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Also, the best time for flowers is after the relationship has fully recovered and kicked off with a sexual "bang", so to speak. This is worth considering later, after the healing's all done.
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"If you want a log you need to keep a log." - Tinkerbell
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Exactly.......only buy her flowers after a couple more planned finger bangingsOriginally posted by CaptainJohnson View PostMarch 2012
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So I done some research on this girl by asking some people she knows about her (mainly boys though). They mostly said she's easy to flirt with and get close to and two called a slut. Should I be worried or fuck what they say and continue with my plan? She phoned me last night before I slept but I couldn't pick up because I was dropping the mother of all logs in the toilet and my phone was in my room. Then she came to see me today in the morning and said something like "you didn't pick up your phone, anyways just passing through so thought I'd check up on you and see if you were free anytime soon".
My friends said try the IDGAF about you approach, others side try to not be around her too much and that way she will want you more and some moron said to be the JERK. Which one of the first two is good? I think the second one (not being around her too much).
I'm also thinking of asking her to go watch Titanic in 3D with me, is that too corny?Comment
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Don't go on what anyone else says. What do you think of her? Apparently you like her. You definitely fucked up by telling your "buddy" about the handjob and then to tell him to lie doesn't show you in a good light in my book. At 16, she reacted the way I would, but I wouldn't give you a second thought. She must like you, so go slow, don't be a jerk, or use the IDGAF attitude. You might not get another chance.
Just be yourself and if you want to take her to see the movie, then ask her. Not corny
Good luck!
Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
If you want love, give love.
If you want honesty, give honesty.
If you want respect, give respect.
You get in return, what you give.
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So I went to her house today and she showed me how she was texting one of her friends how she wants me to be her first
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We have a winner...Originally posted by DarkKnight View PostSo I went to her house today and she showed me how she was texting one of her friends how she wants me to be her first"If you want a log you need to keep a log." - Tinkerbell
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OK, your first problem is that you're dealing with a girl who's 17.........I have a teenage daughter and everything is "drama". That being said, she isn't going to listen to you because A. She's 17, B. She's 17 and C. She's 17. At that age, girls don't have the ability to think "hey, I've known this guy for alot longer than you, why should I believe a word you're telling me??" or, at the very least, confront you directly BEFORE blowing a gasket and giving you all the stuff you gave her back to you without even allowing you to explain yourself.
My advice, the two of them deserve one another and they both need to grow up. I'd walk away as hard as that may seem and move on. If she isn't willing to even LISTEN to you, what does that say about her? Oh yeah, SHE'S 17!!It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)Comment
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Ya know since you have told her how you feel and you were sincere go away and stay away untill she calls you. You are kind of setting you self up to be at her beck and call, she could play you like a fiddle and you are setting it up. I dont mean to be a jack bag but you have called her, you have gone to her house and appologized and said you like her. Now if you get out of sight for a few days and she wants to see you she will find away, as long as you throw yourself at her she will let you.Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than beforeComment
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There is something that is bugging me a lot. So we fixed everything I said I like her she said the same back. But now she doesn't talk nearly as much as she used to! I showed very little interest in her at first, she would always have to start the conversations etc (with her talking the most and me talking little). But now I said I like her it's the other way around
Now I'm doing most of the talking. Is she playing around with me?
My friend (whose had a lot of experience with girls) said "she probably likes you because you showed little interest in her. When a guy does that to a girl she starts to get insecure and think why doesn't this guy like me therefore she gets attracted to him more. That means she does the chasing". It sounds so true because the same applies to boys when girls show little interest to them.
