Men do you like this?

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

1). When women wear flat sandles. The type that show most of her foot. No bling (fake stones) assuming she has nice feet and toes? Not flip flops.

2). Color toe nail polish over clear or neutral color?

3). Pony tails

4). Big Purse or small over the chest/shoulder tiny phone holder

5). When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat"

6). Doesn't tell you what she knows how to do unless it comes up (fix certain things on a car, plumbing, AC, guy stuff)?

7). Doesn't give you her day by day schedule unless you ask?

8). Medical history that has no baring on current life ?

9). Doesn't disclose things about her family unless asked. When asked on a need to know basis until such time you are a committed couple?

10). Doesn't share financial things only that she provides for her needs?

I have so many questions. But basically how can a man expect or want to "know everything about you". Is that just a line or is he really hoping you start from your ancestors and move forward to current time.

I do have a history of being very close to the hip with info. I can talk with you for five hours and you will go away with nothing really personal. I'm a conversationalist not an upchucker lol

Thank you

[jdavid1990 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close jdavid1990]

All i can say is bits at a time. An let a man fall for you first, make him interested before pelting him with info bullets.

[jdavid1990 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close jdavid1990]

If you talked to me for 5 hours and there was no purpose i couldnt handle it..

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

1). When women wear flat sandles. The type that show most of her foot. No bling (fake stones) assuming she has nice feet and toes? Not flip flops. That is fine, but I feel that it can accentuate or draw attention to large feet, which I don't really like on a woman

2). Color toe nail polish over clear or neutral color? Doesn't matter

3). Pony tails One pony tail is fine, pig tails (dual pony tails) are awful

4). Big Purse or small over the chest/shoulder tiny phone holder depends on the occasion, I realise that women use large bags everyday and small ones going out for practical reasons, it doesn't really matter

5). When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat" I generally like paying, or at least paying half, but so long as it isn't expensive being bought something every now and again is ok. I do realise that this point of view is quite old-fashioned

6). Doesn't tell you what she knows how to do unless it comes up (fix certain things on a car, plumbing, AC, guy stuff) I don't really get the question

7). Doesn't give you her day by day schedule unless you ask? I obviously don't need to know her day by day schedule and wouldn't make an issue out of not knowing it, but I like to know if anything big or interesting is coming up, however in a healthy relationship this would presumably be mentioned in conversation at some point

8). Medical history that has no baring on current life? I presume it would come up in conversation at some point, but it depends on how long you have been together as over time you expect to know about your partner's past etc. but no, unless it was something really serious, it wouldn't bother me so long as it didn't look like it was "hidden"

9). Doesn't disclose things about her family unless asked. When asked on a need to know basis until such time you are a committed couple? That is fine, up until you become a committed couple, but as a couple you do expect to get to know the family etc.

10). Doesn't share financial things only that she provides for her needs? Only paying for herself? that is fine, so long as you don't live together, then a contribution to bills etc. might be expected (depends on the financial situations of those in the couple of course)

I have so many questions. But basically how can a man expect or want to "know everything about you". Is that just a line or is he really hoping you start from your ancestors and move forward to current time.

I do have a history of being very close to the hip with info. I can talk with you for five hours and you will go away with nothing really personal. I'm a conversationalist not an upchucker lol

Thank you

answers in bold above

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

1). When women wear flat sandles. The type that show most of her foot. No bling (fake stones) assuming she has nice feet and toes? Not flip flops. Dont Care

2). Color toe nail polish over clear or neutral color? Don't care

3). Pony tails Don't care

4). Big Purse or small over the chest/shoulder tiny phone holder Don't care about a big purse, over the shoulder phone holder might be weird I've never heard of that before

5). When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat" Awesome!

6). Doesn't tell you what she knows how to do unless it comes up (fix certain things on a car, plumbing, AC, guy stuff)? Don't care

7). Doesn't give you her day by day schedule unless you ask? don't care

8). Medical history that has no baring on current life ? Don't care

9). Doesn't disclose things about her family unless asked. When asked on a need to know basis until such time you are a committed couple? Don't care

10). Doesn't share financial things only that she provides for her needs? Don't care

I have so many questions. But basically how can a man expect or want to "know everything about you". Is that just a line or is he really hoping you start from your ancestors and move forward to current time.

I do have a history of being very close to the hip with info. I can talk with you for five hours and you will go away with nothing really personal. I'm a conversationalist not an upchucker lol

Thank you

Answers in bold also! Hope I did this right, for everything that is don't care you should read: "Makes no bearing on how I will perceive the girl" if I like the girl then that won't affect how much I like her and if I dislike her it won't make me like or dislike her more

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Don't
Care

Answer in bold!



Edit: When I think of those sandles, pony tails and a phone holder I think of a tourist or real estate agent.
Edit no. 2: Especially if those sandles and/or phone holder is brown leather.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Thank you guys! It's funny because so many worry about this or that but I think most men don't care. I'm not a girly girl type. No fake bling in my hair fake jewelry or studs on my clothes. Etc. I'm casual but feminine. Never white accessories. Never!

