I'm going to tell her

[Roamer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Roamer]

I am going to tell my wife tonight when I get home from work. I have just started my exercises today and do not want to do it
in secret. We have been together for 30 years I should not feel uncomfortable but I do. Pray for me.

[RockstarParkingDude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RockstarParkingDude]

honesty is a good policy. just be clear why you are doing it. stick with it dude!

[CaptainUnderpants Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainUnderpants]

Good Luck, your a better man than me. I waited about 45 days until I had some gains before I told the wife, so I didn't feel like a retard. But I have only been married for 15 years. I think after 30 years you probably know each other well.

If you do gain her acceptance/cooperation, it will certainly make PE'ing more doable.

Good Luck.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Check this thread out, it my give you some ideas on what to expect and how to approach it. I know that for me I decided to tell her before I began and it was the best choice for me. Good luck with telling her.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...-other-pe.html

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Why would your wife be upset?

[Alpha Q Harter Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alpha Q Harter]

Personally, I wouldn't ever tell anybody I'm close with. I guess it's just how I am, I rather her think it's all naturally me. Is that a bad thing? I guess it could be due to the fact I've had girls in the past cheat on me and tell me the guy was bigger than me... Damn sluts...
Either way I'm not saying don't do it, I'm just letting you guys in on how I feel about it. Big ups to you for doing that though man!

[Roamer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Roamer]

I told her and she is totally fine with it. She told me that Dr Oz was having a show last week on Penis health and she would
tape it for me. That by the way is how I found PEgym. So I told her that it is for the long term health of my penis. I am 52
and have been showing some signs of age. Slow erection before sex, less orgasm intensity, lack of morning wood.

I told her that a side effect would be added length and girth and she said she is fine with that. I asked if she would support
my efforts and ask me how my exercises are going and she said she would.

I also told her that I occasionally masturbate and she said "don't all men" and that she assumed that I did. This led to further
conversations of what pleases her and me sexually and it was a trust building time for us.

I feel so much better to have had this conversation. Now I can do this without the hiding and guilt of keeping secrets.

I believe the relief I felt led to the massive morning woody I woke up with this morning. I did my first stretching and jelqing
yesterday. I put her hand on it and said see this is what these exercises will produce. A morning hard on like I used to have.

Thanks for all your supportive comments. I love my wife. I am truly blessed.

[JFPowertop Senior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close JFPowertop]

That is one of the nicest stories, thank you for sharing it with all of us!
It sounds like this has opened up a new world for both of you.

[Alpha Q Harter Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alpha Q Harter]

Your wife didn't know you masterbate? Every woman knows it's only human nature and healthy! Heck, my ex even knew I masterbated to her sister. LOL

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Um..... I think very few women know that their husbands masturbate. It is one of the myths of marriage that a wife can satisfy all the sexual needs of her husband, forever and for always. And, I believe, most men go out of their way to hide it when they masturbate. (I am not talking here about shared masturbation that might be part of a couple's sex life -- rather I mean the solo kind).

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I thought he said he didn't think his wife knew he masturbated. She knew, just didn't talk about it. My mom figured my dad masturbated but they didn't talk about it.

It is good your wife saw Dr Drew. That helped I'm sure.

I could see how it could be shocking and upsetting for a woman to hear about doing these things. It could scare them.

[Shortdog Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Shortdog]

Just make sure she knows its healthy and is not "masturbation" even though its healthy too. Then slide in with the benefits for her sexually!!

You will be fine! Men have been doing it for thousands of years!!!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

sounds like a win win for you and your wife!

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Grats for you
I tell my GF to do kegels and she attacks me

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

Men have been doing it for thousands of years!!!

LOL Since the beginning of time they have been masturbating!!!