Still a virgin because of 5.7 inch dick?

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Most 18 year old boys lie about getting laid. I did not get laid until I was almost 18.

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I agree with what you guys have said. Confidence is key. The problem is to get confidence... How do you do it? I feel like everyone are so busy these days and it's nearly like they get creeped out if they get approached by someone they don't know. They are like: "wow, wtf do this weirdo want?"

I remember I was taking a course a few months back and it was about 20 people on the course, about half women and half men. All aged between 16 and 24. I was one of the first to arrive, so I sat down to wait for people to come and for the entire thing to start. After a while, more and more people came, but not a single one said anything at all, they just sat down and checked their phones the entire time, I don't even know how they could spend so much time on their phones. The same happened in the breaks, not a single one said anything. 1 or 2 guys were asking questions during the course but that was pretty much it. In the breaks their mouths were entirely shut. This was a 5 day course. The next day, the same thing happens. Not a single one had opened his / her mouth once. The next day the same happens. On the 4th day 2 people start to talk about random stuff about the course when they arraived waiting for it to start. In the break they hang out and went to get some food, about 1 or 2 others joined them as well. On the 5th day it was just these 3-4 guys talking, before it starts, in the breaks and when they were leaving. Not a single other one had said a damn thing. Then it ended and about 75% of the people who were on the course didn't open their mouth once. I was one of them.

This makes me wonder what this world is coming to. How do I increase my confidence? People are either very busy going somewhere, or they are studying and wanting complete silence. If they are doing neither of this they are back on the phone doing random stuff. If they are not doing 1 of these things, it's usually a group of them and as a starter I wouldn't really appraoch a group of women...

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I got a feeling that life was better and more natural back in the days. Phones and facebook destroyed everything lol.

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I mean... Look on statistics of singles and how many how lives alone in 2013 and compare it to 1990. It's insane. Look on statistics of frequency of sex among couples from 1990 and 2013, drastical reduction. Porn, computers, phones, facebook and internet is taking over. What has this world come to.

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I agree with what you guys have said. Confidence is key. The problem is to get confidence... How do you do it? I feel like everyone are so busy these days and it's nearly like they get creeped out if they get approached by someone they don't know. They are like: "wow, wtf do this weirdo want?"

I remember I was taking a course a few months back and it was about 20 people on the course, about half women and half men. All aged between 16 and 24. I was one of the first to arrive, so I sat down to wait for people to come and for the entire thing to start. After a while, more and more people came, but not a single one said anything at all, they just sat down and checked their phones the entire time, I don't even know how they could spend so much time on their phones. The same happened in the breaks, not a single one said anything. 1 or 2 guys were asking questions during the course but that was pretty much it. In the breaks their mouths were entirely shut. This was a 5 day course. The next day, the same thing happens. Not a single one had opened his / her mouth once. The next day the same happens. On the 4th day 2 people start to talk about random stuff about the course when they arraived waiting for it to start. In the break they hang out and went to get some food, about 1 or 2 others joined them as well. On the 5th day it was just these 3-4 guys talking, before it starts, in the breaks and when they were leaving. Not a single other one had said a damn thing. Then it ended and about 75% of the people who were on the course didn't open their mouth once. I was one of them.

This makes me wonder what this world is coming to. How do I increase my confidence? People are either very busy going somewhere, or they are studying and wanting complete silence. If they are doing neither of this they are back on the phone doing random stuff. If they are not doing 1 of these things, it's usually a group of them and as a starter I wouldn't really appraoch a group of women...

You have to search within yourself to find out why you feel the way you do. Are you basing your lack of confidence on superficialities and unwarranted negative views about yourself? If you could see inside others' heads you'd be surprised at just how insecure most people are.

What you said about people in groups ignoring each other to type on their phones is eerie, but something that one sees more and more of nowadays. It is not a good trend

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I absolutely HATE how people, especially young girls, are COMPLETELY OBSESSED with their damn smart phones. Jesus Christ give me a break! I saw some younger relatives over christmas, and my tween cousins were just playing games on their cell phones the whole time. I had to say:NO CELL PHONES AT THE DINNER TABLE! good lord its bad. I, on the other hand, have a humble basic cell phone that dosen't even have a camera. I make calls and text people once and a while.

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Confidence is not necessary. A loving and caring approach is the preferred method of getting her into the appropriate mood and willingness to "submit." Lots of caressing and slow, erotic stimulation is the way to go. It may not take place on the first encounter, but if you truly love one another, it will eventually come/cum.

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Confidence is not necessary. A loving and caring approach is the preferred method of getting her into the appropriate mood and willingness to "submit." Lots of caressing and slow, erotic stimulation is the way to go. It may not take place on the first encounter, but if you truly love one another, it will eventually come/cum.

I agree about a loving and caring approach, but sometimes there are certain issues that need to be overcome if one lacks confidence. If someone does not like themselves, they might not be able to understand why others would like them. Even worse, they might think that there was something wrong with those who would like them.

Someone once told me something that he discovered about some of the women that he had dated. This gentleman went through a phase where he was attracted to the "damsel in distress" type. He discovered that these women, who had some very serious self-esteem issues, did not respond favorably to being treated with kindness *in the attempt at fostering a romantic relationship.

Once, one of them was candid enough to tell him something like the following: "I'm messed up and unworthy of being loved, so if someone can find it within themselves to love me, they have to be even more messed up than I am".