Steve can you adjust your font? I know for you to see it you need it large but most of us are ok with font 12 Plus that's bullshit. My red mouth avatar bothers you so how can none of that shit on my list bother you lmao. Don't reply I can't sleep as it is lol
Shoot almost all my stuff is brown or black leather. Wow you really RED me. I'm blushing RED.

To the second poster: what I mean is that you can have great convo without spilling your private thoughts or life. If I'm asked I'll answer it my way. I realize that can offend but I'm a warm person and most just accept I'm guarded in the beginning.

Paddy. I was raised with brothers. I can build a car, race a car, fix a lawn mower, etc I followed them every where and learned everything they did lol. I don't tell guys I know this stuff I just wait for the time when it may come up. I guess at my age now I find it a bit embarrassing lol

Most Latins don't like sandles. That's who I date. I still wear them

Purse question: YES there are iPhone little purse thingy's. Super cute on a long strap. Holds ur phone I'd etc. no fanny bag!!

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

Paddy. I was raised with brothers. I can build a car, race a car, fix a lawn mower, etc I followed them every where and learned everything they did lol. I don't tell guys I know this stuff I just wait for the time when it may come up. I guess at my age now I find it a bit embarrassing lol

I know some guys that would think that's weird because they don't know how to do shit themselves and they'd probably be intimidated by a girl that has more knowledge about that kind of thing than them, but where I'm from it is a huge plus if a girl can take care of her shit. Big plus!

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Size matters when it comes to fonts.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

You are the King of the one liners!
Luv it

[Gspot Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gspot]

5). When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat"

The only one I was not struggling to read without getting distracted by the possibility of a better thread. As for paying, hell yeah, you better pay from time to time you wino! You downed an entire bottle in 10 mins! Most women have no idea where they want to go or what they want to do, and they will not tell a man when they do know because he is supposed to already know what she wants, even if she does not yet know herself that is what she really wants, just like the romance novel says her prince chaming will. Otherwise, she will date someone else. So for the first part, God yes! Thank you for saying that is what you want. I still might say no

For the rest, Steve23 said it best. What men care about is largely lost on you, I believe, which makes you a normal woman (in this regard that is; you seem terribly strange in other respects). Or you are just frustrated about a man you have been seeing and his proclaimation of wanting to know all about you? Generally, we care that you make an effort to look nice for us, smile at us and pay attention to us, and are very into us sexually. We want to know what makes you tick emotionally, mentally, sexually, and about little things that make you happy. The knowing everything about you is an admission of deep interest in you, a realtionship with you, and thus intimacy and at somepoint, loooovveee.

Very little can be learned quickly but requires a relationship to unfold naturally. What we really want to know from a woman we really like and wish to continue seeing, is what we can do to make that happen. I want to know if walking in the rain makes you playful or get lost deep in thought. I want to know if italian food makes you horny and brings back memories of your wild college semester in Milan, that you will begin to confuse with our dating and sex life today. And I would like to know if you are wanted for butchering your roomate from Germany while there. This is all vital information. That you carry a coffin purse and usually wear blac toenails, I hardly noticed.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

1). When women wear flat sandles.
I grew up near the beach so Im into sandals dont care much for heels

2). Color toe nail polish over clear or neutral color?
dont know the difference but I like well kept toes

3). Pony tails
love hair down unless there is an activity going on that requires pony tail

4). Big Purse or small over the chest/shoulder tiny phone holder
small

5). When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat"
I usually do not like for the woman to pay unless it is a specific place she picked and the "her treat" is part of it.

6). Doesn't tell you what she knows how to do unless it comes up (fix certain things on a car, plumbing, AC, guy stuff)?
thats the kind of stuff that would come out eventually but shouldnt be disclosed early in a relationship unless its a hobby

7). Doesn't give you her day by day schedule unless you ask?
I dont need it unless we are scheduling a date and then I only need your help coordinating the date not the entire schedule

8). Medical history that has no baring on current life ?
I do not particularly care to hear medical history big turn off.

9). Doesn't disclose things about her family unless asked. When asked on a need to know basis until such time you are a committed couple?
I dont want any history about the family unless I need to know when its time to meet them.

10). Doesn't share financial things only that she provides for her needs?
Dont want to know financials unless we are talking marriage

[jdavid1990 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close jdavid1990]

Thank you guys! It's funny because so many worry about this or that but I think most men don't care. I'm not a girly girl type. No fake bling in my hair fake jewelry or studs on my clothes. Etc. I'm casual but feminine. Never white accessories. Never!

Steve can you adjust your font? I know for you to see it you need it large but most of us are ok with font 12 Plus that's bullshit. My red mouth avatar bothers you so how can none of that shit on my list bother you lmao. Don't reply I can't sleep as it is lol
Shoot almost all my stuff is brown or black leather. Wow you really RED me. I'm blushing RED.