She said she likes me because I don't use words like babe, sexy etc and said I'm not bad to look at either. But now that I am showing more interest in her it seems her interest in me is dying down. Did she only like me because I showed little interest in her? I don't want to get hurt by another girl again. I can't just ask her obviously she will say the things I want to here ("of course I like you") so I'm asking advice from my fellow dick growers. What's going on in her mind, or am I thinking too much of it?Comment
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You've won her back, so start being "the sexy man" instead of "the caring man". The difference? Instead of flowers and a card, it is now time to up the ante with your physical behaviour and verbal language. Don't over-compliment, or your compliments will become stale. When you do compliment her, keep them somewhat unique but sexy. How many guys comment on a girl's waist? Not many. They love waists, but it is never complimented... or hips. Tell her, "I love your hips, they really turn me on." as you grab them or something. Whisper it in her ear, before you walk off.Originally posted by DarkKnight View PostThere is something that is bugging me a lot. So we fixed everything I said I like her she said the same back. But now she doesn't talk nearly as much as she used to! I showed very little interest in her at first, she would always have to start the conversations etc (with her talking the most and me talking little). But now I said I like her it's the other way around Now I'm doing most of the talking. Is she playing around with me?
My friend (whose had a lot of experience with girls) said "she probably likes you because you showed little interest in her. When a guy does that to a girl she starts to get insecure and think why doesn't this guy like me therefore she gets attracted to him more. That means she does the chasing". It sounds so true because the same applies to boys when girls show little interest to them.
She said she likes me because I don't use words like babe, sexy etc and said I'm not bad to look at either. But now that I am showing more interest in her it seems her interest in me is dying down. Did she only like me because I showed little interest in her? I don't want to get hurt by another girl again. I can't just ask her obviously she will say the things I want to here ("of course I like you") so I'm asking advice from my fellow dick growers. What's going on in her mind, or am I thinking too much of it?
When you are with her, take charge! Make decisions on what you guys do/eat/enjoy. Instead of asking, "Hey (insert name) do you like this?" Be more direct: "Try this. You'll like it." Don't get me wrong, I value my woman's opinion, but if I were a pushover who only asked for her opinion, where would by my worth as an individual? A guy needs to show he has opinions, and he needs to be the one who takes her hand and leads her through this fantasy-land called a relationship.
When you say you don't call her babe or sexy, I assume you mean as nicknames. You still use 'sexy' as an adjective, right? It is such a great word, and being able to express how you feel about someone sexually is incredibly important for relationships.Last edited by CaptainJohnson; 04-09-2012, 12:07 PM."If you want a log you need to keep a log." - Tinkerbell
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Soooooo we're both trying to get to know each other a bit more and I kind of ran into a wall. When we got to speaking about her ex boyfriends and stuff and I found out she was abused once by her second boyfriend. We spoke about how we want a serious relationship. So anyway she had a song on repeat for like 3 hours (Carly Rae Jepsen - Call Me Maybe) and I was like who do you think of when you listen to that song. Since we're not officially a couple I thought I'd find out. I told her who I thought about when I listened to it and then when I asked her she started to blush and say you can't ask me that while then laughed.
Now I don't have an issue if she finds someone else attractive even if we get into a relationship. It's human nature and there's nothing wrong with it. But I do have a problem if we become a couple but she likes someone else better than me. Why you with me if you like him more right? Should I just forget about this and carry on making my move? Or should I just stay as friends just in case?Comment
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My advice is, don't worry about it. Her own psychological association with such-and-such song is her own business. If she doesn't want to tell you, that's fine. Just know that if she chooses to be with you, that is her own choice. You don't have to know the reasons behind it. It's nice if she tells you, but she's not obligated to.
She may even be more attracted to other people. That is fine, too. When that happens, she has a choice to make. Be thankful for the time she does spend with you. Most relationships don't last until death, take it as that; you two will most likely break up eventually, and this is a normal, healthy outcome.Starting (3/14/2011) = 5" x 4"
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Thanks Qarzan that's the most real thing I've read. It upsets me because I would love to be "the one" for her because she's awesome but I guess if in the long run it doesn't work out its tough times for me and best of luck to her in the future.Originally posted by Qarzan View PostComment
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