Ok guys, I've been posting and giving advice a lot. I've also been posting about how many dates I'm getting and stuff. But I'm getting nervous this time.
Woman [Z], I met her dancing, I've known her for a few months now. She's definitely at 10 out of 10; she's got a hot hot body (she's a pole dancer in great shape), great bubbly personality, she runs her own comedy improv company. I mean, good lord! Brains, body, humor, what the hell else can you ask for?
Anyways, she came to my house party over the weekend. We danced two songs near the end of the party, I think I saved her from having to dance with this one really annoying drunk guy. Then I gave her a tour around the house, when she left, she leaned in and gave me a kiss. It was kind of on the cheek, a little close to the lips. I kissed back simultaneously, also semi on the lips, but really didn't think anything of it at the time. Then she left.
Later on, I was thinking about the kiss goodbye. I got a feeling that if there were any time to make any kind of move on this woman, it was RIGHT NOW. I sent her a facebook message saying that we should get together and talk more. She didn't respond. Then I saw her tonight at the Monday night venue. I danced with her, she seemed really happy and smiley. At the end of the dance, she said, "Yes, I'd love to talk more."
I replied, "We should find time, then." And then I was asked by another friend to dance.
Later on, I was trying to ask the instructor to dance, and [Z] swooped in and took me into an embrace. Needless to say, we ended up dancing. Then after that dance, I said, "Hey, so if we're going to find some time to talk, I need your phone number. Follow me."
She followed me to my phone, and she gave me her number. I texted her, "Hi [Z], this is [Q]." so that she had my number. When she left the venue, she passed by me and brushed her hand across my waist.
Now I feel really nervous, and I don't know why. I mean, I've asked out so many women, some say yes, some say no. But this one's different. I think it's because she's so goddam hot that it makes my head spin. If she were my girlfriend, I'd spend all day giving her a thousand orgasms, until she couldn't walk straight.
But at the same time I know that working myself up like this isn't going to do any good. I need to be present, and not have expectations, so we can have real, genuine conversation. My brain is filling up with all these thoughts and fantasies and fears, and it's a bit unnerving.
I don't know if I'm asking for advice or what. I think I just want to tell you all what's going on. It would help me if you guys gave me a confidence boost. Thanks!
Woman [Z], I met her dancing, I've known her for a few months now. She's definitely at 10 out of 10; she's got a hot hot body (she's a pole dancer in great shape), great bubbly personality, she runs her own comedy improv company. I mean, good lord! Brains, body, humor, what the hell else can you ask for?
Anyways, she came to my house party over the weekend. We danced two songs near the end of the party, I think I saved her from having to dance with this one really annoying drunk guy. Then I gave her a tour around the house, when she left, she leaned in and gave me a kiss. It was kind of on the cheek, a little close to the lips. I kissed back simultaneously, also semi on the lips, but really didn't think anything of it at the time. Then she left.
Later on, I was thinking about the kiss goodbye. I got a feeling that if there were any time to make any kind of move on this woman, it was RIGHT NOW. I sent her a facebook message saying that we should get together and talk more. She didn't respond. Then I saw her tonight at the Monday night venue. I danced with her, she seemed really happy and smiley. At the end of the dance, she said, "Yes, I'd love to talk more."
I replied, "We should find time, then." And then I was asked by another friend to dance.
Later on, I was trying to ask the instructor to dance, and [Z] swooped in and took me into an embrace. Needless to say, we ended up dancing. Then after that dance, I said, "Hey, so if we're going to find some time to talk, I need your phone number. Follow me."
She followed me to my phone, and she gave me her number. I texted her, "Hi [Z], this is [Q]." so that she had my number. When she left the venue, she passed by me and brushed her hand across my waist.
Now I feel really nervous, and I don't know why. I mean, I've asked out so many women, some say yes, some say no. But this one's different. I think it's because she's so goddam hot that it makes my head spin. If she were my girlfriend, I'd spend all day giving her a thousand orgasms, until she couldn't walk straight.
But at the same time I know that working myself up like this isn't going to do any good. I need to be present, and not have expectations, so we can have real, genuine conversation. My brain is filling up with all these thoughts and fantasies and fears, and it's a bit unnerving.
I don't know if I'm asking for advice or what. I think I just want to tell you all what's going on. It would help me if you guys gave me a confidence boost. Thanks!
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