Don't feel like sex

[psychedelic_behavior Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close psychedelic_behavior]

Hey guys, i was essentially in a relationship for the last 6 months. I won't go into too many details, She ended up sleeping with another guy, and i tried to hold onto her after that even though she started sleeping with another guy, and even rung me up to rub it in my face halfway through them doing it. Or so it sounded like anyway.

Bottom line, I've had opportunities to sleep with other girls, but i haven't even felt like it. I just want to be horny again and forget about her completely, any tips?

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Time.

[psychedelic_behavior Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close psychedelic_behavior]

Thanks, i'm hoping time would do it. But anything that will speed that time up, would be great

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Anything that will get your mind off it, hobbies you like, friends, movies, books..
If you had opportunities to sleep with other girls, have the same opportunites to date one or do you not want to start dating again so soon?

[Irishfan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Irishfan]

Trust me she did you a favor. How long do you want to spend with a whore you can't trust? Be happy that you learned this in six months and not six years. Go to a titty bar if that does not work go to the Dr. And your testosterone checked. A man should always want to get laid. The same thing happened to me 16 years ago. Only it was a four year relationship. I thought the world was going to end and I wanted to end it. Now I can happily say she did me a favor. I have the best wife a man could ever have.

[tatti87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tatti87]

While Steve is very right, you can share your feelings with your good friends and family. Get rid of any stuff of that bitch you are having. Burn it, throw in the bin.
If she dumped you because of her craving of sex, then i guess its a great loss for her. She will soon end up jumping to a new one and some day in life she will realize what a big whore she is.
Pardon my language but she is not with you anymore and we are friends, right.
Another thing: Have dignity, its good you didnt slept with other girls just like that. Someone just dumped you doesnt means that other girls will have easy chance on you.
Things should only go the way you like.

Avoid alcohol and drugs

[psychedelic_behavior Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close psychedelic_behavior]

@Steve23 I don't really mind either way if i am in a relationship or not. I'm sure at the moment though unless the right girl comes up i'm not going to go into any relationship. I've been trying to socialize as much as possible. It's not always possible 24/7 for me to be with someone and it's annoying when i can't be haha.

Thanks for the tips.

@Irishfan, yeah I'm starting to see that she did do me a favor, it was good that i only knew her for six months. I do want to get laid but i'm not all that horny at the moment.

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@HAhaha that's so funny you say burn it, because i'm about to burn this letter she wrote me. I'm not going to call her a bitch or anything though, it won't help me recover any faster. I have no idea why it ended, she told me it's because i was an arsehole to her, which is partly true, but it's always been in a jokey way. I never mean the things i say to her if i called her a bitch or whatever. I think she just wanted a guy that would text her every morning and call her beautiful, gorgeous, because she's only just turning 18 so she's naive enough to be into all that stuff. Well I had a higher sex drive than her anyway, my sex drive has always been sky high. I'm avoiding alcohol and drugs too. Great advice, thanks

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Wow. More and more I think avoiding women is the best answer.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

You'll find a nice girl, amiok, and you'll say "how did I live before without you??" And have hearts for eyes

[psychedelic_behavior Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close psychedelic_behavior]

I have no expectations in any girls anymore haha. I just expect them to do everything and anything now

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

You'll find a nice girl, amiok, and you'll say "how did I live before without you??" And have hearts for eyes

Haha very possible Steve. It's just how much crap will I have to go through to get there? That is the scary question. Until I find that girl I am putting myself in line to get used some more, cheated on, and not accepted pretty much. Scary man haha

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

I have no expectations in any girls anymore haha. I just expect them to do everything and anything now

Probably for the best.