New relationship question

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Not, is not something you can eat but is something I can eat. Yummy!

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I like him. He's the first man since my divorce that has caught my brain and my ovary lol

It's only been a week but I ditch in the first half hour usually.

I will not jump in the sack with this man. I don't want to mess this up. I don't know that he would think less of me if we did but I would of him. It's a causality.

My question is if we continue on our current pace ( talking daily. He texts daily. We have seen each other twice in a row and have plans for this weekend) would it be slutty to have phone sex after the first month?

What and how to people STOP at kissing if they are alone?

At our age, mature 40 something's, that seems unbelievable.

Or

Am I uncontrollable?

Ill masturbate daily to keep the edge off but in person I just don't see how I can control it.

And frankly I don't see how he would say no lol

Your relationship M is starting EXACTLY like mine did with "Jane".....just go with it and ENJOY!!!



P.S. sorry it took me so long to respond :-)

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Thanks guys.

To the Looking crew up there: I'm not Latin but have always dated Cuban men and it is what I'm drawn to. Lol. Thanks for the posts!

The guy is smart and has common sense. Do I think he's my forever guy? No clue I can't think that way. But he's more than fling material. I really like him. Going with the flow best I can.
I want to eff his brains out for three full days but that day will come. Probably the day after I get back into town haha

Looking: our camp is in Cyoress we are way South. Get your ass back out there. It's Gods gift and one my favorites places to go. Get there before the dry season starts!!

MrBigDick. You are right. You are always right. I'm a pain in the ass I know that. We spoke for a few hours today. I want to feel more of him. I plan on exploring our control when I get back. I want to feel his body and he mine. Don't have to have sex ( lol lets see how that goes)

Thanks again everyone.

[Robberman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Robberman]

It's rare to see a positive thread in these forums and It's nice to see a relationship blossoming. I hope it turns out well for you islander, from your general postings and this thread it's about time you got something you deserve!

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Thanks guys.

To the Looking crew up there: I'm not Latin but have always dated Cuban men and it is what I'm drawn to. Lol. Thanks for the posts!

The guy is smart and has common sense. Do I think he's my forever guy? No clue I can't think that way. But he's more than fling material. I really like him. Going with the flow best I can.
I want to eff his brains out for three full days but that day will come. Probably the day after I get back into town haha

Looking: our camp is in Cyoress we are way South. Get your ass back out there. It's Gods gift and one my favorites places to go. Get there before the dry season starts!!

MrBigDick. You are right. You are always right. I'm a pain in the ass I know that. We spoke for a few hours today. I want to feel more of him. I plan on exploring our control when I get back. I want to feel his body and he mine. Don't have to have sex ( lol lets see how that goes)

Thanks again everyone.

You got this islander!!! YOU CAN DO IT CHICA!!!!!!:-)

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

It's rare to see a positive thread in these forums and It's nice to see a relationship blossoming. I hope it turns out well for you islander, from your general postings and this thread it's about time you got something you deserve!

I agree.........islander rocks.......;-)

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Thank you Robberman. Lol for your member name!

I spoke to some online and in person people in my life. My worrying about specific time lines doesn't matter. I realize that now.

If you click and have a genuine interest and the physical clicks too great. It will be up to us to continue to develop both parts if we truly want to. I've been reading too much I guess lol

I can't and I shouldn't hide the sexy part of me. It's me and it comes in my package.

So I can't thank you all enough for letting me talk this out and y'all taking your time to post. Really a great place.

Now you see why I stay here after so many years!! Lol

Kisses!

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Thank you Robberman. Lol for your member name!

I spoke to some online and in person people in my life. My worrying about specific time lines doesn't matter. I realize that now.

If you click and have a genuine interest and the physical clicks too great. It will be up to us to continue to develop both parts if we truly want to. I've been reading too much I guess lol

I can't and I shouldn't hide the sexy part of me. It's me and it comes in my package.

So I can't thank you all enough for letting me talk this out and y'all taking your time to post. Really a great place.

Now you see why I stay here after so many years!! Lol

Kisses!

You stay because you love us :-)

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

You stay because you love us :-)

Of course she does. We're just too irresistably loveable,LOL!

[Hephaestus Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hephaestus]

Islander, I know you're worried with seeming sluttly, but a woman with your sexual appetite is a rare tresure. If he's really the right man for you, he'll satisfy you, always and as soon as he notices that you have this big appetite, he will either become an ideal partner, sharing the same sexual appetite as you or adapt to your needs.

[Guest Close shanghai1334]

Mature adults need to go into a relationships understanding you are adults. You can have a great time enjoying each others company doing whatever the two of you want. Personally without her being affected by alcohol in making wrong decisions and she wants to have sex on the first time I would not think less of her. I as a man if I am wanting a long term relaionship with her has nothing to do when she wants to have sex. It is the person I am with not what the person has between her legs. Even though that can affect your thinking abilties at times lol.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Thanks Shang!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Hey islander, smile!

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Lol. How did u know I wasn't smiling? That's odd.

I'm so happy for Argo winning best picture though

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

lol I know everything!

but wait... who is Argo? Seems I don't know everybody lol darn it!



EDIT: I guess it's a movie lol I am so not a movie guy lol