To the second poster: what I mean is that you can have great convo without spilling your private thoughts or life. If I'm asked I'll answer it my way. I realize that can offend but I'm a warm person and most just accept I'm guarded in the beginning.

Paddy. I was raised with brothers. I can build a car, race a car, fix a lawn mower, etc I followed them every where and learned everything they did lol. I don't tell guys I know this stuff I just wait for the time when it may come up. I guess at my age now I find it a bit embarrassing lol

Most Latins don't like sandles. That's who I date. I still wear them

Purse question: YES there are iPhone little purse thingy's. Super cute on a long strap. Holds ur phone I'd etc. no fanny bag!!

Listen, thats great! Very sexy when a woman is cool. My missis is a lawyer and she is an amazing dancer! Also an amazing singer! She can do DIY and stuff... VERY independent and i love it. Very dominating to other people and it takes a special man to be able to handle that. A man that isnt insecure with his masculinity. A man that knows when to lay the law down, a man that dominates the bedroom and does things in his life that are very masculine and dominant like me, i used to play rugby and now i do martial arts and i have sparring matches and friendly fights training for semi professional cage fighting.

A woman like you should not feel down about your excellent qualities its only masculinity insecure men who need to feel needed and too dominate and dont know how with a women of your nature. My missis also has many brothers. She's a good fighter too. Basically if men are intimidated, forget about it! Bide your time and stay single and keep your legs closed because a man will come along who will respect, admire and appreciate that an if you like that kind of thing take you out your comfort zone, dominate you and turn you on more than you would ever imagine

[jdavid1990 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close jdavid1990]

You are the King of the one liners!
Luv it

Yeah... Steve's dry sarcasm is growing on me..

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

When women wear flat sandles.
Doesn't bother me. It's nice if she's my hieght or shorter because women, if they like their guys will unconsciously make themselves smaller. Part of sexual body language, women make themselves smaller when they like you.

Color toe nail polish over clear or neutral color?
I've never really paid attention to toenail varnish one way or the other.

Pony tails
Pony Tail means "relaxed", down means "dressed up." I know it's kind of backwards than the conventional wisdom.

Big Purse or small over the chest/shoulder tiny phone holder

I am one who dislikes big purses... they're all over the place and make a bunch of noise. they're kind of gaudy too, most of the time. Phone holder isn't realistic though. a clutch to a little bit bigger than a clutch is absolutely fine, but if you're carrying around a big ass Portfolio Bag, time to give it a rest. it shows you aren't organized. You need to carry everything with you and you're likely not capable of finding anything quickly.

When the woman wants to go somewhere specific, invites you and pays for it "my treat"

I really like for a woman to offer to pay for it. Shows me she's not in it for a free ride.

Doesn't tell you what she knows how to do.

I prefer someone to let me know they have a moderate interest if not a working knowledge on automotive stuff. If you don't really care about it, it'll be found out later, but knowing that you do have it there is interesting to me. One of my friends has a turbocharger tattooed on her boob. I thought it was the coolest f*cking thing in the world... and I HATE tattoos on women. LMAO! That's a strong word to use and I mean every letter of it.

Doesn't give you her day by day schedule unless you ask?

Yes, i like for her to keep that to herself until I ask. That's my fall back stuff... something like "when i'm out of material" i'll ask about her plans for the day and look in there for something to talk about.

Medical history that has no baring on current life ?

It's up to him to make that call. That said, I wouldn't tell all your medical issues to the guy on your first date. second date where conversation turns from superficial to compatibility is something to be told. Especially if it affects his life as well... your history could be his future.

Doesn't disclose things about her family unless asked.

If he responds fully to your questions about his family, it is unfair to withhold information (aka lie) from him, if he's been completely forthright. if you want a committed couple, you have to give to receive. If you tell the truth and he lies, you can always use that as a reason to write him off.

Doesn't share financial things only that she provides for her needs?

It would worry me a bit if she was secretive. How do I know she's not doing something illegal? If she's that secretive, then she's holding other stuff close to the vest that may end up being a ticking timebomb that could put me in jail or ruin my life. Any vague answers to me breeds distrust.

I have so many questions. But basically how can a man expect or want to "know everything about you". Is that just a line or is he really hoping you start from your ancestors and move forward to current time.

I will agree with G-spot here. He will want to know everything about you, but not all at once. He is just letting you know that he's interested in hearing you talk about yourself. He wants to learn about you, and he wants you to like him. At least that's how I see it.

I do have a history of being very close to the hip with info. I can talk with you for five hours and you will go away with nothing really personal. I'm a conversationalist not an upchucker lol

I would agree. I can talk long about nothing, but for the most part, many things can come up in that time that can reveal a whole hell of a lot about you as a person, and an astute observer will either write you off as untrustworthy, or not interested, or as someone they'd like to continue talking to... he'll spend the rest of the night "in good company" and not call.

Girls tend to forget guys are just as complicated and observant sometimes