Getting an erection when we touch

[Crispybacon Member Find all posts View Profile Close Crispybacon]

I've had a girlfriend for a couple weeks now, haven't had sex yet. She's incredibly sexy, and i'm crazy about her. A problem I've been having though is that I'll get a boner around her waaay too easily. Like we'll be at a party (we're in college) and she'll just come sit on my lap or even grab my hand or something and I'll feel my little guy waking up. A lot of it is mental, because I'll start thinking "oh god i'm getting a woody" and that kinda adds fuel to the fire. I've done the ol' 12-o'clock-stretch behind the waistband trick and it sort of worked in that it made me stop worrying about it, which inadvertently made me less hard.

But what can I do to not get an erection so easily? I'm not so keen on the idea of getting a hard on every time we hold hands or she sits on my lap (that one is even more awkward).

Thanks.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Dude - enjoy it while you can! LOL! Believe me, when you are on the back side of your 30's, you are gonna long for the days at catchin' wood just from a stiff breeeze!

But more to your question, simply try to relax. It's more a function of your hormones than anything. They are still extremely active at your age and it's perfectly natural to experience what you are going through. I'm sure your girl may even be a bit flattered that she has that sort of affect on you!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I used to wank a great deal.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Don't worry about it. Your girl will be amused and flattered, nothing else.

[Always Ready Brek Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Always Ready Brek]

my girl is exactly as BW said. This always happens to me and the girl loves it cos to her it means im attracted to her / find her sexy. Just make jokes about it, dont bother trying to hide it. Tease her saying why does she do this to you, all you have to do is hold my hand and he's up getting jealous! Trust me, no matter what you say about the subject she's going to find it fun and shes gonna be happy with herself for being able to make you get wood so easily

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

Dude - enjoy it while you can! LOL! Believe me, when you are on the back side of your 30's, you are gonna long for the days at catchin' wood just from a stiff breeeze!

But more to your question, simply try to relax. It's more a function of your hormones than anything. They are still extremely active at your age and it's perfectly natural to experience what you are going through. I'm sure your girl may even be a bit flattered that she has that sort of affect on you!

I could not of put it better myself. well said GettinThere !!
If there is one thing that will make a woman realise that you really like her and find her attractive ... its a boner.
Congrats on a job well done

[Crispybacon Member Find all posts View Profile Close Crispybacon]

Haha true, but I mean what about when we're with other people? I don't think it'd be nearly as flattering to the group of friends I'm with LOL.

[boogie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close boogie]

I've never had a girl take it as a bad thing, though there was one that would reach over for "status checks" a little too frequently. Bed? Sure! Couch? Fine! In the movie theatre? Okay! In the car? Whatever! In the check-out line at the grocery store? Ehm...

[Panther Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Panther]

Enjoy it. Still happens to me. Sport it and be proud. Nothing wrong with a great hard on.

[BULLDOG91 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BULLDOG91]

thats a good problem to have.just go with it.

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

I had a pretty hot girl sit on my lap while we were outside smoking. She didn't want to sit in the grass. I has semi-drunk and got a raging hardon. Luckily it was down my left leg and she was sitting on the right. Unluckily I was drunk and told her that anyway. She just laughed and I sat there until it went away
With every girlfriend I have had... boy, I'm just horny all the time. I try jacking off like minutes before I leave to pick them up for a date or whatever. Doesn't help.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Dude - enjoy it while you can! LOL! Believe me, when you are on the back side of your 30's, you are gonna long for the days at catchin' wood just from a stiff breeeze!

Wait until you're on the back side of 60. I have to start taking supplements and/or Viagra several hours ahead of time to get a decent hard on. In the old movie, Carnal Knowledge, he rubbed his hard on against his girl friend's leg at a party and then went back to his apartment for some good sex. Use it to your advantage.

[Closed039 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed039]

I agree. Wear that thing like a badge of honor, my friend. I have the same "problem" that you have.

[moxsum Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close moxsum]

Yea.. girls love that shit man, girls love to feel sexy and getting a boner around her does that.. you can even turn it into a joke.. i remember doing that before.. like acting a little embarrased and trying to hide it, my girl used to think it was funny and arousing too!

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I like the name crispybacon. Be happy about your boners. When I was in my 20's I knew the guys got boners and was never unhappy about it. Girls know guys get boners all the time. It won't shock her.