Broken Hymen?

[nekk1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nekk1]

Hey guys, I paused from PE pretty long time and I'm about to go to a surgery (frenuloplasty) - and one month after that i'll resume my PE routines.
However, that's not my point right now. What I want to say is: I had sex with my girlfriend just before New Year. It wasn't painful for her cause I was doing it slowly. I fully penetrated her, and she felt wonderful. In the middle of the sex - she said she needed to go to bathroom. After going to bathroom, she said it was enough for today, and we'll bang hard on New Year. I was pretty excited.
On the New Year evening - she put on stockings and some sexy thongs and we were ready to do it. When I tried to penetrate again - she said that it hurts her. I went again slowly and penetrated her again. This time - there was some white fluid when I put out my penis. Again she needed to go to bathroom and when she came back - she didn't felt like resuming. OK - we paused sex for like 1-2 months and whenever we tried having - it hurt her.
She went to gynecologist and her doctor said that the hymen was intact... and I was like : WHAT?! I'm sure it isn't my dick size, cause I'm average.
Yesterday we had sex again - again I entered slowly and that didn't hurt her, but I asked her if it's OK for me to check her vagina like gynecologist . I did, and I took a picture just to compare to some hymens on the net. OK - there were some similarities, but I could even stretch her vagina enough to see her canal.
She asked her mother why is that so, and her mom said it could be that her hymen is very elastic.
So any advices how should I penetrate, or break her hymen will be great. Thanks and sorry for making you read much

[Brian98 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brian98]

Let me stick my dick in her and il break it!

Sorry, just joking. Jokes all a-side never really heard of this problem before. Could go in at different angles that would strike the hymen directly if you have looked in and know exactly where it is?

[nekk1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nekk1]

^ hahahahahha I killed myself from laughing -.-

anyway - I searched for the hymen - or at least something that looked similar to that and could not find it. Tried several poses and she enjoyed in all of them, except when she was on top of me - she said her stomach hurt. More advices?

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I saw something once an a porn where a guy merely broke this chicks hymen with his fingers...........just busted no problem. Personally, I think doing it with your dick is alot more fun and more the point but hey, everyone is different.

[RockstarParkingDude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RockstarParkingDude]

some girls are just like that. give it time, keep trying and be patient. try some lube if inserting hurts her. sometimes with a tight girl, just cause she seems lubed up, doesn't mean theres enough lube right off the bat for both of you. keep a good sense of humor about it and go at her pace. try going down on her first, that can help relax her enough for good penetration.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

When she says hurts, what type of hurt. Burning, soreness, stabbing pain? Odd that during the act she doesn't throw you off yet goes to the bathroom and then says no more. Even if my guy draws blood during our love making its usually cervix banging blood and there is no pain there.

Is her pain inside the vagina, after you have entered her? Have you two actually performed the test run like just the tip of your head and slowly going in and she say when it hurts? Then put your finger on your shaft and pull out and measure how deep you were in there. Tell her gyno about the depth. She could have a vaginal wall tear, prolapse... If this is literally upon entry (that is burning/painful) and she burns because of her opening being too small for you or she really not ready for intercourse yet (stimulated, secreting enough) different story. Note: Just lube when the rest of her is not ready is f'd up in my opinion.

We have many many glans inside and out all over up and down and around to secrete all the necessary lube, get us juicy etc.. inside and out. WE produce them. I know exactly when mine is pumping. Not sure how old you guys are or if she has had sex before. She may just need to learn more about her private parts. Really see the map of it, what each function is and learn to wait (assuming its upon entry and not further inside her) I read so much on here about "use the lube use the lube" I mean flac if the girl is not ready then get on the ball dude and get her ready (assuming she doesn't have a medical reason)

Hope y'all find out. I am sure this is not easy on either one of you. I think its great you are inquiring about it though!

[Jonh Doe Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jonh Doe]

If you show us the picture i'm sure we could figure it out.

[nekk1 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close nekk1]

If you show us the picture i'm sure we could figure it out.

She deleted it right after I showed her :/

When she says hurts, what type of hurt.

She says it hurts her inside her stomach.

Not sure how old you guys are or if she has had sex before

We are both 19, and we had never had sex before. I mean - we had but with this problem.

Is her pain inside the vagina, after you have entered her? Have you two actually performed the test run like just the tip of your head and slowly going in and she say when it hurts?

Yes we had, and it doesn't hurts her when I do it very slowly and she's wet. And there is no pain when I'm inside her.


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http://medicalsquid.com/wp-content/u...men-intact.jpg
^this is NOT how her vagina looks like

[Hockey_NY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hockey_NY]

Hopefully that gets worked out...Sounds frustrating

[Hockey_NY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hockey_NY]

If you show us the picture i'm sure we could figure it out.

Where did you study medicine?

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Please have her go back to the gyno. If she has pain in the stomach it could be lots of things.
When you are new to sex, especially when you are excited and doing it often, you get what old timers call "honeymoon burn". Normal but let a doctor examine her (again).

I remember it (hahahaha) and I ended up swollen up in there and had small cysts.

This may be what she is experiencing. Plus when you are new to sex it takes some time to really get to know your body, etc..

Good luck and hope all is well

[Freaky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Freaky]

I agree with all of the fellow members here as well i would like to add that this pain could be biological,although i'm not sure!
Meaning that the hymen might be even deeper than the original place it should be or as her mother said,it might be too elastic.
Can't promise you anything cuz a human body has a lot of mysteries mate...good luck with the prob