Should i start a relationship with her?

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Porn and masturbation is MUCHHH harder to quit than weed. I have yet not been able to quit jacking it but I've stayed clean of weed, cocaine, heroin, and even alcohol for 80 days...I even was able to go without smoking cigarettes for a good two weeks. But since masturbation is free and extremely fun and you can do it anytime, I have lost the resistance to not ejaculate. The longest I went without masturbaton was 4 days. Weed supports masturbation whenever I smoke weed I get so horny jacking off becomes the first priority.

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Ok so a i have a little update. We hung out today and the topic about relationship came up. She says shes scared of getting hurt. I guess her last relationships didn't go all that well. Anyways she asked me a bunch of questions, they actually started to get annoying. However, one question she asked stuck out. She asked "what would change if we were in a relationship?". Now this question kinda stumped me. I didn't really know what to say. So i thought about for a moment and replied with "ill always be there for you" lol. I thought this was a pretty lame answers but, honestly didn't know what to say. Like what would change besides sex? i'm not sure. Other then the label. I'm still thinking about it.
She didn't say no but she didn't say yes either. She said lets just see where it goes...
Like really what should i be prepared for??
Also she said if something happened now, for instance, i hook up with someone else or something she would be less hurt then if we were dating. I assured her that if we were dating then i wouldn't be hooking up with anyone else or doing anything like that. Not to sound conceited or anything but i'm a pretty attractive guy and she wonders why i'm not in a relationship and haven't been in one for some time. It's pretty much due to PMO habit hat i use to have but, I wouldn't dare tell her that now.
Anyways i'm just looking for any kind of advice.
thanks.

Every relationship has a beginning and you two will have to start somewhere should you both decide to make it a relationship. Just take things one step and one day at a time but if you're interested in this girl and she you, I wouldn't delay, I'd let her know now and go from there.

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Just for the heads up, women do not compare dick size, we compare intimacy levels, the more intimate it is the better it is, if you can stave off for a while in hope that when you get down to it, the intensity will bring you together like sausage and mash, mind the pun, then do that.
Don't rush into it, have you thought about telling her that at the moment you're a little self conscious, let her boost your ego, lay it all out, she will fucking cherish you for it, and then hopefully give you more head.

NJay12, this quote really helped me out. Thanks!

iv'e been clean from weed and pmo for a month and 2 weeks now. I occasional will watch it for a minute or 2 the realize what im doing and turn it off. This mostly happens if we don't have sex for a few days. your right about weed being hard to stay away from, especially when all your friends smoke. I just had to learn to say no. thanks for the reply!

Fuck yeah, dude! Way to stay clean and sober.

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Congratulations! Things are looking good for you, keep up the good work.