Coming to terms with the woman u love having large vagina

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

I wonder how many men would decide to stay with a woman who factually has a large vagina. No exercise or surgery can fix it. Only the entrance and tighten the walls but its wide and long and will always loosen back up.
She's everything you want but the fact of the matter is your dick gets lost inside her. You will never feel that tight squeeze or fight to get inside her.
You know you can never hurt her with your tool.
You will never get pushed back.
She will never get sore and never be able to say you fill her up.
But she loves you. You love her. You both are otherwise perfect for each other.
The sex is still good. You both are aroused. You get each other off in other ways. You can't stand a day without her.
You know there are bigger dicked men out there who would love this woman.
Knowing you have potentially fifty years of life to live would you accept this sex incompatibility. Or just bow out and seek another?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Can't see how kegels wouldn't fix this, then again many women refuse to do them.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

The things I noticed the most were that in this scenario we loved each other, the sex was still good and I could not stand to be a day without her. Adds up to a keeper for me, I would stay with her.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

You foolish man - You claim to love her and now have second thoughts because your dick is lost?

Is what i would say.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

This is a messed up question, Islander and I seriously hope the man in your life is not going through this with you, just for your own sake. I hope it's just some hypothetical that came inside your head, although I do see this sort of thing pop up in the forums from time to time.

How big can this vagina possibly be? Is it some cavernous hidden wonder of the world, where devil bats and pirate treasures lay hidden? Is this where the fabled Atlantis rests?
Honestly now. If a man can find a woman perfect in every other way, why would he concern himself with such a small insignificant detail as the size of her lady parts? You said the sex is good and that you both know how to please each other. Is that not enough? What more do you want? By what fictitious standard of sexual enjoyment is this man comparing himself to?
If a man is looking to hurt a woman with his tool, he has some issues he needs to work out. Just sayin'. If he would throw all of that other good stuff away because he's not filling her up as much as he should in his own mind, then that relationship was destined to fail before it even began. This dude has some inner work to do and it likely has nothing to do with anyone's VJ.

I'm seeing this one girl and I guess she has a large vagina. Personally, I think the whole "vaginal size" thing is fucking stupid (incase you haven't guessed it yet) and I have NEVER thought to myself, "wow this girl has a pretty wide vaginal cavity" until I came to the PE gym. Even now, I only think about it when someone mentions it here. But since you mentioned it, I'm reminded of this girl I'm currently seeing.
Most girls want me to slow down and "rev the engine" so to speak. Not this one little freak I'm seeing. Nope, she likes it rough and dirty right from the start. Do I fill her up? Um, probably not. She's had a couple of children and I don't feel any sort of squeezing or whatever else someone is supposed to feel. Does that stop her from coming like a volcano? Not even the slightest. This girl gushes for me (you might have read about my bedsheet problems with her in my log).

Maybe that's because I make her feel good. Maybe that's because I'm working hard at really bringing out her true character and trying to cut all the games and bullshit that we throw into romance. Maybe that's because I absolutely dominate her in the bedroom (And shower, and elevator, and staircase, and that dark alleyway that one time...). At what point should a man stop and think "oh, her vagina is too big to enjoy myself?" Did that sound as retarded to you as it did to me? I certainly hope so.
I by no means am aiming at spending the next 50 years of my life with her. As far as our current lifestyles are concerned, we fit in perfectly with each other and I don't see why any thing else should matter.

Sorry guys, but I have this impression that concerning yourself with the size of her vag is probably a reflection of your own insecurities ... and that's lame. Do PE, grow up a little, and enjoy this amazing woman you've found.

[Focused Member Find all posts View Profile Close Focused]

Jesus christ Toadstool just laid a fucking sermon and I think I caught the holy ghost.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Go Toad go!

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

If she still likes my dick then I don't see a problem with her large vagina.

As far as I'm concerned size only matters for her pleasure, if she's fine with what I have and the rest is like what you said then why would I ever seek another, but the odds are against non thick penises here though.

And why would I want to hurt her during penetration? If she's into that type of play, there are other ways to fulfill that desire otherwise just knowing that she'd hurt from having sex would make me feel bad.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

Why does toad get some and i don't?

[Sonny747 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sonny747]

Way better than a stinky pooter But that's another post. I dated a tiny asian girl who had the monstrous cavern. I also dated a bigger Caucasian woman with an opening like a keyhole. I'm not sure which I liked better..

[Appleman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Appleman]

This question is embarrassing and I don't think the said woman would be happy to see such kind.
Anyway, do your PE and preach to her the importance of kegels and am sure within a year this will no longer be a bother. If she enjoys sex with you then why worry? All that matters is satisfaction unless I am off point.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

Nope, not a big deal at all. Weird question...

She can kegel to make it feel as big as she wants.

[BTA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTA]

If she knew the situation and refused to kegel, I would consider that pretty selfish.

Especially if the guy is putting effort into his side of things.

That is just me and people will probably disagree with me. But I really can't understand why some girls refuse to kegel. It makes sex better for BOTH parties and makes it easier for both parties to cum, and to cum more often.

Why the hell would you not do it?? Out of some kind of insecurity that the guy should love you regardless of the size of your vag?

That's like someone weighing 200kgs and not bothering to lose the weight because your partner should love you anyway.

[TehDBare Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TehDBare]

Seems to me that islander is playing a little reversed psychology here. For all those concerned about never being able to please a woman or having a woman leave you because of your size, take a new look at the situation from the perspective Islander presents. There's more to a good relationship and good sex than the size of your tool.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

The question is framnkly ridiculous and obviously plays on ego insecurities as well as genuine relationship issues .
Sloppy vag, do kegels, end of story.