Digging the "easy girl"

[RIB2211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RIB2211]

What are your guys thoughts on starting a relationship with the "easy girl"? I hate labeling like that, but it's the easiest way to describe what I mean (sociology major makes me pretty sympathetic to those stigmatized by labeling).


Keep in mind that I am asking this solely out of curiosity.

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

I would go for it unless I felt she was incapable of saying no - that would be foolish.

[ErictheGed Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ErictheGed]

Pummel? Yes. Relationship? No.

[BigRooster Senior Member Member of the Month Apr 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigRooster]

Here's my thoughts. The "easy girl" deep down is a good girl who is looking for companionship. Somebody who will be there when she needs a shoulder to cry on. Someone to talk to and all those things that we as human animals desire. Problem is is that she believes that in order to find this certain man. She gives up the cookies (that was a term I heard some youngsters using today) thinking that that is what she has to do to keep a man. Well she gives up the cookies and the man moves on because he got what he wanted. So if you want to start a relationship with the "easy girl". The last thing I would do would be to try in get in her panties. Get to know the lady for who she is, person that has feelings before you want to know her intimately. Be her friend. A real friend. That's my thoughts because I work with a young lady who is sweet as a girl can be, but she seems to think that that is the only way to get a boyfriend. It's sad and some fellow co-workers have tried to talk to her about it, but it just doesn't sink in. I'm leaving at that.

[Editor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Editor]

What do you mean by "easy girl"? Like easy to sleep with?

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Wear your raincoat!

[Dante311 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dante311]

emotional instability? insecurity?

dated a couple of these ... i learned my lesson.

about to dump another.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

theres another kind of girl besides the easy ones? where. i find one thats not gonna sleep with me on the first date im marrying her. that means ther is a slight chance she has the self control to keep her legs crossed...... thats the only thing woman need to be capabaale of to date me. of course making me food will have me fall in love instantly.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

How do you say "double standard"?

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

oh ok i guess the girls arnt sluts im just some sort of one of a kind golden god. its up to me to show control. because if i choose not to sleep with her then she cant possibly be a slut....................i forgot its all my fault that women are comfortable enough around me to let me see there true selves.

[RIB2211 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RIB2211]

How do you say "double standard"?

While I agree, I can also tell you that this is drastically changing. Perhaps its due to the fact that I go to a smaller school, but girls are aware of guys who sleep around and are very vocal about their disgust for them. So it seems that the standard is beginning to be held by both sexes.

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

One of my current friends has the reputation to sleep around, yet she's smart about it. She's a very well spoken person who I guess just likes the thrill of a one night stand. I haven't slept with her but if I get the chance I probably will. She's cute and has a good sense of humor. We'll see what happens.
Anways, in response to your post I'd say go for it. I'm friends with quite a few promiscuous girls and the general consensus I get from them is that they'd be wonderful girlfriends. As weird as it sounds I think the women that are less reserved with their sexuality are more faithful. At least that holds true in my experience. Or maybe I just know a bunch of coooool chicks. Who knows.

[vankush Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close vankush]

I know some girls like that too, it doesn't bother me if girls were slutty before we went out as long as they're faithful during.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

While I agree, I can also tell you that this is drastically changing. Perhaps its due to the fact that I go to a smaller school, but girls are aware of guys who sleep around and are very vocal about their disgust for them. So it seems that the standard is beginning to be held by both sexes.

no girls hate players. there is a difference between a guy who walks in hits on women and has game and a guy who walks in and does nothing but smile and be genuinely honest and nice and caring. your talkin about guys who look for girls approval. they look for mine. if anything ive had more sex because of girls talking about it then less. im like a dirty little secret to be shared between friends. my only complaint is none of its real and i might as well just masturbate after a certain point. actually with a lot of girls i think masturbation is better lol. but how about this? have you ever rejected a girl that wanted to be with you? women are nothing like men they dont handle rejection well lol. if they put themselves out there for a guy and he refuses thats like the worst thing that you could do to her. its the biggest insult there is lol. men can get rejected 50 times a night. girl gets shot down for sex one time and its a life ending problem thats gonna traumatize her. i seriously couldnt hurt someone that way, although ive found "your cute but my friend has a crush on you and i could never do that to him" works well initially. but in the end actually seems to increase the attraction. so far ive yet to find a way to say no that doesnt hurt feelings and actually works without making them try harder.

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

Here's my thoughts. The "easy girl" deep down is a good girl who is looking for companionship. Somebody who will be there when she needs a shoulder to cry on. Someone to talk to and all those things that we as human animals desire. Problem is is that she believes that in order to find this certain man. She gives up the cookies (that was a term I heard some youngsters using today) thinking that that is what she has to do to keep a man. Well she gives up the cookies and the man moves on because he got what he wanted. So if you want to start a relationship with the "easy girl". The last thing I would do would be to try in get in her panties. Get to know the lady for who she is, person that has feelings before you want to know her intimately. Be her friend. A real friend. That's my thoughts because I work with a young lady who is sweet as a girl can be, but she seems to think that that is the only way to get a boyfriend. It's sad and some fellow co-workers have tried to talk to her about it, but it just doesn't sink in. I'm leaving at that.

Very very true. Often times you will find these "easy girls" to be the most loyal girl you got. In my life 18-24 yrs old I was probably called an easy girl. I was loyal to the guys, stood by them, loved them, didn't use them and no games. Then they went to these other girls that they thought they could have this real relationship with only to find themselves being used and games galore.