How To Ask A Girl Out?

[charles-perry Banned Find all posts View Profile Close charles-perry]

Hey guys!

Can someone give me some tips on how to ask a girl out?

I'm seeing several girls on the london underground that I am attracted to (contrary to my problem before) and want to ask out but blank out. I don't seem to think anything negative which is good e.g. I'm not good enough, she wont like me etc. I just have no idea how to talk to her or what to say.

I did google around and people say to:

1. Give her a compliment - seriously on the london underground I think she will think you are a freak if you say 'you have nice hair' LOL
2. Make her laugh - what if she has headphones on?
3. Ask her out for coffee - but don't you need to introduce yourself or something? shake hands? idk - real noob here.

Please can someone fill me in.

Thanks!

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Just be you, don't try and be anyone youre not... Women can tell a fake from someone who is real in a heartbeat, and if they feel you are, you have no chance in hell with them. Don't try any lines, or try and be funny at first, just be yourself. If they don't like you for that, they aint the one you need to waste time on. Just try eye contact, if they stare back with a smile, youre in there, until you fuck up from tryin the things that I said not to do, LOL... Just relax and be you bro...

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Say hello first, if she talks to you talk back, then ask her out for coffee. If she decides to talk to you after you say hello the odds are in your favor.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Compliments are good openers. They won't think you're a freak if you are genuine with it.
If they have headphones on you can interrupt them.

How to ask a girl out? "Hey let's go out!" Don't you need to know them first? Yea! duh. So go talk to them and get to know them? "But toadstool, how??" Well that's easy. Go up to her and say, hey you look cool I wanted to come get to know you.

[bballer123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bballer123]

Just say Hi and introduce your self first by saying your name and asking for her name

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Ask her to pull your finger.

[eow. Member of the Month April 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close eow.]

What is all of this "london underground" stuff?

[Almighty Pain Member Find all posts View Profile Close Almighty Pain]

Just be yourself and talk to them and make sure you make them feel you are interested to them and if they show interest in you then go for it and tell them that you find them very attractive and beautiful and would like to go on a date. When I used to date other girls in the past once I realize they are also attracted to me I even go for a kiss and it worked for me. Just be assertive and never be shy or afraid of rejection as most of the time girls will not make the move for you even if they are interested and nothing will happen. Just simply go for it and don't be scared of rejection there are lots of fish in the ocean, and rejected or not you also gain experience from it and eventually you will become good at it. The problem with most guys is that they are afraid of rejection and that's why they lack experience in dating.

[charles-perry Banned Find all posts View Profile Close charles-perry]

Nice advice - thanks!
Not afraid of rejection- better to ask and get rejected then never ask at all. Usually what happens is I end up checking her out and then 'forget' to ask her out. Or spend too much time thinking how to ask her out.

Isn't saying hi would you like to go on a date or paying a compliment on the London Underground a but weird... You are a stranger to her after all.

[averagedick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close averagedick]

Ye know you could put your number on a piece of paper and give it to her could be that simple if she texts your in

[averagedick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close averagedick]

Underground is the metro or subway you could by a yukele and sing girl on the platform smile ha ha works on the adds

[Qarzan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qarzan]

I was walking around with a guy with tons of swag yesterday. He was wearing a full 3-piece pin striped suit and a wide-brimmed fedora. He walks with a limp on his right side, but it seems to give him more swagger and cool.

We were going to get some lunch when a blonde woman was waiting at the corner with us to cross the street. Here's how he handled it (like a pro).

[him] "Good morning. How are you today?"
[her] "I'm doing fine, thanks. How are you?"
[him] "I'm doing very well. Thanks for asking."
[signal changed and we all started walking across the street.]
[him] "Are you going to lunch?"
[she ignores him and keeps walking]

[me] "It was worth a shot."

If you ask, at least you've created the possibility that she'll say yes, because if you never ask, the answer is always "no." So just ask.