*I made this annotation to point out that people in these situations should still be treated with kindness, but that pursuing a serious relationship with them might be something that you might wish to hold off on- at least until that person can find it within to allow themselves to be loved genuinely.

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I agree about a loving and caring approach, but sometimes there are certain issues that need to be overcome if one lacks confidence. If someone does not like themselves, they might not be able to understand why others would like them. Even worse, they might think that there was something wrong with those who would like them.

Someone once told me something that he discovered about some of the women that he had dated. This gentleman went through a phase where he was attracted to the "damsel in distress" type. He discovered that these women, who had some very serious self-esteem issues, did not respond favorably to being treated with kindness *in the attempt at fostering a romantic relationship.

Once, one of them was candid enough to tell him something like the following: "I'm messed up and unworthy of being loved, so if someone can find it within themselves to love me, they have to be even more messed up than I am".

*I made this annotation to point out that people in these situations should still be treated with kindness, but that pursuing a serious relationship with them might be something that you might wish to hold off on- at least until that person can find it within to allow themselves to be loved genuinely.

While I think there are people who believe/know they are unlovable, I find it hard to understand that they would think that a person offering them love is messed up or look down on them, maybe disbelieve them but not discredit them that much.

They are suffering a great deal, wish there was a way to help them.

[seanyboy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close seanyboy]

Im sorry, how is BPEL usable when u cant even see it? Not trying to spark a war here just kinda lost on that.

As you can feel, the fat around the pubis area is very soft like a pillow. You just use her ass cheeks to move it out of the way when you penetrate. The two best positions for this is doggy style and when her legs on your shoulders when you're in the missionary position.

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While I think there are people who believe/know they are unlovable, I find it hard to understand that they would think that a person offering them love is messed up or look down on them, maybe disbelieve them but not discredit them that much.

They are suffering a great deal, wish there was a way to help them.

Take a read through some of the posts on this forum written by despondent men suffering from anxiety and you'll see common elements of self-loathing in them. helping them is necessary thing to do, but you'll often get resistance. You also have to know when to allow them the leeway to do their own thing for awhile.

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While I think there are people who believe/know they are unlovable, I find it hard to understand that they would think that a person offering them love is messed up or look down on them, maybe disbelieve them but not discredit them that much.

They are suffering a great deal, wish there was a way to help them.

Nobody has ever offered love to/for me. (Except my family)

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Nobody has ever offered love to/for me. (Except my family)

Well I love ya TNG2 and I haven't even met you...

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Scared to go after girls/take it out because it's only 5.7 ish....6.5 bpel, and around 4.5-4.8 around. Seen pornos where guys have my sizeish dick and the girl never REALLY enjoys it. Vaginas can stretch ALOT and when u can see there's good friction girls really like it....

i keep thinking i'll get bigger THEN have sex....dont want girl to be disappointed and be embarrassed

Hey, 6-speed,

You really need to stop this “penetration panic” right here, right now. You are not only denying yourself the opportunity to experience tremendous pleasure, you are basing your fears on a whole lot of misinformation about a women’s sexual anatomy. For example...

1. A women’s sexual arousal begins in her mind; turn her on mentally and her body will follow.

2. While a man’s sexuality is centred on his penis, a women’s sexuality encompasses her entire body. It is the primary reason women enjoy (need) kissing and foreplay so much. In fact, did you know that a woman can achieve orgasm from her lover kissing her mouth or kissing and fondling her breasts alone; with no contact with her genitals whatsoever?

3. Because a man’s greatest sexual pleasure is often centred on his member, they often make the assumption that it must be the same for women; that her greatest sexual pleasure is centred within her vagina. This is simply untrue. Her epicenter of pleasure is the almighty clitoris; an area of a women’s body whose only purpose is for sexual enjoyment. And since it is located outside the vagina and only about the size of a pencil eraser, a man's penis size has very little bearing on its stimulation. In fact, the man will have greater success helping her achieve orgasm orally or manually or through frottage.

4. You are also assuming that because penis-in-vagina penetration will usually bring a man to orgasm, that it must be the same for women. Not necessarily; only about 20-30% of women can achieve orgasm from penetration alone. So you are focusing entirely on a sexual act that is likely to be unsuccessful 70-80% of the time; seems kind of silly, don’t you think?

Yes, penis-in-vagina penetration is incredibly pleasurable for most women but you need to remember that the average vaginal canal is only 3-5 inches long and that the majority of nerve endings are located only within the first inch so I ask you, how could your size not be pleasurable to a woman?

So please, please stop worrying about your penis size and instead spend time learning about a woman's sexual anatomy and all the different ways a woman can be sexually pleasured; both with your already perfectly-sized penis and without…trust me, there are plenty!

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I don't know if this has been stated yet but adding onto where Joint-Expansion was talking about pelvis grinding, Chicks love having their clit stimulated by your pelvis. I don't know if the pleasure varies depending on how much fat you have on your pelvis but I am assuming it feels nice regardless.

Also "TPW" have you heard of the YouTube channel "Sexplanations"?
Very insightful.

Honestly I like to feel like I have earned the pleasure of having sex with my girlfriend by first giving her an orgasm via oral stimulation to her clit and penetration with fingers. It's more fun and I feel more confident after she has had at least one orgasm.