Why would you date a female who puts people down to make herself feel better?

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

Why would you date a true "ball breaker"? One who is going to say things and do things to put you down
so she can feel like she is over you?

Why would you do it, if you realize it's ingrained in her personality? Do you really want to put up with this.

What about if the shoe was on the other foot? Should a woman date a man who berates and puts her down?

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

No, just find someone thats fun to hang around.
Imagine her to be your wife and you have to deal with this behavior for the rest of your life!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Why would anyone date someone who puts them and other people down? Because some people are just plain stupid. I don't mean that in a mean way; some just are. Just go to your local department of motor vehicles and you'll see what I mean.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

No.

[Scienceman Member Find all posts View Profile Close Scienceman]

No. Simple as that. It's very unsexy. A turnoff. So there's no reason to date her.

Is there more to this question? Is she insanely hot? Does she have a magic snatch?

[5"penis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 5"penis]

Most women want their ass kissed I was married previously twice and now I am engaged for a third time but so far this one doesn't expect that. I get her more stuff and she is compltetely sane.

[paulzane Member Find all posts View Profile Close paulzane]

No way ..... I can't stand those type of people!

[BaltimoreJohn Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BaltimoreJohn]

No. Simple as that. It's very unsexy. A turnoff. So there's no reason to date her.

Is there more to this question? Is she insanely hot? Does she have a magic snatch?

Now that might make things more complicated haha

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

Now that might make things more complicated haha

This is how men get mindraped. A female who is attractive to him And/or has good pussy. She bashes and insults and disrespected him as his payment for being with her.

[faithandhope Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close faithandhope]

Insecurity? Some people don't feel worthy so they settle for less. This is kind of a pointless thread, can't you answer it for yourself? No offense, but I mean.. There are a billion alternate shitty traits we could put in. Why would you date someone who doesn't work and spends all your money? Why would you date someone whos a slob and a hypocrite? Why would you date someone who hits their dog? Well, if you already knew about the persons defect and started dating anyway, your an idiot. If you got trapped in emotion first, thats different.

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

We talk about alot of contriversial topics on this website. This conversation was initiated to talk about this particular situation which is not so uncommon.

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

Insecurity? Some people don't feel worthy so they settle for less. This is kind of a pointless thread, can't you answer it for yourself? No offense, but I mean.. There are a billion alternate shitty traits we could put in. Why would you date someone who doesn't work and spends all your money? Why would you date someone whos a slob and a hypocrite? Why would you date someone who hits their dog? Well, if you already knew about the persons defect and started dating anyway, your an idiot. If you got trapped in emotion first, thats different.

About the doesn't work trait, what if she was a housewife and carried her weight from within the house, taking responsibility and load off your back? I see about the "spend all your money" aspect in not respecting the money.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Hell No, we as human deal with enough negatives in our day to day life without having to add a nagger to the mix. That would be a miserable life! Since I work with victims of abuse I can tell you some people are really good and hiding their true colors or convincing their victims that they are not being mentally or physically abused.

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

Hell No, we as human deal with enough negatives in our day to day life without having to add a nagger to the mix. That would be a miserable life! Since I work with victims of abuse I can tell you some people are really good and hiding their true colors or convincing their victims that they are not being mentally or physically abused.

Not good. So they are building up their lust banks by degrading you?

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Not good. So they are building up their lust banks by degrading you?

Exactly and some of them really get off on humiliation and/or physical abuse. Men or women.