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  • she's a bombshell, into me but i'm not satisfied with my gains yet. serious dilemmas

    hey guys. figured this is the right place to post crap like this.
    i've been off any kind of relationships for the past 2 years now. haven't been laid for that duration either. this is mostly due to being unsatisfied and somewhat embarrassed at the size of my dick.
    let's face it. all the talk about it's not the size but how you use is is only half true. size does matter - which is why we are all here.
    i've avoided contact with so many girls because i know i'm on the small side of the scale. i would rather save the embarrassment than score a one nighter. i suppose fear of the world being a small place (mind the pun) is also a factor.

    anyway, i've been put in a position now where i seriously need to make my mind up with a girl at work. she is hot like what. most certainly batting well above my average and what makes this more fucked up is that she was the one who made the first move. i've known her for a little over a year now. we never used to hang out much outside of work. i knew she was in a shit relationship with her now ex, so we've been spending time more than before.

    i am friends with her best mate, been told by her to hurry up and take her out. i want to as i really like her and i know she is sitting around waiting. but not only do i lack the confidence at this stage as i am so far off my goals in pe gains, in a sober conversation we were having at work with some of the others there is that her ex had a big dick.

    fucking great work, mate. he cut my grass before i was even got to work on this lady.

    really don't want to be that joke. she's not the kind of girl to go off and tell the whole world but i really don't want to be in an environment where i'm that little dick bastard. (keep in mind i work with 7 females and only other guy is the boss)


    i'd like to hear frank and honest comments from you guys if you have any experience in a similar situation, or heard of, or even just a subjective remark. i'm not here to ask for a self esteem boost. so please save those for another occasion. honesty is what i am after here.

    big thanks in advance for any help.
    just get it

  • #2
    Just go out with her and if it comes to sex all you can do is be honest about how nervous you are. There is no reason the think that the first date will contain sexy.

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    • #3
      Whats your size? Women generally do care about size, but usually not enough to really effect a relationship. You should get with her! It would be stupid not to. Eventually, you will make gains and when you do she will be there if your dating her. If you don't go for her, you will just sit to yourself and hate that you didn't. Gains will come!
      Arousal Techniques-Techniques to overcome Pre-E.

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      • #4
        If she's on a rebound from her past relationship, even if her ex was a shit, she may not be ready for another steady relationship for a while. Don't get sprung until you know she is in a settled mental state, otherwise you could get hurt and that, with your current mental state, is not a good thing to have happen to you. It would further undermine your confidence. Try to find out if you "like" each other before you try to bed her down.

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        • #5
          Ok. You're telling me that this girls that's really hot and seemingly cool asked YOU out, and yet you won't do it??? Ok here's my advice: if this girl is cool, nice, and looking for a real relationship then DO IT!!!!!! You'd be absolutely crazy not to. But, if she's immature, rude, and looking for a rebound then STAY THE HELL AWAY!!!!! If she's a real and sensible woman then she will not care about the size of your dick and certainly won't make fun of it or anything. But if she's immature, then she's not the kind of girl you want in the first place. That's my two cents.
          PEGym Theme Song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RH76tfDxm7Y

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          • #7
            Originally posted by TINKERBELL View Post
            Don't shit where you eat.
            Hahaha that's very true
            PEGym Theme Song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RH76tfDxm7Y

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            • #8
              Dude, my penis is below average in size: 5.625" x 4.25". This doesn't stop me at all, and no woman has refused to have sex with me because of my small size. In addition, I've received no comments about its size; it really is about how you move.

              I'm a belly dancer, and can do snake hips and body rolls like nobody else. This gets them hot even before they get all my clothes off.

              Learn body control and how to move, and you'll be golden.
              Starting (3/14/2011) = 5" x 4"
              Current (7/16/2013) = 5.75" x 4.125"

              Short-Term Goal = BPEL 6"
              Long-Term Goal = 7.5" x 5.5"

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              • #9
                If this girl already likes you, then she likes you for YOU. NOT for your penis size.
                Don't give up!
                My Progress Log

                Make money while you PE!

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                • #10
                  I personally would not go out with her. Everyone knows she'll tell her friends regardless. If you didn't care about being smaller then it wouldn't matter. Seeing as size is a big issue for you my advice is protect yourself, this is where you work and if things go wrong the only way to get away from it is to change jobs

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                  • #11
                    Quarzan your penis is actually well WITHIN average.

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                    • #12
                      Wtf dude. Just go out with her. Girls only stay interested for a short time. If you do not show her that you are a man of action, she'll lose interest.
                      How did I get here?

                      Well I was looking for Pygmy.com (I gotta thing for small people, so what), and ended up here.
                      And I've been here ever since.

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                      • #13
                        Maybe she's on her computer writing on a forum about there's a guy she likes but shes worried her vagina is too loose and should she wait till she's better with her kegels, wait no I doubt it. Just go for it and stop worrying about useless size matters crap. Stop thinking that all women are crap and will make or break a relationship based on size.

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                        • #14
                          increase your counting man.
                          size matters but for very few and if she likes you , size has not very significant role. she likes you....
                          narcolaptic
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                          Last edited by narcolaptic; 04-19-2012, 01:09 PM.
                          Date-BPEL-EG(mm)
                          1/12-154/116
                          4/13-167/116
                          9/13-170/118
                          Goal-174/120
                          ejaculate is liquid form of emotion!

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                          • #15
                            Originally posted by Steve23 View Post
                            Maybe she's on her computer writing on a forum about there's a guy she likes but shes worried her vagina is too loose and should she wait till she's better with her kegels, wait no I doubt it. Just go for it and stop worrying about useless size matters crap. Stop thinking that all women are crap and will make or break a relationship based on size.
                            VEgym.com? (Vagina Exercises)

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