a big one, not denying that at all. I always want to be the best in everything I do and when it comes to this I am no different.
yea and how can you yea size doesn't matter in your in a penis enlargement form? lol.. I think some people just say thinga just because it is the correct thing to say.
I believe size does play a part, but it's not all the matters!

Thanks for the responses tho, some real insightful stuff!

[TurtleProblems Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TurtleProblems]

"She says she doesn't know because she never seen the guys she been with dicks before."

Very suspicous... With that statement I *probably* wouldn't. She has probably seen them all, and some may have been bigger than you, or you may have been bigger than most of them, who knows. I wouldn't worry about other peoples size or past partners sizes, because there are always going to be bigger people than you, and also people that are smaller.