just venting I guess (I already know its dumb)

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

That's hardcore SLU.

I wasn't trying to be mean about it. Vettez mentioned him in the post above so that's the only reason I brought the other guy up.

Vettez, I do hope you and your wife the best, no matter what road you two go down. My only hope is at the end of that road, you two are still holding hands

[hooksvsbird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hooksvsbird]

I would but hes too far away and not into it. He is a christian and feels bad about what happened already. I told him I was up for it.

Holy crap you actually talked to the guy? Man you are a better man than me. I would want to kick his ass probably. I will say this, you are handling this thing pretty damn well IMO.

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

Holy crap you actually talked to the guy? Man you are a better man than me. I would want to kick his ass probably. I will say this, you are handling this thing pretty damn well IMO.

yeah you cannot project your feelings onto another human being. Each of us are different and react differently to situations.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

lol not into jealousy! I was never a jealous man in my life and let my wife do anything she wanted go anywhere she wanted with anyone she wanted. She always had good judgement and I always trusted her. I cant imagine going through life jealous although I think I recieved a taste of what it would feel like.

[hooksvsbird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hooksvsbird]

lol not into jealousy! I was never a jealous man in my life and let my wife do anything she wanted go anywhere she wanted with anyone she wanted. She always had good judgement and I always trusted her. I cant imagine going through life jealous although I think I recieved a taste of what it would feel like.

I am pretty much the same. I don't care if guys hit on my girl. Hell if they aren't then I have something to worry about. If a guy asks her to dance no big deal cause I know she is going home with me.

It is just for me personally what he did would go beyond my boundaries and tolerance level. The fact that you could talk to him is impressive.

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

I am pretty much the same. I don't care if guys hit on my girl. Hell if they aren't then I have something to worry about. If a guy asks her to dance no big deal cause I know she is going home with me.

It is just for me personally what he did would go beyond my boundaries and tolerance level. The fact that you could talk to him is impressive.

My wife gets hit on nearly every time we go out by both sexes. I've gotten use to it but it use to bother me.... Well, except for the famale/female flirting.. haha.

I'll agree I wouldn't handle cheating very well and would not make contact with him except for with my fist. I would leave her and be be mad enough to have sex with her close friends or even one of her adult daughters. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, just stating facts.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

I did threaten to kick his ass it wasnt all roses and birds chirping! He threatened to call the police and I came to my senses. No need going to jail over something dumb when I have a responsibility to my family & kids.

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

I did threaten to kick his ass it wasnt all roses and birds chirping! He threatened to call the police and I came to my senses. No need going to jail over something dumb when I have a responsibility to my family & kids.

More grown up approach for sure. I envy your ability to let things slide.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

Easy to do when there is 300 miles between us! I woulda kicked his ass just to feel better and still tried to talk it out after lol

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I always wondered if a wife cheats on her husband why would we beat up the guy? I mean it was she who cheated. Why not beat her up and leave the guy alone? Oh he knew it was somebodies wife but married folks just aren't supposed to just hop in bed with people, well not without permission of course.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

lol it doesnt make sense does it. Bad thing is I have been on his end of the deal when I was younger and never gave it any thought. new perspective sure does change things. I do feel bad about some of the things I did when I was younger now and deserved my own ass kicked. I really cant blame the guy.
Aside from pissing me off some my entire life and marriage benifitted from it in so many ways.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I would have beaten the guy up if he rejected mine!

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

lol!

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

I would have beaten the guy up if he rejected mine!

LMAO.. Refreshing outlook.

[hooksvsbird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hooksvsbird]

I always wondered if a wife cheats on her husband why would we beat up the guy? I mean it was she who cheated. Why not beat her up and leave the guy alone? Oh he knew it was somebodies wife but married folks just aren't supposed to just hop in bed with people, well not without permission of course.

Why well cause the guy knew she was married. Personally if I see a ring I will leave a woman alone. There are plenty of single girls that there never is a need to cross that boundary.

I did it too when I was younger but the first time I slept with her I didn't know. Then she made up some bs about an open relationship which I have no idea if it was true or not.