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[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

Need some help... I'm super nervous at this point.

Okay, so there's this SUPER hot older woman I know. when i say older, I mean she's quite a bit older than me. actually she twice my age plus 7 years. She's actually older than my mom LOL! So I was flirting with her and accidentally jump started something, Well not accidentally, I was thinking with my peen at the time... She wants me up to her house to teach her some some Computer Rendering Programs and she's gonna cook me dinner...

Here's the problem. Her children live close by her... Her daughter is 4 years younger than me, and her youngest son is 2 years younger than me. Her eldest son.... well he's 13 years older than me LOL! It was a fun thought, but the serious consequences of us having a fling... or two or three... are bouncing around in my head.

I'm walking into something i'm probably not ready for... *facepalm*... She's still hot, and I'd put it on her, but the consequences of my actions are weighing heavily on my brain.

Question is, Should i go with my head and back out, or should I go with my other head and make sure we're clear this is just fun... I'm so confused.

[UYN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UYN]

If both of you want the same thing out of this coming relationship, then I'd say go for it

-UYN-

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Well if it was me I would be very moral and decline the invitation and then I would go out to my gararge and hit myself with a hammer right in the head-both of them! What does the age of her kids got to do with anything? This is between you and her. Go have fun.( and don't forget to come back and tell me all about it!)

[ErictheGed Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ErictheGed]

Go by the hedonic calculus! Maximise happiness, minimise unhappiness. You and her will get some happiness. Her kids won't give a shit. Get the job done!





*ErictheGed and pegym.com accept no liability in the event of this being a fuck up!

[Hockey_NY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hockey_NY]

I'd do it, dude....Have fun!

[ZSheep Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ZSheep]

in worst case scenario, if her kids find out, never admit it unless she does... I've made that mistake :P

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Thats a hard situation.. its easy to say screw it and do it... but the reality is it does come with problems..
If it's a 'hit it and quit it' situation, then its a little less complicated.
but i personally believe its naive to believe that there wouldn't be fall out from it with her kids, some of her peers or even your friends and family..
Is it wrong to be attached to someone twice your age.. not really.
is there stigma attached to it ..yes
is it a common fantasy to fuck a cougar or older woman definitely.
Does it have potential to be more? possibly ..is it a good match for you..probably not.
Do you know much about her?.. because though it could seem like a emotionally uncomplicated thing .. older woman can be very needy and complicated or have baggage.. and the power balance in the liaison isn't equal so it could put you in a vulnerable position dealing with a crazy older women..just saying

not saying whether you should or shouldn't do it.. just a few things to think about.

[jonfree5555 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jonfree5555]

Damn it Titty u are so wise!!!!! Good advice!

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I would so totally do it............if she's hot and so forth and the two of you dig each other............dude, why not?? Go have some fun with an older gal. Older women usually are less inhibited about their sexuality and let it all hang out and don't give a shit. I've had a couple of older women and I've gotta tell ya, with the exception of the emotional train wrecks the both of them were, the sex was fucking awesome!

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

If she wants you, she knows what she wants. Women are thinkers so she already thought of all this shit. Enjoy!

[dmcollin Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmcollin]

Dooo ittt yeahhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!

[dmcollin Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmcollin]

hahaha

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

If she wants you, she knows what she wants. Women are thinkers so she already thought of all this shit. Enjoy!

Not true .. I have a friend who went down this path ..a guy who was 15yrs+ her junior and i know for a fact she didn't think .. and i know for a fact she didn't weigh things up... and even though women are generally thinkers it doesn't mean they are thinking clearly esp when lust and attention is involved.. And just because they are older doesn't mean they know what they want or what they are after or even that they have their heads screwed on straight.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Need some help... I'm super nervous at this point.

Okay, so there's this SUPER hot older woman I know. when i say older, I mean she's quite a bit older than me. actually she twice my age plus 7 years. She's actually older than my mom LOL! So I was flirting with her and accidentally jump started something, Well not accidentally, I was thinking with my peen at the time... She wants me up to her house to teach her some some Computer Rendering Programs and she's gonna cook me dinner...

Here's the problem. Her children live close by her... Her daughter is 4 years younger than me, and her youngest son is 2 years younger than me. Her eldest son.... well he's 13 years older than me LOL! It was a fun thought, but the serious consequences of us having a fling... or two or three... are bouncing around in my head.

I'm walking into something i'm probably not ready for... *facepalm*... She's still hot, and I'd put it on her, but the consequences of my actions are weighing heavily on my brain.

Question is, Should i go with my head and back out, or should I go with my other head and make sure we're clear this is just fun... I'm so confused.

Jump in with both feet bro! Had a fling with an older woman (I was in my early 20's, she was in her 40's - had a body like she was in her late 20's) and it was an experience I'll never forget. She taught me soooooo much about sex and women in general. It was an absolute amazing time.

Who the hell gives a damn or even cares about age?!?! Two consenting adults - go have fun!

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I agree with Titty. But it does sound like you are already thinking things out rather than just jumping. That is a good thing. If you decide to do it, you must share all the details.