My gf says she can only cum on top?!

[Blahman Member Find all posts View Profile Close Blahman]

Hey guys!

One of the main reasons why I'm doing PE is because I want to satisfy my girl like no one else has, all love aside (she is the only one I've been with and she's been with a lot-a lot more). I want to be the best both romantically and sexually, and beyond!

Aside from my PE goals and Pre E goals, I've always wanted to make her orgasm in different ways other than in cow-girl positions.

However, she says she's only been able to cum via penetration and when she's on top, but I can't believe that's the only way!
I've already tried doing like a marathon on licking her out (and I've tried all masterful-techniques, I believe that it isn't my technique that is the problem) but she says she can't reach clitoral orgasm.

Has anyone else experienced a woman like this? How can I unlock the different types of orgasms in her? I was thinking of exploring the A-spot, can someone tell me about that too?

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

if she can cum on top she can cum on bottom. It is harder for my wife with her on bottom only because I have to find what she is feeling. Im kinda used to it now and can go right for it when im on top but it took a while. Pay attention to what she is doing with your member when she is on top and work on doing it for her when you are on top. The orgasms she has with me on top I think are better because she is more relaxed and im doing the work. I could literally go all day in the wrong direction until im exhausted and its never going to happen. On the clitoral thing I dont have one so im guessing! lol Have you guys tried to make her have a clitoral orgasm with a vibrator?

Does she cum with you in deep or shallow when she is on top?

[Blahman Member Find all posts View Profile Close Blahman]

As I mentioned before, she is the only person I have been with sexually, so what are some penetrative techniques you use to make your woman orgasm?

No we have not experimented with toys (yet) but maybe in the future we will!

And when I have an EQ of around 9 or 10, she cums easily when I'm in deep (granted, my unit is only around 6.5 BPEL right now) but she uses slight movements, forwards and back.
When I have a lower EQ like around 7 or 8 (since I have Pre E, we usually go for a second round, which I find hard to maintain), she usually orgasms with my all the way in, but with hard, vigorous movements, usually hard enough to rock the bed on me!! LOL

[Hopeful&dedicated Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hopeful&dedicated]

Fast, hard, consistant strokes for as long as it takes for her to orgasm. Have fun!

[SeaCock Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SeaCock]

Ok...you new at this...Next time your on top, don't lay on top of her. Support your weight with extended arms. It sounds like she orgasim from G spot stimulation. So when you stay above her like this it will cause your dick be forced up against her pelvic bone. Stay with short deep strokes. Not sure you EQ is a length issue to making her cum...might be your girth that she enjoys.

Might go for the G spot with your finger while going down on her too! Go at softly at first. Her reactions will tell you what to do next...also try going with a softer touch with you tongue. She might respond better to a softer touch. Tease her more when your down there...when she jams you face into her womenhood then eat like you've gone mad! But only then!

[Influence Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Influence]

She probably gets a clitoral orgasm on top. She can control the grinding of her clit on your pelvis. Thats why she likes it deep.

The next easiest spot would be the g spot. 2-3 inches deep, on the top. If you reach in you can feel a somewhat spongy area. If she's never had a g spot orgasm the easiest way to take her "g spot virginity" is by doing it with your fingers. Once she experiences it once or a few times it will be much easier with a penis. You can control the movement and hit the right spot a lot easier with your hands.

Good luck

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Try doggy and encourage her to use her hands on herself. She will have control of stimulation this way. All she is doing on top is controlling the physical contact.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

My wife cant cum by touching herself with me in her unless im completely still and i cant stay hard completely still

[jdavid1990 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close jdavid1990]

Hey guys!

One of the main reasons why I'm doing PE is because I want to satisfy my girl like no one else has, all love aside (she is the only one I've been with and she's been with a lot-a lot more). I want to be the best both romantically and sexually, and beyond!

Aside from my PE goals and Pre E goals, I've always wanted to make her orgasm in different ways other than in cow-girl positions.

However, she says she's only been able to cum via penetration and when she's on top, but I can't believe that's the only way!
I've already tried doing like a marathon on licking her out (and I've tried all masterful-techniques, I believe that it isn't my technique that is the problem) but she says she can't reach clitoral orgasm.

Has anyone else experienced a woman like this? How can I unlock the different types of orgasms in her? I was thinking of exploring the A-spot, can someone tell me about that too?

I'm on 4 in a row being the best they ever had its my best continuous record... The girl i'm with now being my biggest challenge a older black size queen. Let me tell you something mate... when it gets in the big leagues and you've got the big dick, the stamina, the skill whats left in the big league is the biggest and most important factor... emotional connection, intimacy, chemistry, basically you need to get inside they're mind with complexity and interest.

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xmbd88_the-deep-spot_na

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

I say 'why look a gift horse in the mouth', you have hit the jackpot in my view.