Problem

[shamrock1790 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close shamrock1790]

So im about 4.5-5EL by about closer to 5 EG but im extremely self conscious to the point where I cant even have sex anymore. I had this sexy chick buck naked straddling me in the hot tub telling me we should fuck and I did nuthing because of my fears and insecurities. Ive almost completely lost the ability to talk to women or even just being myself. The last chick I was with cheated on me with her ex and shes tellin people I got a small dick and makin jokes about it which is pretty depressing and brings me down quite a bit. I used to be a very upbeat happy person didnt care what anyone thought, loved to be goofy and have a good time and would talk ur ear off, now im very reserved cant go dance at bars or even strike up a conversation. its like my mind has already shut itself down and i feel lost, broken,unworthy and that I will never find someone that would love me for me not wanting anymore than what I have. it bugs me every single day of my life and its detroying me and I dont know how to fix it. I tried PEing a while ago for 4 months and gave up cause I seen no results at all but this is my only option so I gotta try again

[anonymity Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anonymity]

Holy Crap! What a bitch! Does she say such nonsense infront of you? If she does perhaps you should point out that maybe it's that her vagina is like a wizards sleeve that the most aggressive kegels could not repair. (that'll shut her up) Regardless, your missin the forest for the trees my love. SEXY NAKED CHICK STRADDLING you in a hot tub!
She obviously wants what you have. Focus love.

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

Hey buddy. Relax. Take a breath. Your problem can be fixed.

Start your PE exercises. Don't worry about size gains, focus on the functional gains - like EQ. PE will get your dick stronger, and please trust me, a strong hard cock is what women want. Woman don't care about inches (although you are normal in that dept.). In the mean time try to avoid watching porn and cut back on jerkin. Porn made me feel exactly like you do now. Porn was the source of my insecurities and issues. I, like you, thought I had a small lame-ass penis. And guess what? I did! Porn gave me ED and DE. My dick was so lame that my own wife stopped wanting to have sex with me. BUT here is the good news ... as soon as I stopped watching porn, my penis insecurities and issues simply vanished. Now I think my cock rocks! And guess what? I am right, it does!

Your problem is in the way you think, not the size of your penis. There are guys with much smaller penis' than you, and they are loving life, meeting women, having fun, and getting laid. The solution, therefore, is changing the way you think. Think about that for a while. I'll have more suggestions later. Ok?