Do girls like to be done after their orgasm??

[Fitetoend Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fitetoend]

Hey everyone:

So last night me and my girl messed around a little, and I got her on the table and ate her out and eventually gave her a violent, powerful orgasm, (the whole table shook). Right after she was giggling and said she needs a break after that, after a few minutes I started fucking her and she had another smaller orgasm. After a few minutes she started to suck me and then I fucked her and this time after a few minutes I came and was done, with no orgasm for her. When all was done I asked how it was, and she said it was soooo good and that she is going to etch it in her "history book". Got me to think. After a real good, powerful orgasm do women not want to do anything? If a woman has a really good orgasm does she want it to end on that note? Afterwards I thought, "maybe i should have ended it on that positive note for her, where the last thing she thinks of was that orgasm, not the sex we had where she didnt have one."

In other words is it ok to give a woman a really good orgasm and then after have sex with her for your own orgasm, even if she doesnt have another one? or once a woman is done she wants to end the night on that note? Do any other guys think my way?

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Maybe this should of been in the womans forum, Also it depends on the woman, why don't you ask your girlfriend. My current girlfriend can have 5-10 big orgasms with short breaks in between and keep going, most of the time I end it when im done and shes more than satisfied, as am I.

[MurphKitty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MurphKitty]

I believe that girls don't always need an orgasm to be satisfied so the fact that you gave her such a powerful one has already done wonders for you. As far as the sex goes which is in your mind more for your pleasure and your chance to orgasm, she will still love that. In my experience a woman loves returning the favor and it should feel pretty darn good regardless if she orgasms again or not. Just make sure to fully involve her in your orgasm, compliment her, tell her it was great and hold her afterwards in appreciation. That will be all the positive ending she will need... congrats on driving your lady wild.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Often after I've had a big orgasm, I really don't want another, I just want to linger and enjoy the glow from the first one. It's not that I don't want more sex -- the process can be great fun and feel wonderful -- but another orgasm (for me) is just not necessary or desirable. I just feel too good to want to work for another. Partly that's because the effort of trying to achieve another one usually requires pushing off the afterglow from the first one.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Often after I've had a big orgasm, I really don't want another, I just want to linger and enjoy the glow from the first one. It's not that I don't want more sex -- the process can be great fun and feel wonderful -- but another orgasm (for me) is just not necessary or desirable. I just feel too good to want to work for another. Partly that's because the effort of trying to achieve another one usually requires pushing off the afterglow from the first one.

Yeah, us poor men have to work so hard

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I'll just take a bowl of ice cream and sprinkles.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

This morning, I performed oral on my wife of 40 years and brought her to several orgasms. I followed this up with traditional (missionary) sex and brought her to several more orgasms. Some days when she is not totally in the mood, orgasm is not necessary and she is perfectly satisfied with giving me an orgasm. It all depends on what movers her spirit at the time. However, she did say that she totally enjoyed this mornings activities.

[The Holy Intruder Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close The Holy Intruder]

I don't mean to sound like an insensitive prick, but I am, so that's how it comes out.

I don't really care if she wants to come again. I will do everything short of move mountains to make sure she comes at least once. I think it's only fair. If I give a girl twelve orgasms before I have mine and she only wanted one, well, too fuckin bad, baby. :P

I wouldn't worry too much about it, bro. You did your job. You're a stud. That's just my opinion, but it's probably hers, too.

[Fitetoend Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fitetoend]

Hey thanks ladies and fellas. So the impression Im getting is mixed. Some women wouldnt mind going for more and some dont want it. The way I primarily saw it was that I wish I didnt go at it for my own orgasm after hers. I mean I wish I let that strong orgasm be the last thing that happened last night so that this morning when she looked back at it thats what she would think of rather than the orgasmless sex afterwards. But its really really good to hear that it was already a positive that I gave her an orgasm. I thought that is a must or a requirment otherwise the sex wasnt enjoyable to the girl.

[OMG! Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OMG!]

I keep going until she says stop. I think one orgasm is satisfactory, subsequent orgasms are just bonuses. My wife usually has one very powerful orgasm, followed by (not quite as powerful) "bonus" orgasms until she is too sensitive to enjoy any more. Four or five is typical. Sometimes it seems like she is so pleased she is practically levitating.

[Fitetoend Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fitetoend]

Hey OMG sounds like you got it down, haha. If I can go for more than a few minutes then I can normally make her cum about 3 times. Its just that I thought maybe I should have let that powerful orgasm be the last one she got, instead of clouding her mind with the less than impressive sex we had after, haha.

[Fitetoend Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fitetoend]

So one more question while were on topic here. Do girls enjoy the sex, be it oral or penetrative even if they dont orgasm at all?? Lets say you go down on a woman and then you have sex with her and then you cum, but she doesnt orgasm. Is it still possible that she truly enjoyed the sex and found it pleasurable? Or is sex to a woman unenjoyable and unsatisfying if there is no orgasm?

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Guys want to be done after their orgasm. Girls want to be held and whispered sweet things in their ear--well at least most girls do.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

I always hold, whisper and kiss. :P

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