Need help!!

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I will try and keep this as short as possible.

Basically known this girl a few months met her through some mates, first time I met her we kissed (we were in a club and both drunk). Second time we met we kissed again we had been drinking but not a lot. Next time we met she invited me and a couple of my friends (who introduced me to her) to hers for pre drinks before going clubbing also she had a couple of her friends over who I had already met and get along well with. We all went clubbing and ended up at my mates house as his mum and dad were away for the weekend and kissed her again and fingered her. Didnt see her for a couple of weeks after that but was still talking to her and texting her. Then me and my mates went to her house party and this boy turned up who her friend told me she had been seeing for a week, a couple of days later they became boyfriend and girlfriend. Now they have been together 2 weeks and she invited me and my mate to hers for pre drinks on saturday night before going out (she also had a friend there who likes my mate). The 4 of us went out and about halfway through the night I bought her a drink, she hugged me to say thank you and then I went to give her a friendly kiss on the cheek but as I did she moved her lips in front of mine, I pulled away as she has a boyfriend. She had been giving me signals all night that she likes me but I thought maybe I was reading them wrong (as she has a boyfriend).

What should I do !?

P.s. I do like this girl a lot and her mates think her boyfriend is a t**t and they wont be together much longer.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Okay she's got a boyfriend and she's smooching with you. Do you think if you became her boyfriend she wouldn't be doing the same with another guy? Think about it!

[TheSnitch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TheSnitch]

and fingered her.

For some reason, I can't stand that phrase.


As to your question: She sounds wildly unaware of what she wants, or who she wants for that matter. Go for it, it's the wrong decision, but you sound young - you'll bounce back when she ends up doing the same thing to you, she is doing to this guy.

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Okay she's got a boyfriend and she's smooching with you. Do you think if you became her boyfriend she wouldn't be doing the same with another guy? Think about it!

Well she tried to and I pulled away all of the other stuff happened before she had this boyfriend.

[Sonic Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sonic]

For some reason, I can't stand that phrase.


As to your question: She sounds wildly unaware of what she wants, or who she wants for that matter. Go for it, it's the wrong decision, but you sound young - you'll bounce back when she ends up doing the same thing to you, she is doing to this guy.

Haha I dont like it either was just the most simple way of putting it. And yeah im only 18 so am still young and dont want a relationship with her more of a friends with benefits type thing.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Go get one that you can count on. Are you ugly? Do you have pimples? There are a lot of fish in the sea. Go get one you can trus tor you can try with this one, get burned, and then get another. Snitch was right. You sound young so if you're going to fuck up do it now.

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Go get one that you can count on. Are you ugly? Do you have pimples? There are a lot of fish in the sea. Go get one you can trus tor you can try with this one, get burned, and then get another. Snitch was right. You sound young so if you're going to fuck up do it now.

Haha Cusp no im not ugly and im not looking for a serious relationship as I have just come out of one.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

She doesn't sound much better then her supposed "t**t" boyfriend. You know she is taken and you are still sticking parts of your body in her. You are just as wrong as she is in this situation. If you pursue this you will get burned, the fact you are posting here asking for advise makes me think you won't be able to handle the burn when it comes your way.. I suggest you be the first to say no to her and move on....girls who become slutty when they drink are trouble.

[TheSnitch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TheSnitch]

You know she is taken and you are still sticking parts of your body in her. You are just as wrong as she is in this situation.

In his defense, that was before she became someone's girlfriend.

girls who become slutty when they drink are trouble

This is very true Sonic - not just because it's hard to trust them, but it shows a deep seeded repression; they most likely don't know themselves and are unable to trust what they will and won't do. Trouble is right.

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You know she is taken and you are still sticking parts of your body in her.

She was single when I done stuff with her! As I said she has only been with this boy a couple of weeks and she tried to kiss me and I pulled away as she is taken. So how does that make me bad??

[needhelp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close needhelp]

Someone call me? Oh nvm, thread title.

[needhelp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close needhelp]

But do what you wanna do man.

[Sonic Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sonic]

In his defense, that was before she became someone's girlfriend.

Thanks Snitch

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

ok i re read.
you pulled away .
but you are still considering her despite the fact she has a boyfriend?

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ok i re read.
you pulled away .
but you are still considering her despite the fact she has a boyfriend?

I like her as a friend. Should I tell him and risk our friendship?? Or should I just ignore it and hope it doesnt happen again??